Let's be honest, relationships take hard work. Lots of tolerance, patience and endurance in some instances. Same for holding down a good job and excelling in your career. They can both come with their blessings and good times. To be clear here, I'm referring to a long term and committed relationship like marriage. Sometimes, you go through tough times at work. There are legitimate reasons that can make you frustrated easily. Reasons like racism, sexual harassment and a very evil/ opportunist boss. Some reasons why people might get out of a committed relationship are: infidelity, diabolic habits and addiction.

I have heard of people who took that jump and left abusive relationships or job situations and went on to find something better soon after. But there are people who are chained down by a fear of the unknown and would rather stick to the familiar environment even if it is self destructive.

So I would like to know which one is easier to leave? An abusive relationship or a terrible job? Is there anyone here who took that leap of faith and regretted soon after? Are there any good testimonies?

Relationship cost money.job gives money.do the maths Mr op?

general111:
Relationship cost money.job gives money.do the maths Mr op?

Let's go with the assumption that it is a committed relationship (for example, with children involved). You have vested interest in some things, like property, etc.
I no be Mr oh.

Annalise:


Let's go with the assumption that it is a committed relationship (for example, with children involved). You have vested interest in some things, like property, etc.
I no be Mr oh.

my bad.thought you was a male.
You never specified the type of relationship na.I thought it you mearnt dating..

general111:
my bad.thought you was a male.
You never specified the type of relationship na.I thought it you mearnt dating..

Oya which one is easier to leave and do you have any experience leaving anyone of them, given the reasons above?

Annalise:


Oya which one is easier to leave and do you have any experience leaving anyone of them, given the reasons above?

I can't leave my job because of a gal.except its an illegitimate job..only a wife can make me do that.

general111:
I can't leave my job because of a gal.except its an illegitimate job..only a wife can make me do that.

I don't mean leaving one because of the other. I mean, which one would be easier? What if it is in terrible work conditions?

Annalise:


I don't mean leaving one because of the other. I mean, which one would be easier? What if it is in terrible work conditions?

oh!it will be very easy to dump a galfrnd oh.