"Love the one you marry and not marry the one you love"- How true is this?

Really, in the long run it doesn't matter. Which ever one floats your boat, just sail wiv it.

My 2cents, tho

says who!

thats a hard one,
     i remain undecided

It makes a little sense though but i dont wish to marry a person till i love him but marry the one i love.

why are people sooooooooooo caught up with marriage and why do some women feel so useless if they do not have a husband    
and as for your post what happen if the marriage was a force one, it is only natural to marry the one you love.

I prefer non.What i pray for as a guy is to marry someone that loves me.By that i'll be secured

So true love especially if you are a women. To me o, men dont know how to love in Nigeria.So if they love you more better for the relationship

This is really true. Infact, there's no place in the Bible that says that you should marry the person you love. rather, husbands are commanded to love their wives. However, i still thing there must be an element of attraction between the two parties.

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Marry the one you love and love him while you are married.

michelin89:

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Marry the one you love and love him while you are married.

Second!

To develop love after marriage may not be easy. It's best to marry the one u love especially if s/he loves u back.

ThoniaSlim:

Second!

anthonia~