There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.

bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.

My brother, if you truely have it ... Please, give her and save her family from dying of hunger.
Na recession.

Here we go again

So na #5000 go change her mind . If u wan gv her gv her, if u no wan gv her tell her say u no gv, spare us all dis threads

bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.

Since u ve the morning to give, don't, but give her night..

Back to ur story;
Tell her u don't give ur money to people with less regard.

MamaTej:


My brother, if you truely have it ... Please, give her and save her family from dying of hunger.
Na recession.

It looks like you are the very girl ...................... and way i reserved my word

Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..

uwagimboo:


Since u ve the morning to give, don't, but give her night..

Back to ur story;
Tell her u don't give ur money to people with less regard.

Whether he used morning or night, certain errors should be overlooked.

Point is...we got his message.

The fact that she refused to date you doesn't mean you shouldn't help. If you have enough and you know you won't feel it when you give, then give her the money.
It's not about the relationship you seek, it's about helping someone in need.

Don't let her rejection of your proposal destroy your good heart!

#divine reward#

uwagimboo:


Since u ve the morning to give, don't, but give her night..

Back to ur story;
Tell her u don't give ur money to people with less regard.

Your stupidity ehn..


You too much

makelove2m:


It looks like you are the very girl ...................... and way i reserved my word

So what if I'm "the very girl".
That still doesn't stop him from assisting "the very girl".

She's begging u for money not relationship

So give her if u have

ifex370:



Your stupidity ehn..


You too much

Asin eehhh

ifex370:



Your stupidity ehn..


You too much

Sure u re referring to ur folks...

Internet has empowered you, so kontinew

givers never lack ......give her

bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.

...is she Nigerian? (No oofease)

It is so sad when people always want to get reward for every good thing they to for others.

U can say, u don't have money to give her or that u don't want to give.

But attaching it to the fact that she refused to date u? My man, that is so lame.


U are bigger than that.

UniQuegrACE:
givers never lack ......give her

lol its laughable when ladies say givers never lack buh get stingy with the kitty...






Hi, i'm dingbang..

MamaTej:


My brother, if you truely have it ... Please, give her and save her family from dying of hunger.
Na recession.

Follow this advice at your own peril.

crazymommy:
Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..

He should not fvcking give her any money…girls always wanna eat their cakes and have it, fafafa....foul

Smh, y'all be be saying "give if you have", but my question is why would a girl who looked you straight in the eyes and said NO that she doesn't wanna date you for "no just reason" all of a sudden turns back to ask you for money huh??....ok, what happens to other of her toasters??...for me i wouldn't give her because she didn't give me reasons for turning me down...that's an ego bruised and plus i think she was looking down on the guy asking her out, more like, "he's not my type", but he's your "type" when it comes to giving money abi??...op, if you dare give her shishi you'd be the biggest maga i 've ever seen this year...i mean from jan-nov 28, 2016, rubbish, nonsense

dingbang:
lol its laughable when ladies say givers never lack buh get stingy with the kitty...






Hi, i'm dingbang..

u cant compare THAT wiv money........hello

dingbang:
lol its laughable when ladies say givers never lack buh get stingy with the kitty...






Hi, i'm dingbang..

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firstking01:
Smh, y'all be be saying "give if you have", but my question is why would a girl who looked you straight in the eyes and said NO that she doesn't wanna date you for "no just reason" all of a sudden turns back to ask you for money huh??....ok, what happens to other of her toasters??...for me i wouldn't give her because she didn't give me reasons for turning me down...that's an ego bruised and plus i think she was looking down on the guy asking her out, more like, "he's not my type"...but he's your "type" when it comes to giving money abi??...op, if you dare give her shishi you'd be the biggest maga i 've ever seen this year...i mean from jan-nov 28, 2016, rubbish, nonsense

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She can't date you Buh she can collect ur money? Are guys getting dumber by the day or what?....

Pls ask her two questions :if she has a boyfriend or another toaster like u, of course 1 must be affirmative,refer her to them......i put it to you that she can't ask her bf for money...

crazymommy:
Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..

If the guy is not good enough for her, his money should also not be good for her.

Why ask him for help when she has a boyfriend or other admirers. The guy is neither her father nor her mother. She should go and meet her father who's responsibility is to take care of her.
Does she not have female friends? She should go and meet them for help na. The girl is a very wicked person. You deny someone a relationship and you still want to be chopping the guy 's money. Habba! Na only she waka come?

I would strongly advise the guy not to give her a penny for the following reasons :
1) He should use the money on himself to look good for the next girl that will accept his proposal.

2) Girls are notorious for not returning back borrowed money. Infact she can insult the living daylight out of you the day you request for your money back.

UniQuegrACE:
u cant compare THAT wiv money........hello

but it's been the sole reason for the rise and fall of kings
So hw then can u justify it's non-comparison with money?





I"ve met four ladies physically through nairaland with the same name as urs, but none of them ever lasted... I started to think every girl with d name Grace acts same.

Give her if you have it and stop feeling important.

Not every girl you ask out will date you, some have boyfriends that they're faithful to.

5K wey recession don remove its value finish nah im u dey make noise bout.

crazymommy:
Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..

Though I encouraged the OP to give her the money if he has it but there's just one reason many guys wouldn't want to help a girl that turned them down.


I have been there once and so I know how it hurts when you realise that someone you've been helping because she needed it was all the while, bragging to friends how she's been using you.

You get my drift?

dingbang:
but it's been the sole reason for the rise and fall of kings
So hw then can u justify it's non-comparison with money?





I"ve met four ladies physically through nairaland with the same name as urs, but none of them ever lasted... I started to think every girl with d name Grace acts same.

none of them ever lasted?........ ,i'm not GRACE tho

[quote author=UniQuegrACE post=51470671rise and fall of GREEDY kings......


none of them ever lasted?........ ,i'm not GRACE tho [/quote]

don't give her shi.t.

Don't try it.

You'll just be a fool.

When she is talking about you with her friends, she'll be like' That idiot I rejected, he still gave me 5k. Hahahahahaha...he will never see that money. Idiot."

Be smart.