Back in my days as a teacher and an administrator in private school, I counselled a young boy who was addicted to pornography and masturbation.

He told me he can't do without masturbation.

One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said, ''My mum caused all this for me."

Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him, how?
He said; "I started masturbation since when I was 4 years old. My mum has always been dressing up naked before me, I am used to seeing her unclothedness."

"I am not moved to have sex with her but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me."

"I still remember seeing her unclothedness regularly till I was 8 years and my dad do shout on her, 'send this boy out before you dress...!' ,but my mum would always reply by saying, 'will my son sleep with me?
Stop planting evil thought in his heart'.

"Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to see ladies' naked body."

"I then went into sex at age 10 and up till now I am not free from sex and heavy pornography with masturbation...'

Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this?
You are dressing up before your 2 years son/daughter and you say he/she doesn't know anything yet?

Thats very cruel!

Some couples will be having sex while their close to 2 years old child will be in their room with them and we feel, he can only see, he can't understand.

Sir/ma, that your child does not need to understand.

Seeing your unclothedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child.

Remember, it is a JETS/ INTERNET world! Where children of nowadays learn things faster through what they see, read or listen to.

In my observations and experience, I found out that a child's brain radiates faster like a radar and he/ she is eager to demonstrate what has been seen or heared. Infact children are intelligent but lack wisdom.

How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness or negligence?

Don't let your children see your unclothedness!

Don't make love in the presence of your child no
matter the age.

The scene sticks into the memory and they may want to explore and experiment what they are seeing or hearing.

Stop making free home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to be watching.

Mummy, sit up properly!

Dress properly too!

Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight and pant.

Be careful!

"Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home that when you sit down your 'thing' will be popping out its head or when walking around, it will be dangling like a pendulum clock and your daughter is seeing this."

There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Let us be modest in our dressing.

Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. Its not your house alone, its a family house/home. You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts.

Mummy, wearing ordinary bra, spag or other indecent clothing materials around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous!

Yes, they won't lust after you but they might be messing around and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.

Also learn how to monitor how brother and sister mingle with each other in terms of sitting, sleeping, dressing and so on in order to curd incest.

Let's stop being 'pornographic materials and custodians' to our children.

Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home'

Remember, "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME"

My Counsel though.

God Bless Your Home.

Good thread

His mom didn't cause him to do any such thing. He is just looking for an excuse. Is he the only one who is a chronic kondo toucher? Men and boys have been doing this since the earth begin to turn. It's likely he sits on his phone constantly watching pornography. He needs to get help for his addiction and stop looking for a way to blame others.

I do not totally agree joor. He grew lustful on his own.

Its not her mothers unclothedness thats responsible for his lust. I had a likely case too. Esp if my mum wants to go out the next day, she'll start dressing and undressing with different types of clothes in my presence for me to access them as to wch is most befitting for the outing. She even spins and dances with them sef. I hook up her bra at d back for her sometimes and washed her underwear till i was about 10yrs or so and all that while neither she nor me shut the bathroom door while bathing

I'm her only child sha and her moral standard was high...maybe thats why sexual expression did not even occur to me till about 24

chocolateme:
Good thread

Thanks dear Spunky Chocolate...

Trust you are doing fine.