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Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:05pm On Dec 01, 2016
i have alot of male friends as i prefer them to female friends for personal reasons, they're all cool, but at one point or another majority of them have tried to ask me out, and some couldn't out of respect for my brother, who is the person that introduced most of them to me, but they kinda behave awkward when we're together, like they have something they really want to say
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by MackBrooklyn: 1:06pm On Dec 01, 2016
Same reason some of you ladies can't be friends with a Nigga for so long without asking for money, recharge cards and other valuables cool

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by herzern1(m): 1:08pm On Dec 01, 2016
*Now Playinq...

Adekunle Gold →→→Friendzone

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Gladiator1: 1:09pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
i have alot of male friends as i prefer them to female friends for personal reasons, they're all cool, but at one point or another majority of them have tried to ask me out, and some couldn't out of respect for my brother, who is the person that introduced most of them to me, but they kinda behave awkward when we're together, like they have something they really want to say
Can I be ur friend?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:11pm On Dec 01, 2016
Gladiator1:
Can I be ur friend?
just friends right cheesy
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 01, 2016
it's q normal thing within us. no big deal about that. we are who we are.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 01, 2016
Because it is almost impossible for cat to be the security guard of a bowl of meat cheesy grin

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:12pm On Dec 01, 2016
herzern1:
*Now Playinq...

Adekunle Gold →→→Friendzone


nothing like Friendzone, girls always malice and snitch, i like having guys as friends but thier motives sometimes baffles me
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Gratefulsoul(m): 1:12pm On Dec 01, 2016
The same reason why police and arm robbers can never be friends.. At any slightly confrontation, they end up (bleeping) shooting each other.. Nature made it so.. Lol

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:13pm On Dec 01, 2016
IamJix:
it's q normal thing within us.
no big deal about that.
we are who we are.
so you can't control your feelings around every girl, I'm very surprised
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Dshocker(m): 1:15pm On Dec 01, 2016
You go get the answer you looking for as soon as my grandmother's goat starts being friends with my grandfather's Yam.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:15pm On Dec 01, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Because it is almost impossible for cat to be the security guard of a bowl of meat cheesy grin
grinlol but i have like zero feelings for all of them, i tried to be casual as much as possible but eventually we all get to that bridge where he asks me out and i end up loosing another good friend

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Gladiator1: 1:15pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
just friends right cheesy
Or do u want more than that?? As I no come know ur brother grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:16pm On Dec 01, 2016
Ere kilaja bekun se? undecided
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Dshocker(m): 1:16pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
nothing like Friendzone, girls always malice and snitch, i like having guys as friends but thier motives sometimes baffles me

Give em what they want,afterall it is there right grin grin grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
so you can't control your feelings around every girl, I'm very surprised
I didn't say we don't control our feelings.
but it is not easy to be with a girl without asking her out.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:18pm On Dec 01, 2016
Dshocker:
You go get the answer you looking for as soon as my grandmother's goat starts being friends with my grandfather's Yam.
it shouldn't be difficult, i can be friends with a guy without feeling anything for him, there's one I'm very close to since childhood, sometimes i change clothes in his presence, he hasn't tried that sh!t with me, he's more like my brother now, so its not hard

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by eitsei(m): 1:18pm On Dec 01, 2016
Lol.. What's difficult in it? I have lots of female friends and I never tried asking them out.. Though it's possible at a point in time emotions and feelings start creeping in but you should be able to put yourself under control

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Gladiator1: 1:19pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
nothing like Friendzone, girls always malice and snitch, i like having guys as friends but thier motives sometimes baffles me
Why do most/all ladies keep complaining about their female folks as being traitors? Even most of my female folks keep saying they prefer keeping male folks as friends

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:19pm On Dec 01, 2016
Gladiator1:
Or do u want more than that?? As I no come know ur brother grin
he's on NL cheesy
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Dshocker(m): 1:20pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
it shouldn't be difficult, i can be friends with a guy without feeling anything for him, there's one I'm very close to since childhood, sometimes i change clothes in his presence, he hasn't tried that sh!t with me, he's more like my brother now, so its not hard

Na lieeeeeee

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:21pm On Dec 01, 2016
Gladiator1:
Why do most/all ladies keep complaining about their female folks as being traitors? Even most of my female folks keep saying they prefer keeping male folks as friends
I'm a lady, for me to say this you've to know its real, ladies are slanderous to each other, jealousy, they snitch alot on each other, hate, malice in fact I've only two female besties
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by makelove2m(m): 1:21pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
i have alot of male friends as i prefer them to female friends for personal reasons, they're all cool, but at one point or another majority of them have tried to ask me out, and some couldn't out of respect for my brother, who is the person that introduced most of them to me, but they kinda behave awkward when we're together, like they have something they really want to say

Can a goat and yam sleep in one bed? if yes, you are right, if no, then you are wrong........ stay out trouble, that mister inside there bemodia triangle doesn't have sense
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:21pm On Dec 01, 2016
Dshocker:


Na lieeeeeee
100% truth
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by DozieInc(m): 1:21pm On Dec 01, 2016
OP, you come across as the 'friend-zone' type and a teaser, only to play the victim later.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:22pm On Dec 01, 2016
makelove2m:


Can a goat and yam sleep in one bed? if yes, you are right, if no, then you are wrong........ stay out trouble, that mister inside there bemodia triangle doesn't have sense
which mister
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 01, 2016
When a prostitute has fvckboys as friends...Do the maths.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:24pm On Dec 01, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
Same reason you ladies can't be friends with a Nigga for so long without asking for money, recharge cards and other valuables cool
gerarrahere men, i dont ask for money and recharge card, don't generalize
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Dshocker(m): 1:24pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
100% truth

Maybe you have no physical properties,that's way he hasn't made a move grin

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by MackBrooklyn: 1:26pm On Dec 01, 2016
Enybliss:
gerarrahere men, i dont ask for money and recharge card, don't generalize

cheesy grin




Same way you shouldn't generalize that every Nigga will ask you out after being friends with you undecided

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:27pm On Dec 01, 2016
MackBrooklyn:


cheesy grin




Same way you shouldn't generalize that every Nigga will ask you out after being friends with you undecided
i said most, but in my circle they all had something up thier sleeves
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Most Guys To Be Just Friends With A Lady by Enybliss(f): 1:29pm On Dec 01, 2016
Dshocker:


Maybe you have no physical properties,that's way he hasn't made a move grin
hahahhahaaahhaha ok, try to relate it with an adopted sister, you'll understand our relationship

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