I'm dating a Nigerian man.
We view blackman as sweet, gentle and loving.
My boyfriend is not like that.
He is very thrifty, mature not into mushy stuff and very spiritually minded.
He says he care about me so much but not showy.

He is in Nigeria right now and I'm in my country too for vacation so we are miles apart.
He send me sms, calls me, online chat and other means to communicate.
We will be together again after a month.

However what bothers me is that when he told me that he loves me and wants to be with me but
because of our faith differences he is having a doubt with our relationship if it will work.

Is he in the stage of deciding right now of moving on together or separately?
What should I do?
Are nigerian man in general naturally sweet or not into mushy stuff?

Girlfriend- dont think for him, move with him, make it work, dont doubt, and forget that mushy stuff thing, we eat mushroom, but thats the only closest thing to mushy that is in our lives- give him more chance.

nairajane:

Are nigerian man in general naturally sweet?

I'd like to say Yes. . . .but its a No.
Not naturally. Thanks goodness for civilization