good morning fellow nairalanders.. So i was surfing through my facebook and i stumbled on that picture below...... It actually from kenya whats more hillarious is the poster caption it "SO ROMANTIC" so wat do u think ?is that romantic?

lobatan!

The man must be a horse rider

This is down grading of the women ......................

Why ask if the picture is ROMANTIC, after by yourself, you already gave it such a title. "PRE-WEDDING MADNESS".

If opinion is what you seek SINCERELY and not CASTIGATION of this picture. Your TITLE should have been an open end statement with a question mark. Such as.........'IS THIS PICTURE ROMANTIC'? So that people can say GENUINELY from their minds and not from a PRECONCEPTION already by you subjecting their opinions to spring up mostly from within the frame work of your assertion, "PRE-WEDDING MADNESS".

Well, I always wonder by the fleeting of time.............how we keep pretending NOT TO SEE CLEARLY as a community of our collective HUMANITY where we are heading IN THIS SO CALLED 'MODERN WORLD' of buying and selling ILLUSIONS artistically created.

Can't we SEE how we keep DROWNING ourselves in the MIRE OF SELF-DECEPTION? A race in pursuit of a FAKE LIFE...........almost NOBODY is REAL anymore!?

We are so occupied and so busy with TRIVIALITIES ignoring the ESSENCE and almost all SIGNIFICANCE of LIFE. The SIGNIFICANCE with respect to your title is of course is MARRIAGE!!!

We expend our ENERGIES, our RESOURCES, our TIME, our AFFECTION into TRIVIALITIES instead of that SACREDNESS, that SIGNIFICANCE,............. 'MARRIAGE'.

Most Marriages this days are not working. A lot of couples are just MANAGING to be together holding hands in DISHARMONY and what an IRONY when you flash back to their PRE-WEDDING PICTURES and you begin to wonder.

I need not illustrate this TRUTH with a bar chart records of a scientific survey. Its so perceptive that DIVORCE IS STINKING EVERYWHERE. Its pathetic that we are not learning to avoid the MISTAKES of the AMERICANS and EUROPEANS. But keep following them into the SNAKE'S hole. Infact jumping into it with all confidence all because we chose to live A FAKE LIFE. Only to be biten fatally, dangerously.

As our collective humanity, a 'global village' that the world has become. Its seen as 'CIVILIZATION' to channel ones HEARTS towards 'SHOW OFF', a PRETENTIOUS LIVING. For in reality when you place the STATISTICS of DIVORCE rate side by side with this fashion of PRE-WEDDING PICTURES which we are so fond of glorifying this our chosen ILLUSION. The side by side REALITY is amazingly an UNFASHIONABLE picture. AS IF THE ESSENCE OF MARRIAGE IS DIVORCE.

What a generation full of S-H-I-T!!! The Y2K generation. A design by defaulters, merchants of CONSUMERISM. The CAPITALIST CULTURE that keeps cultivating our minds to never be CONTENT with WHO WE ARE and WHAT LITTLE WE HAVE.

Always looking for MORE and MORE...........never SATISFIED because these are minds cultivated to be UNGRATEFUL. Hence, we are living in a WORLD where GENINUE HAPPINESS is so RARE. People are so caged in DEPRESSION, FAKING HAPPINESS.

A culture represented by the old saying " YOU ARE WHAT YOU WEAR". Instead of the old and WISE saying "DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER"

MARRIAGES keep failing because its mostly built on SUPPERFACIALITIES and DISHONESTY not on SUBSTANCE not on HONESTY. The DIVORCE RATE keeps crumbling our humanity. Tearing the fabrics of UNITY which MARRIAGE stands to GUARD in the bond of LOVE.

We see today all over the inter-net, THE PRE-WEDDING PICTURES that DAZZELS. An allurement in a chosen world of comforting ILLUSIONS as we continue to sink DEEPER in the mire of SELF-DECEPTION.

Are people without UNDERSTANDING anymore that marriage is a life time commitment, which should involve people of OPPOSITE SEX, giving their life, their time, their feelings GENUINELY towards one another because they want to spend the rest of their lives together in the bond of TRANQUILITY and AFFECTION and above all being MERCIFUL to one another by overlooking faults for we are not perfect. Working as a team towards PERFECTION in CONNUBIAL BLISS?

The criticism used to be the culture of SENSELESS investment in WEDDING CEREMONIES while not investing in MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL GROWTH.

Today the GLAMOUR is Pre-wedding pictures. Which are artistically creative pictures. Its all over today.

Just for example. The 'husband' to be is depicted flying in the air in Superman Costumes while the Wife to be is depicted to have grown wings like an angel, holier than thou, looking up in the sky at superman from under a bridge to come and rescue her.

After the whole drama of pre-wedding pictures. The making up of THEIR own FANTASY. The knot is tied. Superman turns out to be a VAMPIRE while that Angel, holier than thou turns out to be a DEVIL MASQURADING as a SAINT.

In other senario, one of the two may truely be HONEST. Coming into the bond with all SINCERE FEELINGS with an open and loving heart while the other came in with a baggage full of their past B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T hoping to dump it at them. And then pack their baggage of B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T and move else where.

WE ARE LOSING OUR HUMANITY EVERYDAY BECAUSE OUR PRIORITIES ARE SO OUT OF COMMON SENSE.

Families don't stand uprightly no more. We are so lost that SOLACE IN MARRIAGE is now found as an option in same sex marriages, since the not same sex marriages keep failing again and again.

WHAT A SHAME ON ALL OF US!

All is fair in love na

WORDWORLD:
Why ask if the picture is ROMANTIC, after by yourself, you already gave it such a title. "PRE-WEDDING MADNESS".

If opinion is what you seek SINCERELY and not CASTIGATION of this picture. Your TITLE should have been an open end statement with a question mark. Such as.........'IS THIS PICTURE ROMANTIC'? So that people can say GENUINELY from their minds and not from a PRECONCEPTION already by you subjecting their opinions to spring up mostly from within the frame work of your assertion, "PRE-WEDDING MADNESS".

Well, I always wonder by the fleeting of time.............how we keep pretending NOT TO SEE CLEARLY as a community of our collective HUMANITY where we are heading IN THIS SO CALLED 'MODERN WORLD' of buying and selling ILLUSIONS artistically created.

Can't we SEE how we keep DROWNING ourselves in the MIRE OF SELF-DECEPTION? A race in pursuit of a FAKE LIFE...........almost NOBODY is REAL anymore!?

We are so occupied and so busy with TRIVIALITIES ignoring the ESSENCE and almost all SIGNIFICANCE of LIFE. The SIGNIFICANCE with respect to your title is of course is MARRIAGE!!!

We expend our ENERGIES, our RESOURCES, our TIME, our AFFECTION into TRIVIALITIES instead of that SACREDNESS, that SIGNIFICANCE,............. 'MARRIAGE'.

Most Marriages this days are not working. A lot of couples are just MANAGING to be together holding hands in DISHARMONY and what an IRONY when you flash back to their PRE-WEDDING PICTURES and you begin to wonder.

I need not illustrate this TRUTH with a bar chart records of a scientific survey. Its so perceptive that DIVORCE IS STINKING EVERYWHERE. Its pathetic that we are not learning to avoid the MISTAKES of the AMERICANS and EUROPEANS. But keep following them into the SNAKE'S hole. Infact jumping into it with all confidence all because we chose to live A FAKE LIFE. Only to be biten fatally, dangerously.

As our collective humanity, a 'global village' that the world has become. Its seen as 'CIVILIZATION' to channel ones HEARTS towards 'SHOW OFF', a PRETENTIOUS LIVING. For in reality when you place the STATISTICS of DIVORCE rate side by side with this fashion of PRE-WEDDING PICTURES which we are so fond of glorifying this our chosen ILLUSION. The side by side REALITY is amazingly an UNFASHIONABLE picture. AS IF THE ESSENCE OF MARRIAGE IS DIVORCE.

What a generation full of S-H-I-T!!! The Y2K generation. A design by defaulters, merchants of CONSUMERISM. The CAPITALIST CULTURE that keeps cultivating our minds to never be CONTENT with WHO WE ARE and WHAT LITTLE WE HAVE.

Always looking for MORE and MORE...........never SATISFIED because these are minds cultivated to be UNGRATEFUL. Hence, we are living in a WORLD where GENINUE HAPPINESS is so RARE. People are so caged in DEPRESSION, FAKING HAPPINESS.

A culture represented by the old saying " YOU ARE WHAT YOU WEAR". Instead of the old and WISE saying "DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER"

MARRIAGES keep failing because its mostly built on SUPPERFACIALITIES and DISHONESTY not on SUBSTANCE not on HONESTY. The DIVORCE RATE keeps crumbling our humanity. Tearing the fabrics of UNITY which MARRIAGE stands to GUARD in the bond of LOVE.

We see today all over the inter-net, THE PRE-WEDDING PICTURES that DAZZELS. An allurement in a chosen world of comforting ILLUSIONS as we continue to sink DEEPER in the mire of SELF-DECEPTION.

Are people without UNDERSTANDING anymore that marriage is a life time commitment, which should involve people of OPPOSITE SEX, giving their life, their time, their feelings GENUINELY towards one another because they want to spend the rest of their lives together in the bond of TRANQUILITY and AFFECTION and above all being MERCIFUL to one another by overlooking faults for we are not perfect. Working as a team towards PERFECTION in CONNUBIAL BLISS?

The criticism used to be the culture of SENSELESS investment in WEDDING CEREMONIES while not investing in MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL GROWTH.

Today the GLAMOUR is Pre-wedding pictures. Which are artistically creative pictures. Its all over today.

Just for example. The 'husband' to be is depicted flying in the air in Superman Costumes while the Wife to be is depicted to have grown wings like an angel, holier than thou, looking up in the sky at superman from under a bridge to come and rescue her.

After the whole drama of pre-wedding pictures. The making up of THEIR own FANTASY. The knot is tied. Superman turns out to be a VAMPIRE while that Angel, holier than thou turns out to be a DEVIL MASQURADING as a SAINT.

In other senario, one of the two may truely be HONEST. Coming into the bond with all SINCERE FEELINGS with an open and loving heart while the other came in with a baggage full of their past B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T hoping to dump it at them. And then pack their baggage of B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T and move else where.

WE ARE LOSING OUR HUMANITY EVERYDAY BECAUSE OUR PRIORITIES ARE SO OUT OF COMMON SENSE.

Families don't stand uprightly no more. We are so lost that SOLACE IN MARRIAGE is now found as an option in same sex marriages, since the not same sex marriages keep failing again and again.

WHAT A SHAME ON ALL OF US!

haaa! Bros all this one becus of topic?

No not because of topic but because of a BETTER WORLD.

Sexxkillz:
Mumu, how is this "pre-wedding"?

shege