okay guys,first off,merry Christmas to y'all and a happy new year.
if u have been following my previous threads,u'd understand where I am going wth ds thread..but I will try to summarize it here quickly.my ex broke up with me sometime around September(reasons are in ma old thread,very long reason),we ve been together for like a year and..although we were best of friends before we broke up.

Anyway,after d breakup..umm..we were still cool friends,she had a slight accommodation problem in d hostel,so she had to move in with me for bout 2 weeks.this was barely was a month after we broke up anyways,during this period..she cooked,we ate nd played and laughed,if u weren't told ,u wouldn't even know that we ain't dating again.nd yes we had sex..lots of it sha

one day like dt,she showed me pic of a guy chyking her,and well asked for my opinion,I yabbed d guy die sha(Dts kind of our thing,we yab people a lot)...she laughed at what I said..next thing I know..she is like..am dating him..boom..another thing she said we re engaged(she is just20 yrs old o)...they were just moving tooooooo fast..nd I tried to warn her..btw she has never met ds guy o..just WhatsApp chats nd phone calls..when I noticed this..I started pulling away from her,but no way.she always comes close to me and we even have sex kwa..
One day..she told me..that the guy really loves her,as in he loves her die,he can even kill for her.I asked her..do u love him like that??..she said no.

Okay then fast forward to ds month..she would put his pic as her dp and then chat me up immediately so I can notice it(I still love her nd get jealous,but I never show it ..neverrr)..and then she would come over and she ll be like "I know u ve been having sex wth gals na..they will be trooping here one by one..ur a fine boy now nd ur now single".. I would always object nd say " no ooo"..honestly I wasn't having sex wth any other girl though.
Some times..she would even say "don't have sex with any girl except me".. then this same bisshhh went bk home for Xmas holidays..she stays in Lagos.and then she told me that she will meet d guy there nd she will bang him..I was like..okay na..cool.
anyways..recently..she has been gisting me bout how d date went..she even calls me during one of dia dates..they ve met twice..at some fastfood or something..nd took some pics,anyways dunno sha..was expecting her to put a pic of both of them together as her dp buh she Dint..Well for now,and she has been having mood swings recently and always chatting me up..always sending voicenotes..of whever she does(laughs,yawns)..nd she calls too..nd she has been very cussy lately..using d f word on me..more than normal..
is she having a rebound relationship??

p.s..I know its lengthy buh abeg try na..just try small...nd am expecting some guys to bash me kwa..its allowed..buh advise me too

That's none of your business since you guys ain't dating again.

I don't gerit.

She got engaged to someone on whatsapp?

sinaj:
I don't gerit.

She got engaged to someone on whatsapp?

yes ooo..she was like..he has promised to marry her..nd dia numbers re saved wth hubby nd wifey respectively..
its funny,Buh that's exactly what happened

Lady is toying with two men at a time, You gave her the chance to play with you when you weren't man enough to say No.

You love her, she knows this. Cut off communication with her, Move on and watch her crawling back to you.

Frankly, the both of you are confuse.

fayded:


yes ooo..she was like..he has promised to marry her..nd dia numbers re saved wth hubby nd wifey respectively..
its funny,Buh that's exactly what happened

lol

Now this is so funny

Blind couple

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From boyfriend to an emotional cushion, na wa for u O... She's keeping you around incase that didn't work out. You're now number 2

Guy, your ex is playing mind game. She is doing to get you jealous and take her seriously. If I were you I would pretend as if nothing is happening. I can also see that you are not letting her go . when ever she " gives you" you don't refuse. it implies that both of you are friends with benefits . My advice for you is to let her go if you claim she is your ex.. A time will come she will be a pain in the butt. She is likely not going to leave you without a fight.