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In Love With The Wrong Person by BabyLove14: 11:38pm On Nov 18, 2009
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Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:02am On Nov 19, 2009
you shouldn't have had any affair with another man when you know that you are engaged with someone.
sorry to say, the priest is not in love with you according to the way you describe him. he probably want to use u as a sex partnar.

I believe the mistake has already been made but the way out is to forget about the priest and go back to your normal life.

please do not break up the relationship you are having with your first man, because you said u are happily engaged. do not let anything take away your happiness.

BabyLove14:

The priest expects me to keep my engagement but would like to continue our love affair even after I'm married to another man. I'm at a loss here,

dont ever try to go to the priest after marriage because if u do, you will lose on both sides.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by countdown2: 12:10am On Nov 19, 2009
With this post, MEN! MEN!! MEN!!!, How many times did I call yall, pray that God should give you your own wife. It is very hard to find a woman who is your's, it aint all about trust now, it is about who is your's, one that will never betray you. Oh God! I love you, give me my own wife. Bone of my bone. Flesh of my flesh.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by puskin: 12:12am On Nov 19, 2009
Which movie did U just finish watching?
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Scooby1(m): 12:13am On Nov 19, 2009
BabyLove14:

But there's one little problem: I am in a long distance relationship with another man and is engaged to him. I no longer have the same feeling for him as I did before I met the priest. He has been so generous to me. How do I break off this engagement because my heart is no longer in it. The priest expects me to keep my engagement but would like to continue our love affair even after I'm married to another man. I'm at a loss here,

@poster, what kind of priest will encourage someone to carry on cheating on her bf? This kind of man has no integrity and is not truthworthy am sorry to say! if this priest can do this with u then he easily dump u or have an affair. Poster Not all that glitters is gold remember that, my advise for u is to take out workout what is missing in ur current relationship.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by OMG190: 12:19am On Nov 19, 2009
Hold on
hold ON
did you say a PRIEST or i am not seeing properly tonite~

maybe u mean a NATIVE juju priest~
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by BabyLove14: 12:20am On Nov 19, 2009
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Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by BabyLove14: 12:24am On Nov 19, 2009
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Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by OMG190: 12:28am On Nov 19, 2009
BabyLove14:

@OMG190

Since I'm a a born and practicing catholic myself, I'd recognize a catholic priest any day. I really do mean a catholic priest.

then im sorry to say
THE GUY IS A FCUKIN FAKE~
and i pity the members of the church that he preches to~
he is a fcking cheat,you are a cheat and your Beloved BF anywhere he is
would definately cheat on you sooner or later~
Jst be prepared~
its ladies like u that give people B.P
and people like that JUJU priest cos he definately cant be a catholic priest
a bad Image~
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by xxcarolxx(f): 12:34am On Nov 19, 2009
A catholic priest is not allowed to marry or have a relationship. They take vows of celibacy. He cant be very true to his faith if he is willing to have a relationship.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 1:09am On Nov 19, 2009
@poster
as much as you seem to be in love, you have to open your eyes and accept the fact that this guy only wants you for sex and nothing more.
he has no intention to be your bf/husband but he just want to be able to shag you whenever he can.
you are just a side toto and although you fell in love with him, i suggest you look elsewhere for love.

also you should not go ahead with the engagement as you have clearly shown that you are not in love with that guy anymore. be honest with the fella and let him know so he can move on with his life ASAP.

ps: priests drinking and partying, shagging women and wanting them to cheat on their husband with them. . . . . .
please tell me where they preach so i can tell the whole world to stay away from that evil place.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by megacity: 1:35am On Nov 19, 2009
u hav been sleeping with a reverend priest?! shocked ur own pass my own ooo

How can u be madly in love with and be sleeping with a priest? it can only be something else not love,

the only person i can see u love here is urself. u need to repent urgently
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by BabyLove14: 3:25am On Nov 19, 2009
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Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by OAM4J: 4:40am On Nov 19, 2009
BabyLove14:

@megacity

I understand your take on this, and quite frankly, if the tables were turned, I'd be saying the exact thing you just said. But love happens! I know I'm a very smart young lady - bookwise and streetwise but like I said, love happens! We can't always pick the people we fall in love with now, can we? The priest is just a man like any other man and being a priest is just a job he does. If you only knew how deeply we care for each other, you wouldn't be so quick to pass judgment. sad

So what do u want to do now? He can’t marry you and remain a priest and he is not willing to stop being a 'priest'. Well you can remain his mistress for life if that is ok by u. As for the engagement, just don’t go ahead.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 4:50am On Nov 19, 2009
BabyLove14:

I was happily engaged until one day that sent my life spiraling out of control. That was the day a friend of mine persuaded me to come hang out with her and some friends. These weren't just any friends, they were three handsome, young catholic priests on vacation. I was hesistant at first but did end up partying with them.

A night of drinking led to one thing and then another between one of the priests and I. I did not beat myself up too much because I thought I would return to my normal life immediately afterwards but the priest had a different expectation. He convinced me to keep in touch with him, we got to know each other via phone, texts, webcam. He even paid for my flight to visit him. He's the most amazing guy, the kind of guy you would want to spend the rest of your life with. Now, I'm hopelessly in love with him and he feels the same way.

But there's one little problem: I am in a long distance relationship with another man and is engaged to him. I no longer have the same feeling for him as I did before I met the priest. He has been so generous to me. How do I break off this engagement because my heart is no longer in it. The priest expects me to keep my engagement but would like to continue our love affair even after I'm married to another man. I'm at a loss here,


You think you can eat your cake and have it You sef no fear, of all people na Rev. father you go shag! The poor guy dey there wey you call fiance go dey suffer for your head. Women are wicked! sorry for generalizing hastily
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 4:57am On Nov 19, 2009
@ Poster

I just imagine how many of those partying you have been involved in lately. After satisfying yourself with romps of sex you dash here for advice on your excapade huh?? I still pity the poor guy.

My advice

Tell him to renounce his oath of celibacy and marry you. hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Jaybee2412(m): 6:54am On Nov 19, 2009
Go on woman with the fucking priest. Can't you see this is a divine relationship made in heaven. Look no more for blessed eternal fucking life, for there lies yourl extra immoral conjugal salvation.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by iice(f): 2:52pm On Nov 19, 2009
People who don't know their boundaries.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 4:45pm On Nov 19, 2009
Priests of nowaday,i wonder wot the world is turning into.

As for this matter i go just siddon dey look shocked shocked shocked, cos i no wan talk wetin go compound your problem lipsrsealed
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by candyshore: 5:07pm On Nov 19, 2009
a priest - ha na wa o, how can u prefer being a mistress to a priest than to being a wife to someone who really loves u. my dear change o. stay engaged. dat priest is d devils distraction. he his an evil priest. for sleeping with u he is definately not a true priest.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by ehibaby(f): 5:44pm On Nov 19, 2009
e better leave d priesthood and marry you, dan him leaving a life of lies,y will u trip for a priest, u better not mak d LOrd angry.he either stop being a priest if he cant hold himsef or quit n marry u,
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by oYaTo(m): 6:17pm On Nov 19, 2009
BabyLove14:

The priest expects me to keep my engagement but would like to continue our love affair even after I'm married to another man.

dude aint no priest grin
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 19, 2009
BabyLove14:

But love happens! I know I'm a very smart young lady - bookwise and streetwise but like I said, love happens! We can't always pick the people we fall in love with now, can we? The priest is just a man like any other man and being a priest is just a job he does. If you only knew how deeply we care for each other, you wouldn't be so quick to pass judgment. sad

girl you aint smart at all. a smart person wouldnt have put themselves in such a shameful situation.
your head would have made you do the right thing which is to 1) break your engagement with your fella 2) stay away from a man of god who drinks, party, sleep with strangers and then ask them to be unfaithful to their future spouse.
next time, use your head before anything else (or maybe the drinks made you do it)

you are no better than the guys who blame the cheating on being drunk etc.
you are so much into your fantasy that you are taking this guy´s side knowing full well that what you are doing is wrong.

WRONG to be shagging a man while being engaged to another.
WRONG to be shagging a priest.
WRONG to be planning to continue cheating on your fiance well into your ¨phoney¨marriage.
WRONG to try to come up with excuses for what you clearly know is wrong.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by iice(f): 6:56pm On Nov 19, 2009
^^Thank you!
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by whitelexi(m): 7:10pm On Nov 19, 2009
fynewaka:

@ Poster

I just imagine how many of those partying you have been involved in lately. After satisfying yourself with romps of sex you dash here for advice on your excapade huh?? I still pity the poor guy.

My advice

Tell him to renounce his oath of celibacy and marry you. hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

[size=48pt]FYNEWAKA!!![/size] grin grin grin

My long lost bestest friend grin grin grin
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by LordReed(m): 7:32pm On Nov 19, 2009
Me am wondering wat u came here for cos it seems u don't need any advice so I guess u came to celebrate your new found love. Anyways just make sure u break off with the man expecting to be your husband at least then u'd have done something resembling sanity.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 10:11pm On Nov 19, 2009
why are u so greedy!
frolickin wit a priest!
if i were to be ur fiance, Id dump u one time!
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by tashanja(m): 11:23pm On Nov 19, 2009
Shame on you for derailing a man of the cloth sad

But wait aminute: a drinking, partying, adulterous, priest,  not only willing to break his vows against the lord, but cheating with who?, a Married woman shocked OMG shocked

I think both of you are birds of the same feather (i.e. fakes) and therefore deserve one another other. cool

Anyway, the guy couldn't be that much in love with you because if he was, he wouldn't be planning to continue banging you after your marriage to your bf; rather he would be considering giving up the priesthood and proposing to marry you instead. lipsrsealed

You are more than likely destined one day to be reminded of the popular saying, what goes around comes around, after he's all done with your skanky puss.y and dumped your sorry arse for another. grin

Silly woman angry
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by echobee(f): 11:25pm On Nov 19, 2009
oh girl, wetin u dey do with a priest. the pope must hear this.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 11:31pm On Nov 19, 2009
Why are people expressing shock about the adulterous priest? shocked shocked Dont we all hear stories about some of them and their activities? wink wink


Girly the priest has taken an oath to remain unmarried you will end up alone. Confess to your bf and take it from there.
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by oYaTo(m): 11:52pm On Nov 19, 2009
echo- bee:

oh girl, wetin u dey do with a priest. the pope must hear this.

grin grin
Re: In Love With The Wrong Person by BabyLove14: 1:27am On Nov 20, 2009
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