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Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 8:47pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Love is real and not a scam 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Splinz(m): 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Benita27: You can say that again. The thing is, people don't know what truly is LOVE. Love is simply outgoing concerns for others- putting others interest above yours. Now when you love, do not love conditionally, i.e, expecting a return- reciprocation from the loved. For when your love is not return, you're bound to get hurt- heartbroken. So, we should simply love for loving sake. This is love for me, and I know it's a hard saying to some people. PS: Where there's betrayals, pains, heartbreaks and puff up; then there's no love there. But love does exist, and we're all products of it. 1 Like |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by zicoraads: 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Sexytemi:My dear, I wonder why you thought it did in the first place. Just enjoy your relationship while it lasts. _Fuck, eat, play, laugh...and when it ends, remember the good moments and wait for the next. 1 Like |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Splinz:You said it all. @ the embolden: what 'true love' is...is actually unconditional. When you get hurt or someone didn't reciprocate the feelings, dust yourself and move on. I always believe a better guy will show up, and it works provided you know your standard. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by pennytrate: 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Benita27: ♣ • → but the DP is meant for the public, and i know it means alot to them, don't complain when u start receiving random PMS ™ °° |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Splinz:You said it all. @ the embolden: what 'true love' is...is actually unconditional. When you get hurt or someone didn't reciprocate the feelings, dust yourself and move on. Believe a better guy will show up, and it works provided you know your standard, define the relationship so both of you will get a clear cut of what you need from each other. Abeg!, love is sweet joor!. 1 Like |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
pennytrate:Lol. PMs are always random, or don't you receive random PMs even as guy?. There's the dismiss button, complaining isn't my specialty. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by pennytrate: 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Benita27: ♣ • → ok, uhm that ass though ™ °° |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by khiaa(f): 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BrooklynTheBully: Getting married isn't a guarantee that you are loved, there are many deceitful people who marry for citizenship, just because they think they should or for money, but there are rare marriages(in your culture) that take place on genuine love, caring, respect, honor, of each other regardless of money, but money seems to be the glue that binds. Lol Ok, I don't know this for sure just going by the many stories and complaints on Nairaland. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by BrooklynTheBully: 9:30pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
khiaa: Madame, the last time I checked you have the choice of marrying whomever you think deserves the best of you for this 20th century... So what are you tryna say?? |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by khiaa(f): 9:34pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BrooklynTheBully:lol reread my post. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
There's no such thing as love |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by BrooklynTheBully: 9:43pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
khiaa: Nah, you proofread your post and make the necessary corrections instead |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Sexytemi:I feel you sister but we are just human... Sometimes you can't help but fall helplessly in love. Don't worry, your soul mate is around the corner. Stay positive. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by cyeln(f): 9:53pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
there is no such word as "love" |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by khiaa(f): 1:51am On Dec 30, 2016 |
BrooklynTheBully: I did, that's why I said reread it. Why did you cross out everything that I typed except the part about money? |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by BrooklynTheBully: 8:17am On Dec 30, 2016 |
khiaa: Lol, I crossed everything out now ... what did you mean?? |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by louiskay(m): 9:11am On Dec 30, 2016 |
zicoraads: What a summation. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by khiaa(f): 9:44pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
BrooklynTheBully: I meant that I have read so many complaints on Nairaland from men about nigerian women being gold-diggers, and I tried to explain to them that if they (the men) would stop portraying themselves as simps and stop providing material things to these women whom they barely know then they (the women) would have to learn how to provide for themselves, then maybe they would learn to appreciate how hard the men work to earn money that they (the women) seem to throw away on BS (designer labels) not realising or caring that all they are doing is making that designer richer and their men poorer that being said, money can't buy love and according to some posters, that is the main or only reason people are getting married in Nigeria. Oh, men please stop telling women you just met that you love them, that is so pathetic and a quick turn off to a woman. When you do this you are opening up yourselves to be used. In some women minds she's thinking "Oh he loves me, well let him prove it" and that is when the constant begging begins. Damn! Women should be so embarrassed to constantly beg a man for material things, I am disgusted everytime I read about this, but again the men are at fault. Sorry for the long lecture but some issues makes my blood boil. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by jamalchance(m): 6:54am On Oct 08, 2017 |
Wow ... Finally a topic heading that makes sense and i havent even read d body |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Donjazzy12(m): 9:53am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Sexytemi:Your boyfriend stopped spending on you ba? |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Sexytemi(f): 9:55am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: Must everything be about money, or do you think its every girl that cares about money?, if you know nothing about me dont judge me. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Donjazzy12(m): 9:56am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Sexytemi:That is usually why most girls of nowadays declare love dead! |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Sexytemi(f): 10:03am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: Well,money wasn't the reason I declared love dead, betrayal, lies, deceit and unfaithfulness was why. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Donjazzy12(m): 10:10am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Sexytemi: Well you dont have any right to declare love dead just because you have a bad experience. There is betrayal, lies, deceit and unfaithfulness everywhere not just in loving relationships. Besides, all those vices you mentioned just defines who has them. That is the persons character. It doesn't matter whether he loves or hates someone, he will still cheat, betray or decieve. There are also a lot of people who do not have such character, fall in love with such people and see the difference. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Sexytemi(f): 11:40am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: in this age, I think such people are dead. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Donjazzy12(m): 1:05pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
Sexytemi: No. I think your sense of reasoning is dead. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Teaser4(m): 1:30pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
heartbreak sucks I can feel your pain bae, but you gotta move on, you'll eventually fall in love again and again.... irony of life. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Sexytemi(f): 2:57pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: Hmm mm, my sense of reasoning dead?, now do you see what I'm talking about.. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Donjazzy12(m): 5:14pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
Sexytemi:You are not making sense anymore. |
Re: The Word "Love" Is A Scam. by Youngpo413: 9:46pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Sexytemi: |
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