A Nigeria based journalist, Chris Ayo Joseph has written an open letter to actress Lilian Esoro and Triplemg Boss, Ubi Franklin. According to him, he said that their marriage wasn't really based on love in the first place. Read the letter below..

“I shared this a while back in one of my post; it’s worth repeating again.
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Honestly, I really don’t want to believe Ubi Franklin’s marriage to Lilian Esoro is over, seeing he still got his wedding ring on, and despite Lilian yanking off “Franklin” from her Instagram profile name and deleting all Ubi’s picture. Obviously, there’s a message she’s trying to pass across to the public. But honestly the public don’t care. WE DON’T CARE.
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Lillian, can you be matured for a minute and stop letting the public into your matrimonial issues?
Apparently, so much has been said online about Ubi Franklin & Lilian Esoro’s marriage hitting the rock; some blaming the wife while others pointing fingers at the husband. But please permit me to share my honest opinion on this matter. I just hope I don’t get bashed for airing my opinion just like i did on Ogbonna Kanu’s marriage proposal to Laura Ikeji.
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Having been around women, here’s what i know about them. Women are die-hard lovers. Trust me. They love more than we men do. Apparently, I’ve come to understand that when a woman truly loves a man, he really doesn’t need to fight hard to win her over. I’m not saying the man has to be perfect, No! But If the woman loves the man that much, she would cover up so many things for him and also believe in him.
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Having said that, without little or no experience about marriage, i might not be the right person to address this issue, but to my own little understanding, when you truly love someone, the kind of perseverance you have with them will totally be different. You as an individual will always play reasonable in every part in their lives. Now, talking about marriage vows being exchanged at the alter of God, permit me to ask this simple question.
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Why should real Christians go to the alter of God in the first place when he/she knows there’s no such thing as genuine love in their heart but selfish desires? So, you marry a person you don’t love? A person you don’t respect?

Because If you respect your partner and the alter where the name of the Almighty God is called, you can’t come and make promises to mere humans and forget about it all; most especially now that a little child is a product of your matrimony.
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Like I’ll always say, marriage takes both people being willing to work through the issues. A marriage only works if you’re willing to work for the marriage and as well putting God first because God is Love.
So Lillian, please permit me to say this with all due respect.. “Your marriage wasn’t based on love my dear” and i honestly think you both don’t love yourself that much.
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Because if you do, prior to your wedding I’m very sure there are behaviours that are evident if you have taken enough time to get to know your husband. Certain attitudes and habits of his should not be a surprise, because when you made those commitment to your husband, you were committing to his whole being. It’s rare that people turn into a new person after marriage.

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cc lalasticlala dominique

too bad for them..... Celebrity weddingd

Theirs aren't the first and will definitely not be the last



So unfortunate they can't patch up

Ubi Thunder fire you..you suppose turn this Lilian girl to baby mama..you run go marry ode you waste all ur money..if u were my blood I will never talk to u in my life..you a big fool..pls help bc until it get to him..nonsense boy you not take care of your parents money dey drive u crazy.. Unless boy.

True talk...when a woman loves a man,she loves him with all her heart...

But If the woman loves the man that much, she would cover up so many things for him and also believe in him.

I love that phrase.

It's not right to put all the blame on Lilian though... Some men can frustrate you to do things you wouldn't do on a normal day.

Their live, their business

Who asked you
Where is that pics self

so after that their bloody rich police-catch-thief pre-wedding photos bashed instagram, they on a bid to divorce (thass if they haven't yet).
mtcheew

lanicky:
But If the woman loves the man that much, she would cover up so many things for him and also believe in him.

I love that phrase.

It's not right to put all the blame on Lilian though... Some men can frustrate you to do things you wouldn't do on a normal day.

The Lilian of a lady is too childish, she keeps giving the media things to talk on.

Infact, the writer is right: the love between them wasn't genuine.

Benita27:
The Lilian of a lady is too childish, she keeps giving the media things to talk on.

Infact, the writer is right: the love between them wasn't genuine.

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Benita27:
The Lilian of a lady is too childish, she keeps giving the media things to talk on.

Infact, the writer is right: the love between them wasn't genuine.

Lol.. I know. That was a mistake on her part.
I guess she's one of the over emotional females....

*shrugs* I do not really like the sound of divorce, why marry if you still gonna divorce no matter what. So I agree with you... Obviously their love wasn't genuine.

lanicky:

Lol.. I know. That was a mistake on her side.
I guess she's one of the over emotional females....

*shrugs* I do not really like the sound of divorce, why marry if you still gonna divorce no matter what. So I agree with you... Obviously their love wasn't genuine.

Are you saying that nothing will ever make u to consider divorce.

chisco82:

Are you that nothing will ever make u to consider divorce.

Lol


Happy new year in advance.

lanicky:


Lol


Happy new year in advance.

Same to you my dear...
But you did n't answer my question.
The answer is very important to me please.
Thanks

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chisco82:

Are you saying that nothing will ever make u to consider divorce.

Only if my hubby wants to kill me or maybe I get to know some ugly secrets he's been keeping.

lanicky:


Only if my hubby wants to kill me or maybe I get to know some ugly secrets he's been keeping.

Chop knuckle

ouzo1:








Chop knuckle

Lol

lanicky:


Only if my hubby wants to kill me or maybe I get to know some ugly secrets he's been keeping.

Like what? At the bolded.

chisco82:

Like what? At the bolded.

. Dunno why you're hell bent on knowing.

See.. I don't pray for things like that to happen to me.. So let's talk about something else.

Happy new year.

lanicky:

. Dunno why you're hell bent on knowing.

See.. I don't pray for things like that to happen to me.. So let's talk about something else.

Happy new year.

You are getting me wrong here, neither do i pray for such. I ask because what u call urgly secret might not matter to another lady.
Anyway lets leave it. What happen to ur Bbm?