betatalk:
I have been married for so many years my wife has provoked me too she has both male and female friends. I have not hit her for once. I show my strength as a man in other ways not a coward way

she haven't provoke you to a level were you will lose your sense of reasoning not just yet!

base on her write-ups she is talking on how the man is accusing her of infidelity, that may lead to trigger to her beatings. the man may have caught her on numerous accounts and probably there son may not be his.

hear the man side of the story before conclusion!

similar incident have happen to me and she have accused me of what I didn't not do!

Coldfeet:

Happy birthday

This is the height of wickedness! Abeg, advice ti my fellow single ladies.. Don't be intimidated by pre wedding pics and rings o. It's better to die single than rush into a marriage like this just to be called Mrs somebody . May God help us all..

tartarus:
As usual nairaland boys will still find a way to blame a female and justify the males actions. Most Nigerian male youths were not brought up well, at all! Parents need to train up their male kids in the same way they train female kids. We just have ego inflated males walking about with the notion that a female must do everything to please them and not provoke them.

Truly boys!! Too many shameful comments. If your wife is promiscuous, send her away by divorcing her not by beating her to the point of death.

queenblossom:
I hope u will forgive him again for d sake of ur children. Next time he will beat u to death and that children u are staying blc of them will be gone and u won't be able to take care of them again. I pray u are wiser now.

I still wonder how a woman will be in a marriage and be enduring such a thing. All in the name that I staying blc of d kids. If d man send u to an early grave how will u stay with d kids in d grave. Thank God u survived this

You have said it all

betatalk:
so to show he is man no to beat her why not send her away if he so despise her. Advice to ladies don't marry a guy with low self esteem

don't you think she may stage her beating to achieve her evil goal?

you haven't been in such been in such circumstance thats why you think the way you think


my advice to men, don't marry a woman with low self esteem

goingape:
she haven't provoke you to a level were you will lose your sense of reasoning not just yet!

base on her write-ups she is talking on how the man is accusing her of infidelity, that may lead to trigger to her beatings. the man may have caught her on numerous accounts and probably there son may not be his.

hear the man side of the story before conclusion!

similar incident have happen to me and she have accused me of what I didn't not do!

It's obvious you find joy in assaulting women from all your comments.

There's no justification for beating up one's wife or girlfriend this bad. Just take a walk. It's that simple. In saner climes, this man will be looking at at least 8 years in a Federal prison. To stay married is not a do or die affair abeg.

Too common with Ibo men.

goingape:
she haven't provoke you to a level were you will lose your sense of reasoning not just yet!

base on her write-ups she is talking on how the man is accusing her of infidelity, that may lead to trigger to her beatings. the man may have caught her on numerous accounts and probably there son may not be his.

hear the man side of the story before conclusion!

similar incident have happen to me and she have accused me of what I didn't not do!

I was driving with my wife one day the phone rang and I picked the person said hello love I didn't slap or hit her I even told her it might b a wrong number I could go on. All women talk dey provoke instead of me beating the mother of my children I will ask her to go.besides I see it as an insult on her family

Jesus, Jesus, Jesus have mercy

Stegomiah:
Obviously, the signs were there before marriage
But she still went ahead and married him

Ladies if your man did hit you in the past, no matter how much he pleads, no matter the gifts he buys to make it up to you..... He's an abuser, such men can kill you, they won't stop
You should walk away and run from such for your own good
Only cowards will raise up their hands to beat their wives
You wanna be mike tyson, go fight with your mates and do the country and your self a favor
She is not your punching bag

U have said it all

goingape:
don't you think she may stage her beating to achieve her evil goal?

you haven't been in such been in such circumstance thats why you think the way you think


my advice to men, don't marry a woman with low self esteem

stage her beating any man that hits a woman Na coward. The man Na head of the house

lastpage:


The matter has been reported to POLICE man times
The matter is currently in COURT and he is on bail, right?

Why bring the matter to Nairaland again, or what are we supposed to do, that the Police and the Court cannot do?

Obviously, it does not take much thinking to know that this woman is up to something she is not disclosing!

How come your husband keep accusing you of being a HARLOT, on many occasions, with different people?
Is it that he is mad or what?

What exactly are you after?
If he beats you this much, why not just divorce him .... or even stay away from him?

Women like this wife will not desist until they ruin the life of their husband.

Just say you are provoking him so he can beat you and then get sent to jail.

Dem never deform you sef.
Winch! Oloshi!!




Lastpage!

What are you saying? Are you alright?

blazetitov:


It's obvious you find joy in assaulting women from all your comments.

There's no justification for beating up one's wife or girlfriend this bad. Just take a walk. It's that simple. In saner climes, this man will be looking at at least 8 years in a Federal prison. To stay married is not a do or die affair abeg.

what's your problem?


you haven't been in a situation when accused you of the crime you didn't commit.


why I'm even talking to you self

just getout

goingape:
don't you think she may stage her beating to achieve her evil goal?

you haven't been in such been in such circumstance thats why you think the way you think


my advice to men, don't marry a woman with low self esteem

stage how

goingape:
what's your problem?


you haven't been in a situation when accused you of the crime you didn't commit.


why I'm even talking to you self

just getout

maybe the husband is not the one that beat her up but if he is the one Na coward

Pidgin2:


So therefore this man should kill his wife?

My point is that wickedness cut accross gender, but African ladies always play the victim everytime.

betatalk:
stage her beating any man that hits a woman Na coward. The man Na head of the house

if a woman hit a man what would you call that?

Ghost447:
My point is that wickedness cut accross gender, but African ladies always play the victim everytime.

thank you. the rest just don't seem to understand.

If someone should beat my sister this much, na death for him

goingape:
if a woman hit a man what would you call that?

I didn't hit back uncle because I had nothing to proove

Ghost447:
My point is that wickedness cut accross gender, but African ladies always play the victim everytime.

if a man and woman fight who is e victim if a soldier and a man fight who b victim

Still looking for what really led to this battering however it is bad doing this to a woman you say you love.Even though she was caught in escapade the worst is to send her packing.

goingape:
what's your problem?


you haven't been in a situation when accused you of the crime you didn't commit.


why I'm even talking to you self

just getout

There you go. Getting defensive. Did the wife accuse the husband wrongly to deserve that kind of beat down. And it's shameful you are justifying it by hiding behind one finger.

You might need an anger management session. Cheers.

betatalk:
stage how

a woman once accused me of rape and violence just because I want to leave that relationship because of her violent character!

I ended up in detention and pay a huge money to get myself out.

isn't that sage?

Imagine

goingape:
a woman once accused me of rape and violence just because I want to leave that relationship because of her violent character!

I ended up in detention and pay a huge money to get myself out.

isn't that sage?

true talk I agree but if the man did this to his wife e b animal

tartarus:
As usual nairaland boys will still find a way to blame a female and justify the males actions. Most Nigerian male youths were not brought up well, at all! Parents need to train up their male kids in the same way they train female kids. We just have ego inflated males walking about with the notion that a female must do everything to please them and not provoke them.

sharap and keep shut. You talk as if you no know woman. Maybe you still be kids. You think say marriage na courtship wey be bed of roses? ask your popman if he never touch your mama, ask your grandpa if he never beat your grandma before, ask your uncles if them never beat their wives before. Ask your leaders(Imams, pastors, alfas, govenors, ministers, senators etc) if them never beat their wives before. Na who him wife report na him you know and you wey dey here dey talk rubbish go beat una wife pass this. Abeg, park your useless comment and go. Shior, I pity the lady but you can never underestimate a woman when it comes to trouble, dem go provoke you do wetin you no believe say you fit do. Dat is woman

blazetitov:


There you go. Getting defensive. Did the wife accuse the husband wrongly to deserve that kind of beat down. And it's shameful you are justifying it by hiding behind one finger.

You might need an anger management session. Cheers.

you meant need one for yourself!


have a nice day

onedayatime:

sharap and keep shut. You talk as if you no know woman. Maybe you still be kids. You think say marriage na courtship wey be bed of roses? ask your popman if he touch your mama, ask your grandpa if he never beat your grandma before, ask your uncles if them never beat their wives before. Ask your leaders(Imams, pastors, alfas, govenors, ministers, senators etc) if them never beat their wives before. Na who him wife report na him you know and you wey dey here dey talk rubbish go beat una wife pass this. Abeg, park your useless comment and go. Shior, I pity the lady but you can never underestimate a woman when it comes to trouble, dem go provoke you do wetin you no believe say you fit do. Dat is woman

Don't quote me again. Retar.ded child.

I can't make sense of your gibberish
My dad never hit my mom, I never hit my sisters. If you come from a family of women beaters you should keep it in mind that not everyone is as violent as your family. Wild dog!

Wow, d husband na confirm make up artist

Sorry dear, I know women can push u to d wall sometimes but hitting a woman is no no no, but my advice to this woman is to separate from him for 6months to see if he would change and if he still remains d same animal he is..... DIVORCE!!! It's better to live as a divorcee than to be 6ft under with a wedding ring