Woman whose husband attacked and stabbed her in her private part speaks from hospital bed

Ifeoma Ojiakor whose husband beat her and attacked her private part with a broken bottle on Dec. 24th (read here) took to Facebook to tell her sad story. Read below…

This is unacceptable This is my Ifeoma okeke Ojiakor story. Saddest Christmas ever!!! Lying down in pains on my hospital bed I’m writing this with tears flowing my eyes. I could remember on d 24th night I made a post on facebook sending out special greetings to everyone with d hope of having a merry Christmas with family,friends, and loved ones
My husband by name Mr Victor ojiakor was always fond of hitting me at any slightest provocation and this issue has been resolved at so many police stations..whenever I report d beating escapades they wud settle us at the police station and he wud be asked to sign undertaking never to hit me anymore.He has even hit me at his village in d presence of his mother and father then reason being that he accused me of having an affair with his brother..His parents settled it after which he promised never to hit me again we reconciled mostly because of the kids ..after we returned back to lagos he hit me again while I was pregnant for our third child that I began to bleed.i was rushed to the hospital by neighbours before my mum was called to d hospital …the case was reported at the ministry of women affairs at alausa ikeja where he was invited and there promised never to repeat such again…now the height of this happened on d 25th of December he came back home at about 6.30pm and started accusing me of sleeping with his boy (a 16yr old boy…can you imagine?)he didn’t even wait for me to say a word he pounced on me and started beating me up with sticks,machete, bottle,e.t.c he said he was going to kill me and nothing would happen ..he also stabbed the said boy with a machete don’t knw d boy’s where about now…after beating me up for a sin I didn’t commit he locked me up and held me hostage seizing my phone for 2 days. .nobody knw wat was happening to me I collapsed honestly I taught I would never survive this..I just kept pleading with him each passing day to pls tk me to the hospital before I die he refused telling me that he wanted to render me useless I jst kept crying until I told him to tk me to a pastor that was when he pushed me into his car n drove me to a place it was there that I pleaded with d prophetess to help me ..the prophetess on seeing my condition then adviced him to take me to d hospital for immediate treatment that was how I was taken to d hospital on getting there I pleaded with d doctor to use her phone to call my sister who in turn informed my mum and they started rushing to the hospital. .at d hospital immediately he sensed that I might have reached my family he started dragging me,removed d drip from my hand I was crying out for help immediately my mum entered d hospital he ran away ..at the moment I am in my mums place with my 3 kids. ..2 boys and a 3months old baby girl…d matter was charged to court and he was granted bail of 250,000naira…why I am left to wallow in pains for no offense I committed all because I married a heartless man and was enduring all these because of my kids and the society who kept telling me to forgive that he is my husband and he would change ….look at my life now!how I wish I left this marriage since!Happy new year everyone!
http://www.todaysnews.com.ng/woman-whose-husband-attacked-stabbed-private-part-speaks-hospital-bed/

this is ridiculous. ......emotional threat kills faster

Many of us know 'wife beater' from day one and still lure ourselves into marrying them.

Sorry for the pains. ThankGod you're recovery

And you re still in the marriage because of your children and with hope that one day he will change. Good for you, but what happen if he kills you before changing.

Story like this should serve as an example to young girls out there, because there's always a sign in a man who will end up using you as a punching bag for every slide reason.

Sorry to say this looking at the lady in the story picture when all was going well, I'll say she was this type of girl that will really desire the easy life.

I swearto God, i don't believe this blogger bullshit side of the story.

From 24th Dec, to 25th Dec 6:30pm....

you stab my sister like this
I vanish you she won't even know what happened to you sef











you will just go away forever

CplusJason:
I swearto God, i don't believe this blogger bullshit side of the story.


From 24th Dec, to 25th Dec 6:30pm....

i beg u make u beleive am?

Maybe her toto no dey stay 1 place

Staying in an abused marriage cos of the children is the "lamest" excuse ever when the children might even turn to be an abuser cos of what they grow up to see.
Ladies should avoid men with tendency of being an abuser like a plague.My biggest fear is watching a man beating me,oh No!

wtfCode:
Maybe her toto no dey stay 1 place

how u take know

wtfCode:
Maybe her toto no dey stay 1 place

See them
More reason he should kill her abi?

Florblu:
Staying in an abused marriage cos of the children is the "lamest" excuse ever when the children might even turn to be an abuser cos of what they grow up to see.
Ladies should avoid men with tendency of being an abuser like a plague.My biggest fear is watching a man beating me,oh No!

you right my dear

dollarprincess:
i beg u make u beleive am?

My apologise madam.

Just my opinion.

Florblu:


See them
More reason he should kill her abi?

No honey, I'm not supporting that monster.
I'm tryna figure out what could cause the problem

CplusJason:
My apologise madam.


Just my opinion.

lol no vex ooh
you free to say what ever u want to say it a free world

dollarprincess:

how u take know

I just Figured it out.

Excuse me ma'am, its that pic on ur profile you?

dollarprincess:

lol no vex ooh
you free to say what ever u want to say it a free world

It's all good.

such again…now the height of this happened on d 25th of December he came back home at about 6.30pm and started accusing me of sleeping with his boy (a 16yr old boy…can you imagine?)he didn’t even wait for me to say a word he pounced on me and started beating me up with sticks,machete, bottle,e.t.c he said he was going to kill me and nothing would happen ..he also stabbed the said boy with a machete don’t knw d boy’s where about now…after beating me up for a sin I didn’t commit he locked me up and held me hostage seizing my phone for 2 days.





I suspect some kind of exaggeration here madam...

though ur husband was very wrong for beating u

CplusJason:
It's all good.

thanks

wtfCode:

I just Figured it out.

Excuse me ma'am, its that pic on ur profile you?

yep

dollarprincess:

yep

My lawd U're sooo beautiful.
Luv ur lips

Please tell the woman to stop cheating on the husband nothing hurt a man than when you sense that a girl friend sleeps around not to talk of a wife.I don't care what may follow my comment but I know the man can not be hustile on the woman for no justifiable reason. And it must be her sleeping around. And for the man,I would not go this length but I would back out of the marriage.