TheArchangel:
Both are not worth listening to if they on a shouting match on each other. My husband ordering me to enter the car as if i am a dog must be mad and then my Dad arguing with his guest must also be mad too. I have to be "madder" than them by ignoring them and walking away.

CC: crackhaus

bukatyne:


Sorry to disappoint you, I don't have a different 'persona' here

And not everybody's marriage dynamic is same; some people are one with their spouses and will present a single front to their parents.

Seriously receive sense.

Why are you so scared of answering the question?

bukatyne:


So you expect the husband to intervene if the MIL & Wife is having a shouting match while you are asking a wife who she will obey when hubby & FIL is having a fracas

RS!

If your MIL and yourself had a misunderstanding and your husband intervenes, who would you prefer he sides/obeys?

I believe the part in bold is the question. Why are you stuck on the word 'intervene' and still scared of answering both questions?

bukatyne:


CC: crackhaus

Yea I saw it, that's the feminist response which you were getting worked up over na.

I'm NOT surprised you haven't preached your usual sermon of "a man shall leave his parents and become one with his wife."
Husband and wife first before any other person, abi nor be so una talk?

crackhaus:

Yea I saw it, that's the feminist response which you were getting worked up over na.

I'm NOT surprised you haven't preached your usual sermon of "a man shall leave his parents and become one with his wife."
Husband and wife first before any other person, abi nor be so una talk?

Getting worked up ke

That is my sermon and will always be my sermon . A man leaves his parents and becomes one with his wife

You can glean my response from my second post...

I wouldn't be obeying either of them; I will work towards settling them before raising dust privately with whom is at fault.

And the probability of your dream scenario happening? 1%

bukatyne:


Getting worked up ke

That is my sermon and will always be my sermon . A man leaves his parents and becomes one with his wife

You can glean my response from my second post...

I wouldn't be obeying either of them; I will work towards settling them before raising dust privately with whom is at fault.

But shouldn't you be seen as supporting your husband in public before anything regardless?
One with your husband before any other person including your father and mother, right?

And the probability of your dream scenario happening? 1%

My dream scenario? Did I create the thread?

What would make my husband and father shout at each other in the first place?

crackhaus:

But shouldn't you be seen as supporting your husband in public before anything regardless?
One with your husband before any other person including your father and mother, right?


My dream scenario? Did I create the thread?

Go hubby go hubby when he and my dad are having a go at one other?

I honestly give up.

bukatyne:


Go hubby go hubby when he and my dad are having a go at one other?

I honestly give up.

ethene:

no I mean can we meet physically?

deebee13:


OK. I'm Deebee13, nice to meet you

me am not even interested in the essence of the thread again but this one

deebee13:


OK. I'm Deebee13, nice to meet you

Arrrh, wtf like seriously am actually rolling on the floor