Please fellow nairalanders help analyse these:

Mid last year i had a project i was working on so it needed me to always go to the bank to withdraw money to pay some workers, i and a particular staff of the bank started getting close so much that most times i will ask her to check my account balance just to know what came in, always hanging out through out the wk end. She is two years older and i told her i cant date someone older, all she will say is that it does not matter. I was not sure if she really liked me or she was attracted to me cos of the money in my account she thought was mine. In long and short of the whole story, there was a time i had money problems and she offered to help but i hesitated and told her i don't borrow money anyhow especially not from a lady she persisted and i collected some money. It got to a time things were not just working out between us so i called it quit. Now after several months of her trying to make us come back and its not just working she is demanding that i give her all the money she has ever given me, and she never for once said she was lending. Guys what do you all fell i should do?

Olojukokoro. Abeg pay her back. Did you taste the sweet yam in between?

you be thief, abeg pay her money jo, ole

Bros, no long story pay her the money.Chikena

abi oh. no long thing pay up!

Guy,forget am.the money don enta voice mail, i which any girl will come my path with chess for me to chop am dry, i will be highly diappointed if in your next thread you say you have paid the money back to her.

one day, monkey'll enter market, e no go return again.

kingsots:

Please fellow nairalanders help analyse these:
Mid last year i had a project i was working on so it needed me to always go to the bank to withdraw money to pay some workers, i and a particular staff of the bank started getting close so much that most times i will ask her to check my account balance just to know what came in, always hanging out through out the wk end. She is two years older and i told her i cant date someone older, all she will say is that it does not matter. I was not sure if she really liked me or she was attracted to me cos of the money in my account she thought was mine. In long and short of the whole story, there was a time i had money problems and she offered to help but i hesitated and told her i don't borrow money anyhow especially not from a lady she persisted and i collected some money. It got to a time things were not just working out between us so i called it quit. Now after several months of her trying to make us come back and its not just working she is demanding that i give her all the money she has ever given me, and she never for once said she was lending. Guys what do you all fell i should do?

Shame no dey catch u sef, u eat her money finish now u come here to type expired grammer. Pay her back, she too old 4u to date but her money dey too fresh for u to eat.

Very simple . If she wants her money because you quit then tell her you are sorry but you want her back. This time you can borrow more and pay in kind. Whao! Am a genius. Amant I?

pay bck her money, simples

kingsots:

there was a time i had money problems and she offered to help but i hesitated and told her i don't borrow money anyhow especially not from a lady she persisted and i collected some money.

She gave you the money of her own free will, but then if she made it clear at the time that she was lending it to you, then it's payable when able!!! She cannot force you to steal now to pay her back, can she? just because she couldn't have what she wanted!

pay her back jare y are u still asking, u no get shame dont let her start embarrassing u.

How much is the money by the way

You want help am pay?

My friend pay the girl what you owe

of course, any man with a conscience will pay the money back. she was caring enough to help you in your times of needs and now you are even thinking of NOT paying?!

if you dont have the money to pay, you should sit down and let her know that you will pay a certain amount every week until all the fee is paid back.

pls dont use d word pay cuz u dont owe her.

you can choose to either return d money or not so long as she did not say she was lendin u as at that time.

please dnt be coerced u are not obligated in any way to return d money o

BUt if and only if she did not state at d time dt she was lendin u and u did nt state u were borrowing it.

bros find way return the cash; you don fall your hand.

I had a similar experience last year. Ofcourse i refused to pay at first but then i did exactly wat MR brown suggested. I dnt like it when girls start getting desperate and determined, _{juju fit follow am sef,} I ve fully paid up and we re friends now  _{but only on phone as i cnt see mysef paying her a visit no matter d occassion}.

guy you owe nobody a penny except for the cash in which she initially borrowed you and had told you she was borrowing you.orelse tell her to pay for the time spent with her and vomitt every meal you have ever bought her

was there anything like paper documentation at the time of lending?
Nevertheless, return her money if you can.
wait a minute, I'm pretty sure you ain't making her regret ever coming to your aid?

when you had money problem did you ask for a loan or she just offered to help out and did you say "thanks for the help i'll pay you back"

if not you dont owe her a single penny imagine if guys start asking women for all the money we spend on them how rich would we all be you owe her nothing.

yorke:

Guy,forget am.the money don enta voice mail, i which any girl will come my path with chess for me to chop am dry, i will be highly disappointed if in your next thread you say you have paid the money back to her.

LWKMD!

you are the cause of the problem and ure saying see u see problem~

damn~

Don't just pay back but in double, if it takes you a little while to do so, triple the amount.

Only Nigerians will take a huge amount of money from someone and think it's a "dash". She never told you she was lending indeed.
LOL I can't shout.

Guys will be guys. . . If she give u the money, that does not mean that she is NOT LENDING you the money. Read in between the lines abeg! For me, If I offer to help you out financially, I would expect you to pay me back when you have the money or when Im in need. . .

SO PLEASE PAY HER ALL THE MONEY BACK AS IT DOES NOT BELONG TO YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE. Thank you 

kingsots:

Please fellow nairalanders help analyse these:

Mid last year i had a project i was working on so it needed me to always go to the bank to withdraw money to pay some workers, i and a particular staff of the bank started getting close so much that most times i will ask her to check my account balance just to know what came in, always hanging out through out the wk end. She is two years older and i told her i cant date someone older, all she will say is that it does not matter. I was not sure if she really liked me or she was attracted to me cos of the money in my account she thought was mine. I[b]n long and short of the whole story, there was a time i had money problems and she offered to help but i hesitated and told her i don't borrow money anyhow especially not from a lady she persisted and i collected some money[/b]. It got to a time things were not just working out between us so i called it quit. Now after several months of her trying to make us come back and its not just working she is demanding that i give her all the money she has ever given me, and she never for once said she was lending. Guys what do you all fell i should do?

there are two parts of the tale that are contradictory, did u take the help once, or it was a continuos thing?

man which way ever, ppay her back what she invested in the supposed r/s. afterall i assumed u told her u was dating at some point, for her to give u all she gave.

Its not clear whether there was any borrowing or not, however, if there was then the poster is only obliged to refund what he actually borrowed; but not the entire money she spent on him during the whole relationship

And shame on those, especially the guys, that say he should pay back everything.

Imagine if the tables were reversed, that it was a guy spending on a girl who got dumped.

How many of the ladies now shouting blue murder would consider or agree  to returning back all (the cash & gifts) they had so cleverly fleeced from many a hapless guy (mugu turned mumu) from?
The mere asking would by itself invoke the wrath of all her friends, the female community and anyone that cared to listen as to why the hapless guy should be regarded as ungentlemanly.
So whats the difference this time around, is because the victim is a woman?
How many guys have fallen to such female exploitation? Abeg jo let the girl go and sulk.

At least for this one, na mumu turn mugu  peace 

, she must be funny for giving u cash , pay her cash , be responsible , , pay her ,

ole, thief, pay her her money,

Pay her the money before mama-gee meets you there.