Good morning Nlanders, I will try and make this short as possible. I'm in my late 20s but I haven't disflower ed a lady before. I met this gal during last general election, but we started dating last September. Fast forward we agreed to having sex days ago. The sex was delayed because of her virginity claim nd her anthem of marrying whoever disvirgin her. After the pre-intimacy low and behold her v was wide opened prior to inserting my D. I was surprised but not shocked due to her insistent claims that she's a Virgin. I removed condom then she paused and said "if you disflower me and ever leave me I will not forgive you".I told her many things could happen that I hate such statements... My spirit was off the sex, but my d was at attention. I thrust my d down and v lo and behold it was a smooth entrance, she start moaning like she will cry, wrangling all over the bed. I was pursuing her with my d, but I soon got tired of these and lost interest. I removed my d and I was shocked I didn't see any stain of blood on my d. I tried with my bare d again, making her sit on it from top, she swallowed my whole length.. Still no blood, but painful moans. I told her she's not a Virgin but she swore with her past and future she is but I don't believe. I don't love her anymore because I think she's a liar. I need advice pls. Is it a normal thing to not see blood during disflowering. NB: there was a time she told me she fingered herself and blood is coming out. Help me folks what's happening, what should I believe. I love her before but I can't cope with a liar. She's still complaining of pains in her v till now 3 days after.

You wan drink the blood?

Dat girl is synonymous with APC and buhari...

Hope u grab dat.

I hate lecturing Untutored folks like you...but what the hell?



So, The Vaginas come in different sizes, Depths, Width and shapes. Just like Your diicks. y'all could have Big, small, medium, short, extremely short, dwarfy kind of diicks.

Same with The females, Some Vaginas are deeper than some. some are wider. some are smaller, some are juicier and all that. Females talk about these things. Pfft! she just might be one of those lucky females with Not-so-tight Vjayjayz.

And again, You should actually be proud you had free access. shows you did your work right. the pre-intimacy was lit. the vagina Muscles are very elastic. anxiety makes those muscles clench even tighter. when women become 'Sexually aroused". the vaginal muscles Expands. I. e it gets more loose. in order for Your dumb phallus to penetrate. get it?

About the Blood not coming out thingy...its not a necessity. if You were gentle enough, you could destroy the hymen without any injuries.

The best thing you can do to yourself is to stop giving a fhuck about virginity and look for some other desirable attributes in her. Many of them have been victims of perversion, deceit, depression, isolation, neglect and they traded their sexuality while passing through those times. Most ladies of nowadays lost their virginity before they received sense but the hymen is already gone. If such lady then meets a lovable guy who is an ardent worshipper of virginity (just like you ), she may have to lie especially if she knows you are naive about how fhucking a Virgin feels. So whosoever wants to enjoy any good thing from those ladies should find other admirable attributes and ignore virginity. Your life will be better off...

Lol.. this is classic.
A lady can be deflowered without blood stains. But you won't have smooth entrance that very first time. What i have observed over time is that most girls have done it once and still claim to be virgins afterwards. So my conclusion is this

1. She has done it before maybe just once
2. She might really be virgin and na marriage you see so
3. She a fucking liar and bent on hold you down with lies upon lies. Like how she fingered herself before now. That's could be a lie to make swallowing the bigger lie easier. Lol.

Last last you are on your own. Nobody on Nairaland cares. Not even seun or lalasticlala.

Why is the blood so important to you

my brother hahaha........but seriously no b me go help u clean ya mouth for dis mata.

Hmmn...

Op don't worry the blood would come just be patient maybe after the early sign of her pregnancy..

Very funny post... Op you no well at all

Very hilarious. op is d place borehole? she can lie o

Estharfabian:



I hate lecturing Untutored folks like you...but what the hell?



So, The Vaginas come in different sizes, Depths, Width and shapes. Just like Your diicks. y'all could have Big, small, medium, short, extremely short, dwarfy kind of diicks.

Same with The females, Some Vaginas are deeper than some. some are wider. some are smaller, some are juicier and all that. Females talk about these things. Pfft! she just might be one of those lucky females with Not-so-tight Vjayjayz.

And again, You should actually be proud you had free access. shows you did your work right. the pre-intimacy was lit. the vagina Muscles are very elastic. anxiety makes those muscles clench even tighter. when women become 'Sexually aroused". the vaginal muscles Expands. I. e it gets more loose. in order for Your dumb phallus to penetrate. get it?

About the Blood not coming out thingy...its not a necessity. if You were gentle enough, you could destroy the hymen without any injuries.

despite your harsh tone, I learnt something. Thanks

Jibril659:
Why is the blood so important to you

the blood is not important to me. I don't give a Bleep about the blood. Just asking for opinions if she's lying or not. From the experience folks

Op! You wan use her blood do money ritual ni?

You are a supect.. .

last35:
despite your harsh tone, I learnt something. Thanks

I'm sorry if I came off as harsh.


forgive me?


So, don't Dispute the fact that Your girlfriend Could've really been a virgin. it ain't about 'tightness'

Onijagidijagan:
Very hilarious. op is d place borehole? she can lie o

I wonder, thank God I refused to wait till "wedding night" how disappointed would I be. .

Estharfabian:




I'm sorry if I came off as harsh.


forgive me?


So, don't Dispute the fact that Your girlfriend Could've really been a virgin. it ain't about 'tightness'

yes it's okay. Thanks

CoolFlexer:
The best thing you can do to yourself is to stop giving a fhuck about virginity and look for some other desirable attributes in her. Many of them have been victims of perversion, deceit, depression, isolation, neglect and they traded their sexuality while passing through those times. Most ladies of nowadays lost their virginity before they received sense but the hymen is already gone. If such lady then meets a lovable guy who is an ardent worshipper of virginity (just like you ), she may have to lie especially if she knows you are naive about how fhucking a Virgin feels. So whosoever wants to enjoy any good thing from those ladies should find other admirable attributes and ignore virginity. Your life will be better off...

thanks.. But I'm not desperate about virgins more ever I'm not one. I just want to know maybe she's lying or not. That's all. Thanks again

Hahahahaha... This remind me of someone.. I am laughing when I hear such storied like this..

Its not LOGICAL for a lady who PRIDES HERSELF as being a VIRGIN and also having a mindset which is that she intends to live the rest of her life with the MAN who DISVIRGINS her to have sold her VIRGINITY at a PALTRY PRICE before MARRIAGE for it is no guarantee that that person will eventualy marry her even if blood gushes out like SPRING. Its only logical if TRUELY was a VIRGIN and see being a VIRGIN a DIGNITY to wait until after MARRIAGE.

There is alot to a woman than being a virgin. What i dont understand is how FORNICATION as become so, much an acceptable way of life.

Why are you upset. You have not done the right thing. If being a VIRGIN matters to you you should not have thought of taking it away before marriage.

post=52606426:
Lol.. this is classic.
A lady can be deflowered without blood stains. But you won't have smooth entrance that very first time. What i have observed over time is that most girls have done it once and still claim to be virgins afterwards. So my conclusion is this

1. She has done it before maybe just once
2. She might really be virgin and na marriage you see so
3. She's a fucking liar and bent on hold you down with lies upon lies. Like how she fingered herself before now. That's could be a lie to make swallowing the bigger lie easier. Lol.

Last last you are on your own. Nobody on Nairal.and cares. Not even seun or lalasti.clala.

Nice one.

Dear op

last35:
thanks.. But I'm not desperate about virgins more ever I'm not one. I just want to know maybe she's lying or not. That's all. Thanks again

There is NOTHING to know any more. One of the major ways of knowing is what you have already done. Is this your FIRST TIME of having sex!? If not what do you want to know. It means you SHOULD KNOW. The major thing right now is, WILL YOU MARRY HER OR NOT.

Men run after virgins when the want to marry, while it is them who CANT KEEP THEIR joysticks in their pants. NAIRALAND AND VIRGINS is like ......................................(fill in the gap)

badinfluence:
Dear op

carry you bleeps and go, person!

I bet u she HV use Alom to do the needful

I bet u she HV use Alom to do the needful after God fear woman

She is not a virgin. She just want to trap you. Run for your dear life before its too late.

i think i understand the OP, it is nt about the virginity per say, it more about how truthful she is, something similar happened to me.

My girlfriend claimed to be a virgin, after waiting almost 2 years cos she was forming we shd wait, one day i slide 2 fingers into her vagina and noticed free access. no blood, nothing. She must be a liar, it is okay for her virgina to be big, but how come no blood. dude something isnt adding up. Are the virginas with no hymen?