to all the DONs on nairaland pls help a brother. for the past five years i have never able to get one reasonable lady for relationship,whereas i am the best matchmaker and senior advicer when it comes to women affairs among my friends .. i have read alot and practicalise few when it comes to women,i give advice to my friends on babe issues am always on point on that,but to get babe for myself na wahalai swear d matter tire me ,even some of my friends stil con dey advice me unto woman matter. abeg make una epp me,i noticed am confused on which to take to,i read a book about women and it all portray "NICE GUY" and i read the dating drill here and its the opposite,if i wan pursue babe i con dey confuse which wan to use ,na so i go ruin d whole thing. and again i discovered i cant hold conversation for long with a woman. pls help a brother

Sometimes, silence is better than talking

bcoz u r always faking...like ur gender here potrays FEMALE meanwhile u r now a man

I have similar problem...i cant chyke girlz fr long or stay persistent xpecially d ones doing shakara...Y im still single at my age

Donlexybaze:
to all the DONs on nairaland pls help a brother. for the past five years i have never able to get one reasonable lady for relationship,whereas i am the best matchmaker and senior advicer when it comes to women affairs among my friends .. i have read alot and practicalise few when it comes to women,i give advice to my friends on babe issues am always on point on that,but to get babe for myself na wahalai swear d matter tire me ,even some of my friends stil con dey advice me unto woman matter. abeg make una epp me,i noticed am confused on which to take to,i read a book about women and it all portray "NICE GUY" and i read the dating drill here and its the opposite,if i wan pursue babe i con dey confuse which wan to use ,na so i go ruin d whole thing. and again i discovered i cant hold conversation for long with a woman. pls help a brother

Desist from the desperation and be your real self, women will naturally come...why you lose them is because whenever you come across one you always act and show them the obvious side of you that you wanna date them, nahh, it doesn't work that way...



One of the greatest rule in getting a girl to say to you is....



Allow her to friendzone you first, yes, as ridiculous as it may sound but that's the white truth my brother....ask any girl, she will first tell you lets continue the way we are for now, but my advice, if she's already in a relationship run, i mean take to your heels, run as far as your legs can carry you but if she's single still stick around...what she's simply telling you when she said "let's just be friends" was, hey dude, what do you have to offer?, let me see your performance before i say yes, and at this point so many guys flee away cos of what nairaland has made them believe about friendzone....lest i forget, the probability that she's gon say "lets give it a try", cos that's their usual language is solely dependent on the fact that she basically likes and finds you appealing..and another reason she will say yes is because she has seen your genuinness and sincerity in the friendzone...girls DON'T date boys they don't like...that's why you have to find out if she likes you first by allowing her to friendzone you cos it's in that friendzone you'd get to know if she likes you, but friendzone should have expiry date ....



Let me stop here first...you need any other thing let me know.

firstking01:
Desist from the desperation and be your real self, women will naturally come...why you lose them is because whenever you come across one you always act and show them the obvious side of you that you wanna date them, nahh, it doesn't work that way...



One of the greatest rule in getting a girl to say to you is....



Allow her to friendzone you first, yes, as ridiculous as it may sound but that's the white truth my brother....ask any girl, she will first tell you lets continue the way we are for now, but my advice, if she's already in a relationship run, i mean take to your heels, run as far as your legs can carry you but if she's single still stick around...what she's simply telling you when she said "let's just be friends" was, hey dude, what do you have to offer?, let me see your performance before i say yes, and at this point so many guys flee away cos of what nairaland has made them believe about friendzone....lest i forget, the probability that she's gon say "lets give it a try", cos that's their usual language is solely dependent on the fact that she basically likes and finds you appealing..and another reason she will say yes is because she has seen your genuinness and sincerity in the friendzone...girls DON'T date boys they don't like...that's why you have to find out if she likes you first by allowing her to friendzone you cos it's in that friendzone you'd get to know if she likes you, but friendzone should have expiry date ....



Let me stop here first...you need any other thing let me know.

thats it bro, simple!

If i may add, some guys are perpetual agberos, spending money yanfu yanfu on girls to get approval. Until a girl say yes to you your fists should be clenched....I dont know why but girls can smell money in your pocket.

@firstking and baba ramota ,thank u sir,he even get one wey find me cum ouz,i loose her hair,wash it then take it to d salon after that i be wan touch her she say no say she no wan do ,as a nice guy na so i leave her am. since then na so she begin play me she no gree cum my ouz again