One and only

Looks like you and your heart got issues.

why wont the guy move on
sometimes i just wonder what u girls want from men?
mmcchhheeeeeeeeeww *Loud hiss*

maybe i dont completely agree. some guys simply start dating soon after a breakup cos they think a new chick will help erase the pain faster. If you ll note, they tend to break up with the new girl faster. well this is for the guy who loves you. Definitely the players keep on moving on like idiots. we girls just ve to keep our eyes wide open.

here u go !! calling guys all sort of names,
girls are like buses, miss one, wait for the next coming !
simple !!!

nice replies so far~

and what abt if the girl simply moves on faster

use bleach to wash her off ur memory !! sharply.
time dey make she dey run naa, who she dey do?
nonsense !

@poster
thats absolutely NOT true.
although a person in love might have a hard time with the break up, there is nothing in the ¨love book¨that says that staying single is how people should mourn after a breakup.
people deal with their losses differently:
- some might want to go and shag as many people as they can to forget.
- some might want to take some time off and dwell on the mistakes they made.
- some take it as an experience, learn from it and move on with their life.
- some get burned so bad that they start hating all men/women and have a sad life from then on.

also it is safe to say that if YOU loved someone and thought that your partner loved you while HE DIDNT, then i am sure he/she will have no problem on dating a new person as soon as possible.
people who need time to see if they can get back together are insecure people STILL hanging onto that other person. . . . . . . and who get mad when that other person find someone else´s shoulder to forget about you.

@brownJay, sorry i couldnt read ur comment bc of its lenght, but im happy u disagree wif this poster !!!
girls, girls? they all think the same !!!

@ Topic
That is so not the case!

Some people just don't believe in wallowing. I can remain single for awhile after a break up but it's not because i'm waiting for li'l cupid to fire his arrow at the two of us again. No siree Bob. . .When i'm done, i'm done and when he's done, i'm even more done.

Don't get how people get back together after breaking up. Doesn't the one who was broken up with have it at the back of their minds that. . .At one time, this person didn't want me. They were ready to go on without me in their life! Jeebus, talk about your major trust issues.

Nah, I can't be in a relationship with someone who takes me back after i've broken up with 'em but I digress, my point is Moving on quickly is NOT a sign that there was no love in the relationship.

@ MrBrownJay
I say this in the most innocent, no hidden meaning behind it way. . .HOW DO I LOVE THEE? LEMME COUNT THE WAYS!!!

That was an absolutely brilliant and insightful post

You tell 'em boy . . Err I mean Mister,

@poster, i once ave a male frd who relatnship broke up, fine dey separated but, d nxt day he was abt 2 see his gal bck nd set tin bck again, but he end up seeing his gal with another guy 4rm his own hood,holding hands nd smile 2each other, na tell hw u want make dat my guy feel, cos vex with dis wela O!

@POSTER

YOUR ISSUE IS COMPLICATED,

CHECK YOURSELF FIRST

the poster sonunds like a kid.grow up girl.[color=][/color]

Not necessarily the case. . .like MRbrownJay said. . .peeps just have their ways of dealing with situations. . .

I personally fall under the group of individuals who take a breakup as an experience in life, I deal with it and move on with my life. . .this doesn't necessarily mean I did not love the person. . .

But I just see life as being to short to dwell on mistakes and certain things that cannot be changed when there are things that can be changed.

the poster sonunds like a kid.grow up girl

How, for the love of God, does the poster sound like a kid? Gosh!! Some people will want to call others immature or kids so people can see u as what? An adult? Mature? Please!!

@poster Guys don't really attach sentiments to these things sometimes. I could breakup with my girlfriend and jump headlong into a r/ship with the next girl not because i didn't love my previous girlfriend, but just for the heck of it.

PS- With guys not everything has to make perfect sense. We just do what we do.

iice:

MBJ and Sisi. . .Kudos!

Me? I don't jump into relationships. . .people tire me

If you don't wanna jump into the next available flight, no problem, as for me, see me see the next available flight, life goes on.Atimes wouldn't wanna know how as long as i got there.
in a plain English, i'd move on as soon as possible, if I saw something juicer, or else would comeback to you immediately, every second counts in one's life.

iice:

I do understand people's reasons for 'moving on'.
To not jump into the next relationship doesn't equal wasting time

yeah, it depends on one's definition of 'moving on' it necessary might not be the intimate type just to keep the body and soul together  

It's jst dat some girls can't be trusted, it's better to move on with ur dear life than 2 fill wit thoughts,find a new luv 2 chill d hrt attack.

why shld u care how quickly he moves on? after break up its irrelevant if he really loved me or nt either case we r still broken up but to ans ur question- there's no correlation between how quickly he moves on n d luv he has 4 u. Most times the quicker it is that a guy moves on the more likely it is that d new relationship is a rebound evn the guy will nt realise it he will jst hv d excitement n intense feeln of bein close 2 a new, "perfect" girl but after a few weeks d illusion is shattered then he remembers that he actually luvs u