As a lady, I get confused when I hear reports of other women stalking men known to have counterparts.

This has happened to my friend recently, she would tell me that women would come up to the husband when she is not there and tell him that they are going to "steal him away" from his wife.


My friends, I would never do such a thing so I don't know why some well-minding women should.

Apparently a pal on NL is experiencing the same thing with Nameless broads who refuse to give their name.

Why would they do this?
Causes?
Signs and Symptoms?
Forms of Treatment?

one of the mistake some women out there make is that they feel having a piece of a man is better than having no man at all
to me its kind of stupid and childish,and am not one that feels that way

like,when it gets too much for me to handle in a relationship i have gat to go
the next girl can have him,his money,baggages,problems etc
this act needs to stop,before taking some one elses husband they need to think of the people they are gonna hurt

Good. You are wellminded yme

But I dont understand, some ladies when they approach a man, the guy clearly says he is married
and they take it upon themselves to seduce him

Is it like a challenge or something.
Because it doesnt thrill me,
Im trying to figure why they do that?

@plat,
Put yourself in their position and think again. You'll figure it out.

how? I have been single before,
but I can't imagine ever being so desperate to steal away someone elses own

I believe in Karma, and even if not that, whats to guarantee he will stay with me if he sees another chick?


So why bother, its very disrespectful.
So Im really trying to figure why ladies do it.
If you can explain that would be kool

its funny how all these NL subjects reminds me of Chris Rock jokes.

some women are selfish and want it all. if a guy sees another guy with a great girl, the first guy will say: i need to get a girl just like that!
if a woman sees another women with a great guy, she will say: i need to get THAT guy!

LOL, its the nature of the beast. some women would do anything to get the right guy even if that guy is attached, married or playing on two side of the fence!!!!!!

its obvious the seeker is in some form of women trouble~

im gonna save him from it platimunk~

@Platinumnk,
Karma ke? How karma come enter here. Na karma go find their man for them? These women have tried their best to get a single man that suits them but losers always show at their doorstep.(Watch waiting to exhale)
Single men are impatient and they always think about themselves.Married men are mature & they know the best way to take care of a woman. They've lived thru the nagging & whining of their wives, so women's wants is like ABC to them.
I'm not encouraging these women to do what they do, but i'm just trying to point out the reasons why they do it.

190:

its obvious the seeker is in some form of women trouble~

im gonna save him from it platimunk~

MRbrownJAY:

its funny how all these NL subjects reminds me of Chris Rock jokes.

some women are selfish and want it all. if a guy sees another guy with a great girl, the first guy will say: i need to get a girl just like that!
if a woman sees another women with a great guy, she will say: i need to get THAT guy!

LOL, its the nature of the beast. some women would do anything to get the right guy even if that guy is attached, married or playing on two side of the fence!!!!!!

See this is why I say I think like a man: If i see a great guy and hes attached, Im thinking Man, I can wait till I get a guy like that, While other women behind me would say "I cant wait to get that man" [color=#990000][/color]

Why the Hell is that?
Is there no other men on the planet?
Is it the challenge?
the Thrill of the chase?
Or are they so bitter they want to ruin someone eles happpiness?


So spill. I wanna know!

cantell:

@Platinumnk,
Karma ke? How karma come enter here. Na karma go find their man for them? These women have tried their best to get a single man that suits them but losers always show at their doorstep.(Watch waiting to exhale)
Single men are impatient and they always think about themselves.Married men are mature & they know the best way to take care of a woman. They've lived thru the nagging & whining of their wives, so women's wants is like ABC to them.
I'm not encouraging these women to do what they do, but i'm just trying to point out the reasons why they do it.

Oh ok thanks, but wasnt these married men also single at first?

Shouldnt they find their own?

And to think, some women carry this with pride

@Topic
Some women are just twisted
As for your NL pal - Typical example of dont put your YIM on your profile

190:

its obvious the seeker is in some form of women trouble~

im gonna save him from it platimunk~

Message me on YIM now!


@Topic

This is a mind-blowing subject, so I have to think carefully before I can say something reasonably relevenat

simple answer---lack of wisdom. . .

A simple case of "the grass looks greener on the other side" . Someone else's guy/husband could seem more appealing to the adventurous ones than the single man on the street begging for their attention .

ebonyz:

@Topic
Some women are just twisted
As for your NL pal - Typical example of dont put your YIM on your profile

Yeah, but thats not a good enough explanation for me, not just on NL,  it happens at Jobs,  at school,
you name it!


So whats the gist? Does going after someones own is a turn- on or what?


You demand respect in your home, but yet one cannot respect others home.

What does posting YIM have to do it, its a facillator but once they get the I am married, they keep going.


Why is that?

Women have been known a lot of times to have high tendencies of jealousy, superiority and competitive complexes. It can be really hard to fathom why some women do this but it's like almost saying she can treat what you have better and the thought that she thinks she's better to deserve, and eventually, have that kind of man than yourself.

It can be tricky the way it's all worked out, but the fact still remains they don't think about the consequences most of the time. Like for example, with the premonition that she can treat him better, she's less likely to think he's going to leave her and neither can another woman take him from her - most of the time, she thinks she can always figure out when someone's playing a dumb game on her man (that she snatched from someone else).

In reality, the truth is some men don't deserve some women and vice versa, however, there should be respect for the other partner regardless.

TheSeeker:

Women have been known a lot of times to have high tendencies of jealousy, superiority and competitive complexes. It can be really hard to fathom why some women do this but it's like almost saying she can treat what you have better and the thought that she thinks she's better to deserve, and eventually, have that kind of man than yourself.

It can be tricky the way it's all worked out, but the fact still remains they don't think about the consequences most of the time. Like for example, with the premonition that she can treat him better, she's less likely to think he's going to leave her and neither can another woman take him from her - most of the time, she thinks she can always figure out when someone's playing a dumb game on her man (that she snatched from someone else).

In reality, the truth is some men don't deserve some women and vice versa, however, there should be respect for the other partner regardless.

He just gave you your answer platinumnk 

ebonyz:

He just gave you your answer platinumnk

hahahh I think I waste my time on Nl, I should just ask him everything

platinumnk:

hahahh I think I waste my time on Nl, I should just ask him everything

Lol. Dude is defo intelligent

There r lots of explanations 4 this:A "perfect mate" is always an object of desire. . .perhaps d man shows all d attributes d single woman wants in a man.
"Emotionally single" women who r "emotionaly divorced" seek d ideal man, even if he's already married.
it could be wealth--it works best in attracting women.
it's also possible 4 d fun of it:an attached man may be better 4 a fling. . .a bit of fun.
note:it takes two to cheat.

some women are only attracted to men who are already in a relationship.

So true

@Plat
No, I dont want to steal [i]your [/i]man

^^^ Jesus Christ of Los Angeles

se ke si, kee sele?

I hate it when a lady steals another's lady's bf!!! That is so low. . . Seriously. . . But on the other hand, it shows that that guy is not menat for her anyways and he is also the one playing the role of the bad guy cause he participated in the act and have no real feelings for his original gf.

Hope all the silly women Crusaders like ebony ans amaka read this

na2day?:

Hope all the silly women Crusaders like ebony ans amaka read this

You wan start war?

How does one steal a man? Do you quickly put him in your purse after looking over your shoulders 10 times and then scurry off into the dead of the night or do hold a gun to the wife to keep her from alarming the neighbors as you rustle all six feet and 190lbs of him into the trunk of your car?

The phrase "Stealing a man" has got to be the most offensive phrase in the English language and if i wear a guy i'd be highly. . .Well. . .Highly offended because it relegates them to the role of objects which can be taken willy nillyingly. They have no mind of their own and are always at the mercy of whoever finds them attractive enough to pocket 'em. . .without paying or taking permission from the previous owners and most importantly, it gives the lee way to do things without being held responsible. "Oh darling i had no choice but to cheat on you. . .She stole me, you see"

When are we gonna realize no one can force anyone to cheat. . .And if force is used, then there should be rape report every time the parties have sex.

Ahahahahahahh! What about the man that is being "stolen"? Is he an unanimated object? I laugh in Portuguese.

I wonder who wants to steal plat man

But than again, we should all depend on the situation. My sister was categorize as the lady whom stoles another lady's fiance!

My sister had a friend before (he is now her husband) and he is engaged but the problem is thatbefore they both met, he was already having problems with his fiance. His fiance would ytake his car and bring all her family for clubbing and tells him to stay at her house and watch TV till she comes back. And they always end up fighting.

And so he hang out with my sister and they became good friends and suddenly they fell in love. Than the guy wne tto broke up with his fiance and unfortunately, the day he decided to tell her was on an April Fool's Day so the lady did not believe it untill the next day. Since than, she claim my sister as a bf snatcher and she frame my sister up by publishing her phone number all over the Sex net. LOL!    

Sisi_Kill:

How does one steal a man? Do you quickly put him in your purse after looking over your shoulders 10 times and then scurry off into the dead of the night or do hold a gun to the wife to keep her from alarming the neighbors as you rustle all six feet and 190lbs of him into the trunk of your car?

The phrase "Stealing a man" has got to be the most offensive phrase in the English language and if i wear a guy i'd be highly. . .Well. . .Highly offended because it relegates them to the role of objects which can be taken willy nillyingly. They have no mind of their own and are always at the mercy of whoever finds them attractive enough to pocket 'em. . .without paying or taking permission from the previous owners and most importantly, it gives the lee way to do things without being held responsible. "Oh darling i had no choice but to cheat on you. . .She stole me, you see"

When are we gonna realize no one can force anyone to cheat. . .And if force is used, then there should be rape report every time the parties have sex.

lawd you're funny!