Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

I think the guy above me has said my mind. Don't use what you read on internet to determine the yard stick for the love your fiance has for you, always be unique in your own way.

So you are one of the ladies that follow those relationship ruining commandments?


The truth is .... You no get hand

Its all about prefrences.
Trust me, shaving each other is fun and increases the bond between couples.
Your man might not like the idea. Like I said prefrences.
Am just wondering. With his response, can he give u a head or have other romantic stuff with u?

Compartibility also Matters #justmyopinion.

you need to grow up

Op you should ask him to kiss and lick your feet and axx every morning too it will help you in knowing if the relationship will last, its a relationship rule. I don't mind doing it with my boo boo but don't think every guy is down for it or that if he can't he loves you less, you seem selfish but I'm not surprised. why not be the one to introduce the shaving thing by offering to shave him first when you guys are bathing that is if he got little something that needs shaving after you're done then tell him you would like him to do the same to you not because you shaved him first but because you find it kinky, romantic or whatnot? instead you went "he I BAE, here's a cutlass get this bushes shaved!" come on. One thing I've learned in life is that you can get anyone to do something you want for you but you have to use the right words, time, person and situation.

Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

I tire O.

There is actually no big deal, but since he said No then its a No don't read too much meaning to it.

You need to grow up

Oyind17:
You need to grow up

Break up is imminent.... Its coming... Brace up for it....

Still on still, i still think people who claim to love themselves shouldn't see it as a biggie shaving themselves...too many ego and pride problems in today's relationship, misef tire...the kitty you wag with your dick you can't shave it...honestly, if i were the girl i 'll start doubting your love for me and he go tay before you see that kitty.

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Mrtolotolo:

Sweetheart where u hide since?

Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

na waa oh can you imagine people believe everitin online and moviess...

Since u've been on NL, u dnt even know that I'm a barber, contact me lemme shave it for u, so far it's the one down below, it's not his job! It's something I can do

if he won't shave u, come over let me shave you...

Smhart1:
So you are one of the ladies that follow those relationship ruining commandments?


The truth is .... You no get hand

nice one smhart if na u wetin u go do nor forget say na love

Oyind17:
Sweetheart where u hide since?

I dey mount zion.. how are you?

weexy68:


nice one smhart if na u wetin u go do nor forget say na love

At least love is not stupidity

uvalued:

na waa oh can you imagine people believe everitin online and moviess...

My brother.. I Don imagine tire..
This girl won put her self for wahala when nor dey exist..

Abeg make we dey go jor... This na mumu thread.. Lols

femolacqua:
I tire O.

Nor mid her jor

You made a simple request and he asked a simple question.







You no get hand?

Hmm... Not every guy would wanna do that but you could have done it for him first and he might have been obliged to reciprocate, out of love and respect.

[exactly..not everything u read online.i read an article one time that said if a lady notices her boo comes back frm work and he ain't smiling or jus watching tv..go to d kitchen n get lil water n splash on his face..jus imagine..and that he wud lighten up.so what if he just lost a contract or his job.nxt thing na slapquote author=Snow5 post=53165351]Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo[/quote]

darlingtito:
[exactly..not everything u read online.i read an article one time that said if a lady notices her boo comes back frm work and he ain't smiling or jus watching tv..go to d kitchen n get lil water n splash on his face..jus imagine..and that he wud lighten up.so what if he just lost a contract or his job.nxt thing na slapquote author=Snow5 post=53165351]Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

Lols.. Nor mind OP... Make she go sprinkle water for husband face now na...

Na double standard slap she go collect!! Lols

Smhart1:
At least love is not stupidity

Sometimes I wonder if its love we should blame