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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by kesikeller(m): 4:14pm On Jan 30, 2017
Thank God am 38 not 36

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Emescot(m): 4:15pm On Jan 30, 2017
DuBLINGreenb:
it is just remaining one year for you na
Tahhh! For where? I still be youth o abeg

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by lordizak(m): 4:18pm On Jan 30, 2017
Emescot:
At 25? Me i cant leave home o, each time i leave hunger sends me back like the prodigal son grin
how old are u now?
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Bamz(m): 4:18pm On Jan 30, 2017
wHyyyyyyyyyY:
Hahaha true. Dey c u lik a sturbon nD useless goat lol
Lalasticlala com n see

Is that a goat? angry

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by lordizak(m): 4:19pm On Jan 30, 2017
kesikeller:
Thank God am 38 not 36

Hahahahaa
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by adontcare(f): 4:21pm On Jan 30, 2017
Lwkm. Wow
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by madjune(m): 4:22pm On Jan 30, 2017
If you're making money and still in that house, they will see you as God sent.

By the way, Matthew Mcoughnaey the actor still lives with parents and he's well paid in Hollywood.

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Emescot(m): 4:28pm On Jan 30, 2017
lordizak:
how old are u now?
Am just 23 pere
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Emescot(m): 4:29pm On Jan 30, 2017
Bamz:

Is that a goat? angry
gringringrin this guy you dey vex o grin
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Emescot(m): 4:29pm On Jan 30, 2017
kesikeller:
Thank God am 38 not 36
Agbaya what is the difference grin
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by mastermaestro(m): 4:34pm On Jan 30, 2017
SmartyPants:


I know a lot of very successful people at about that age, who still live with their parents. Sometimes it is a cultural thing, sometimes it is just about mutual convenience. The only question is whether you are leeching off them or you have something tangible doing, yourself.

You are smart. Early departure doesn't always translate to early settlement in life. Many don't know this. They all just want to run out and have the freedom to engage in uncultured acts that parents wouldn't permit under their roofs. Good success meets you when you diligently pursue it and are mentally prepared.

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by lordizak(m): 4:35pm On Jan 30, 2017
Emescot:
Am just 23 pere

U call it just?
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Emescot(m): 4:39pm On Jan 30, 2017
lordizak:

U call it just?
Lol u wan tell me say my mate don dey marry o abi
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by mastermaestro(m): 4:39pm On Jan 30, 2017
madjune:
If you're making money and still in that house, they will see you as God sent.

By the way, Matthew Mcoughnaey the actor still lives with parents and he's well paid in Hollywood.

In fact they will want you to marry and remain with them. grin grin Who wants a liability? Even when you move out and are married but unable to cater for your new family, this is how your wife would also see you. It's all about adding value to the lives of those with whom you live.

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 4:41pm On Jan 30, 2017
Bamz:


Is that a goat? angry
itz a cow but am juxt saying ma own
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Gome23: 4:43pm On Jan 30, 2017
May una no de post rubbish 4 here
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jan 30, 2017
legendte:
Funny but that's what I see in Aso Rock being occupied by Buhari.

Guy you wicked O!

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by kesikeller(m): 4:46pm On Jan 30, 2017
Emescot:
Agbaya what is the difference grin
the difference is two years
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by kesikeller(m): 4:46pm On Jan 30, 2017
lordizak:


Hahahahaa
am telling you
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by juman(m): 4:49pm On Jan 30, 2017
Edwinmason:
it very fustrating

Very very frustrating.

The sad thing is that those useless "leaders" are themselves nigerians.

Would those useless "leaders" children live on moon or venus?
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 30, 2017
olan4ward:
Thank God i am just 35

So how old are u??
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 30, 2017
kabrud:
Very funny but true. D op no well.
when u are without money nt a job
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Reference(m): 5:15pm On Jan 30, 2017
Excuse me. But the truth is that an offspring at home (meaning doing nothing) at that age is a reflection of his parents and is a product of bad parenting. I was telling someone the other day that the beasts of the wild 'teach' their offspring survival skills instinctively. They teach them how to hunt, fight for their food and wellbeing. It is a natural animal instinct lost in humans these days. At the very least why can't the parents transfer the skills and drive that took them out of their parents houses when they were young to their kids now. Nobody is born a success. What everyone is and knows is taught by someone. In those days even without formal education parents did take their children to the farm to learn and work and when they came of age carved out a portion of land for them to fend for themselves and secure their future.

Land today has been exchanged for education and farming for professions. What can't the parents take the young man and woman to work to show him or her how money is made. Why can't he be taken to 'the office' or workshop or clinic or library or laboratory or shop or cantonment to learn, aid and become a man or woman of value. It is the parent who has no value for himself or herself that cannot transmit value. My kids will not write applications, walk the streets or seek employment for one second of their lives because I am a man of vision who knows they will finish or continue what time will not permit me to accomplish and hopefully they will be a better, upgraded version of me. I will not go to school, acquire knowledge, waste years in building experience and capacity only to let it all rot when I die and have my generation start afresh.

That is why we are so backward in Africa. It is all about money not about value, behaving in ways even goats will not. That may be a cow on the bed but what births a cow if not an older cow. Nonsense.

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by bukaeno1: 5:21pm On Jan 30, 2017
Yes I still live with them,CAN YOU HELP No job after school and applied for loan to support my business idea T&C that I can't meet up with is what the financial institutions has to offer. Looking up to God. Any help will be highly appreciated
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 30, 2017
Gome23:
May una no de post rubbish 4 here
I dey suscept u


As of wen u open dis acc,u wie r 23.


how old are u now?
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Jennifer89(f): 5:58pm On Jan 30, 2017
olan4ward:
Thank God i am just 35
that means its a goat they'll see on the bed grin
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jan 30, 2017
TUFIAPA! BIG COW grin
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by lozanni(m): 6:14pm On Jan 30, 2017
Gten:
Old fattened cow still at home feeding off daddy's pension. Eviction straight.............

I blame the system.
The absence of a mortgage system that is affordable and lets you own your own home in as little as 10 years does not help matters here.
If you were brought up in a middle class environment, and you are a graduate earning about 50k per month, you might find it difficult to rent a flat in a decent area because you would be told its 500k per annum and you must make a down payment of 2 years plus agency commission of 10% of the entire sum, plus caution fees.
The above causes young graduates to be stranded in their middle class parents homes, unless they (parents) offer to give you some funds to start off life as an independent adult.
Some strong guys actually took the hard way to establish their independence by moving from their parents middle class homes to to face to face apartments before making it on their own to move to plush homes of their own or rent such apartments; however, people are different and some might find it hard to leave the comfortable environment they are used to for a strange environment devoid of privacy and comfort.

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by MSEdLAW(m): 6:22pm On Jan 30, 2017
Reference:
Excuse me. But the truth is that an offspring at home (meaning doing nothing) at that age is a reflection of his parents and is a product of bad parenting. I was telling someone the other day that the beasts of the wild 'teach' their offspring survival skills instinctively. They teach them how to hunt, fight for their food and wellbeing. It is a natural animal instinct lost in humans these days. At the very least why can't the parents transfer the skills and drive that took them out of their parents houses when they were young to their kids now. Nobody is born a success. What everyone is and knows is taught by someone. In those days even without formal education parents did take their children to the farm to learn and work and when they came of age carved out a portion of land for them to fend for themselves and secure their future.

Land today has been exchanged for education and farming for professions. What can't the parents take the young man and woman to work to show him or her how money is made. Why can't he be taken to 'the office' or workshop or clinic or library or laboratory or shop or cantonment to learn, aid and become a man or woman of value. It is the parent who has no value for himself or herself that cannot transmit value. My kids will not write applications, walk the streets or seek employment for one second of their lives because I am a man of vision who knows they will finish or continue what time will not permit me to accomplish and hopefully they will be a better, upgraded version of me. I will not go to school, acquire knowledge, waste years in building experience and capacity only to let it all rot when I die and have my generation start afresh.

That is why we are so backward in Africa. It is all about money not about value, behaving in ways even goats will not. That may be a cow on the bed but what births a cow if not an older cow. Nonsense.

Wisdom above Your generation...God bless you
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by advocatebaba(m): 6:25pm On Jan 30, 2017
DEY C HIM OR HER AS A BIG FOOL.
Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by zheroes(m): 6:26pm On Jan 30, 2017
The post is trash if you ask me!!!! That is why when I see some ladies who say they want to date only guys that have a future prospect I just shake my head in amazement!!!!i I know of someone who lived with the parents till he was 37. Was in a rented apartment until he was 49. But at 58 had about $20,000,000.00( twenty million US dollars) way back 2014. mind you he wasnt into politics but was chasing a contract with a multinational oil and gas company for over a decade.

Life isn't determined by how good you start!! Its a marathon. There is no competition. Some start well and mid way its terrible, some late and end well. Just do your bit and leave the rest. When its working for you never brag that you are too smart, when its going bad never think you are witch hunted!! Time and unforseen occurences befall each one!!!

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Re: "When You Still Live With Your Parents At 36" (Photo) by zynzyn(m): 6:31pm On Jan 30, 2017
edo3:
Not only ur parent,,but d entire neighbourhood.

fact! grin grin

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