NOTE: THIS TREAD MIGHT COME OFF AS AN INSULT TO SOME PEOPLE SO IF YOU FALL INTO THAT CATEGORY, JUST KEEP IN MIND THAT THE TRUTH ALWAYS HURT .......shall we start....

Once a little girl there lived, young, daring, full of passion and dreams that could cover the world seven times seven, a little girl she was, about to transcend into a new face of life as a teenager. Raily said her mother, shall I tell you a life secret that'll guarantee the most succesful life for you as a woman?, she asked. Full of enthusiasm she listened; if you want to be succesful she said, then be a good girl, get good grades at school, learn how to perform domestic chores in perfection, learn to cook, keep your greatest treasure which is your virginity for that special someone and for you to be complete as a woman you need a man.
In her naïveté she took those words to heart, she didn't really understood what her mother had said, neither do her mother too in relation to the term 'being succesful', she believed it for it has been a dogmatic traditional beleive no one had questioned, therefor it's the highest level of accomplishments visualized. With the pass of time, little raily grew, the more she grew, the vaguer her aspirations ,for she had built up a believe system that inevitably had been lost to the past as the ultimate, in her confusion on where she stood, little raily sort a newer path, she wanted to be a mans' equal, joining the feminist fight even when she knew nothing about what she faught so hard for. So she drifted along life without a definite goal or route to follow, even when she wanted to be mens' equal, she depended on them for everything, cause that's what she believed was a woman's place in life, so she sought to be nothing more than she already is. Because she didn't have strong convictions for her life and career, because she believed that if she came off as too successful she'll intimidate the men, she left her strong life goal at the back seat and persued vague accomplishments, spending all her time trying to look 'sexy', finding the hottest joint in town to have a chance to meet her prince charming, and to flaunt her curves that are mostly comprised of unhealthy fat and cellilutes, waiting for that one big break into fame that never seems to come her way. At the peak of her youth, she starts to scavenge the dating world like an hungry lion looking for a pry only to find tens of thousands of women more viciouse and hungrier than she is, some of which have been there long before her, but yet the masses ever seems to increase by the day. For they too had believe their ultimate goal and accomplishment is to get married, so they search for that man to complete them, forgeting that in marriage you find someone who compliments you not completes you, with the wrong idea they look for men with alot of money who'd hide the fact that their drop dead broke.
When she finally accomplishes her goal of marriage she realizes that, her hunger being quenched she has really nothing high to aspire so she tries to hide behind the protective title of being a full time mother. Then she resorts to the next big thing on her bucket list of being a baby factory and a more sophisticated version of a house girl. At the peak of her life time with a daughter just about to transcend to her teens, she realizes that she hadn't done much with her life but yet still never seemed to realize what went wrong, passes the same advice to her daughter; 'if you want to be succesful as a woman...........'. And so the viciouse circle continues.......
IN ESSESNCE THE REASONS WHY WE TEND TO DO NOTHING IS THAT WE HAVE BEEN SO ENGULFED WITH TRADITIONS OF THE PAST, FORGETTING THAT THE PAST IS GONE AND WE NEED TO ASPIRE FOR THINGS OTHER THAN SOMEONE'S WIFE. DON'T GET ME WRONG I STILL RESPECT THIER SACRADNESS OF MARRAIGE AND COMMON TRADITIONAL BELIEVES, BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT NOT EVERY LADY IS SUPPOSED TO BE A MRS, THE MARRAIGE IS NOT THE ULTIMATE AND GOODS LOOKS ARE FAR TOO OVER ENPHASIZED TO BE ALL. GETYOUR HEAD OUT OF THE CLOUDS AND PERSUE SOMETHING WORTHWHILE, TIMES HAVE CHANGED, AND SO HAVE MEN, SO A PRETTY FACE AND CURVES COUPLED WITH A GOOD CULINARY SKILL DOESN'T SEEM A TOO FANCIFUL ANYMORE. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN JUST THE KITCHEN.

My dear!, the world has evolved, Nigerian women no longer reason in this your line of thought.

They'd achieve they roam nairaland all day.

kureshi007:
They'd achieve they roam nairaland all day.

?....looking for the next big thing....

IamLEGEND1:
If only what you typed up there was remotely true. if only. we would be able to at least tolerate them.

Naija girls are way worse than that.
all they know how to do now is post pictures on instagram,beg celebrities for money on twitter and upload videos on youtube of them crying with bulgy,blood-shot eyes,a runny nose and drooling like imbeciles because P-square split up.

Lol