No marriage is without its peculiarities, and nobody is without his or her own limitations and weaknesses. If you go into marriage expecting a perfect union, you will definitely rush out with so many negative tales. Marriage exposes our limitations and inadequacies, and God brought you into his or her life to help him or her become better personality than when you met with him/her. Men, You met her a virgin, with a firm breast, and flawless body. You rushed, paid her dowry, so that you will be the first to lunch into her tear rubber beautiful body. Congratulations. I wish to remind you that her firm breast will fall (no need telling you how), her tight vagina may become loose, she may add weight and her tummy may become bulky. She may forget to shave or be as neat as she used to, she maybe too busy with your children that she forgets that her first baby needs attention. You may have many reasons to look outside and consider grabbing fresh and young blood, but cheating on your wife won't solve the problem in your marriage. The girl outside cannot fix the problem in your marriage, nor is the girl outside better than your wife. Great marriages are built on the altar of selfless sacrifice, devotion, understanding, patience and wisdom. You cannot rush out every time you have a little challenge and expect your marriage to prosper. Lady, He's too cute to behold, too handsome, super rich and caring. He celebrates you everyday and shows you off to his friends. You just can't wait to be with him, forever seems to be far away. But what he didn't tell you is that his boxers is an eye-saw, that his singlets remains with him until someone else buys another one for him. His kitchen and bathroom is a story for another day. What about his bedroom. He talks too much, and he doesn't even listen to your thoughtful advice. This handsome man seems to have become a dirty and horrible man to you, and you've lost every attraction and affection for him. He's no longer as nice as he's used to, and he doesn't even have time for you anymore. Truth is that what you saw outside and what you behold afterwards can never be the same, so you need to prepare yourself to make your marriage what you desire. Marriage is like a furnace that refines two imperfect partners and transforms them into a perfect couple. If you wish to reap the best in your marriage, please prepare yourself to give your all to make your marriage work, and pray for the wisdom, grace, and patience to build a home that will give God the glory and give your children many reasons to believe in marriage. This said, your children may be better off without that marriage as the many negative things they see affect them; many have no business being in the marriage they're in. Who sent that person into your life? If your purpose is being terminated and you're being drained of life or battered, you need to have a rethink. Better single and fulfill purpose than married and die useless. Love is a game where the lover n lovee wins.