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When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 7:39pm On Feb 08, 2017
Ok so I and my friends where discussing this;

If you catch your Boyfriend/husband/Girl friend/ wife cheating, should you fight with your partner or you fight with the stranger he/she is cheating with?

There was a girl I was having s*x with and she had a boyfriend. The guy got to know about me and he came to meet me humbly. Well, I told him, he has no issues, he should go talk with his Girlfriend cos I never forced her.

In my opinion, it is foolishness of the highest order to fight with anyone you catch cheating with your partner.

What are your views on the issue
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by SINZ: 8:09pm On Feb 08, 2017
HardMirror:
Ok so I and my friends where discussing this;

If you catch your Boyfriend/husband/Girl friend/ wife cheating, should you fight with your partner or you fight with the stranger he/she is cheating with?

There was a girl I was having s*x with and she had a boyfriend. The guy got to know about me and he came to meet me humbly. Well, I told him, he has no issues, he should go talk with his Girlfriend cos I never forced her.

In my opinion, it is foolishness of the highest order to fight with anyone you catch cheating with your partner.

What are your views on the issue

Pastor! shocked

So you are having sex?? shocked shocked grin

Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Feb 08, 2017
Why should you fight in the first place?

It is a free world. If one of the terms of the relationship is that it must be exclusive, and one of the party is found wanting, then the other party has an issue only with the former. Simply put, you should deal with your (cheating) partner only. But again, it needs not get to fighting and violence.

I personally believe, sex is not love and love is not sex. Exclusive relationships will sooner or later give way to a modern, open and ultimately more honest type of relationships.
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Feb 08, 2017
no one.
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by minexpo(m): 8:16pm On Feb 08, 2017
I will fight d boy, his neighbours, family... Infact am gonna fight his community angry angry
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by Softorgasm(m): 8:17pm On Feb 08, 2017
It is not mature to fight with whom your partner cheated on you with..
The best fight is to dump her right there..
tell to enjoy herself and that she is dead to you already
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by marshalcarter: 8:26pm On Feb 08, 2017
minexpo:
I will fight d boy, his neighbours, family... Infact am gonna fight his community angry angry
lwkm grin


bro...it won't help...violence is never the ans...Just dump her stewpid ass nd free ur mind grin smiley
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 8:28pm On Feb 08, 2017
Softorgasm:
It is not mature to fight with whom your partner cheated on you with..
The best fight is to dump her right there..
tell to enjoy herself and that she is dead to you already
Exactly.
I have had s*x with many people's Girlfriends and I dare any of them to try fighting me and they would have the law to contend with.

It is just plain stupid
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 8:30pm On Feb 08, 2017
minexpo:
I will fight d boy, his neighbours, family... Infact am gonna fight his community angry angry
Only fools do such. She was not forced. You should only count yourself lucky to catch her so you can dump her or just continue to Fvck her with condoms

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Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by minexpo(m): 8:30pm On Feb 08, 2017
marshalcarter:

lwkm grin


bro...it won't help...violence is never the ans...Just dump her stewpid ass nd free ur mind grin smiley
so I shuld just let her go like dat? undecided
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by Softorgasm(m): 8:31pm On Feb 08, 2017
HardMirror:

Exactly.
I have had s*x with many people's Girlfriends and I dare any of them to try fighting me and they would have the law to contend with.

It is just plain stupid
exactly bro..
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by marshalcarter: 8:40pm On Feb 08, 2017
minexpo:
so I shuld just let her go like dat? undecided
for peace to reignsmiley
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 8:40pm On Feb 08, 2017
minexpo:
so I shuld just let her go like dat? undecided
Only fools wld start a fight over "cheating". Imagine you get stabbed in the process, does it worth your life?
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 8:43pm On Feb 08, 2017
SINZ:

Pastor! shocked
So you are having sex?? shocked shocked grin
No o I got disvirgined only after I became an atheist and I have no regret

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Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 8:45pm On Feb 08, 2017
LoJ:
Why should you fight in the first place?

It is a free world. If one of the terms of the relationship is that it must be exclusive, and one of the party is found wanting, then the other party has an issue only with the former. Simply put, you should deal with your (cheating) partner only. But again, it needs not get to fighting and violence.

I personally believe, sex is not love and love is not sex. Exclusive relationships will sooner or later give way to a modern, open and ultimately more honest type of relationships.
Only those with inferiority issues go about fighting because a partner "cheated"
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by SINZ: 8:46pm On Feb 08, 2017
HardMirror:
No o I got disvirgined only after I became an atheist and I have no regret
To me, you still be pastor bishop. grin
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 8:53pm On Feb 08, 2017
SINZ:


To me, you still be pastor bishop. grin
I am a chronic sinner now.
Infact I am drinking a combo of palmwine and stout in a village right now
I am eyeing some village girls sef. May end up filling one of them up tonight. Ibo girls are beautiful.
#proud afonja
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by SINZ: 9:17pm On Feb 08, 2017
HardMirror:

I am a chronic sinner now.
Infact I am drinking a combo of palmwine and stout in a village right now
I am eyeing some village girls sef. May end up filling one of them up tonight. Ibo girls are beautiful.
#proud afonja

Man stay away from my sisters o angry


Anyway, to your question; It would be incredibly stupid to engage either of them in a fight or a beatdown. Its pointless! But if you must vent then you have no business with the cheatee grin. Face the cheater, the one who pledged her/his loyalty to you not someone who owes you no explanation.
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by lepasharon(f): 9:22pm On Feb 08, 2017
Hmm, you are supposed to fight the cheating partner of urs because they are supposed to know better.

Some silly women attack the mistress when they find out their husband is cheating. When they are supposed to confront their husband for his wandering eyes.

If ur husband didn't have eyes for other women would he and the mistress have slept together even if she initiated it?

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Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 9:52pm On Feb 08, 2017
SINZ:


Man stay away from my sisters o angry


Anyway, to your question; It would be incredibly stupid to engage either of them in a fight or a beatdown. Its pointless! But if you must vent then you have no business with the cheatee grin. Face the cheater, the one who pledged her/his loyalty to you not someone who owes you no explanation.
Jehovah deliver me. I am dozing off sha. This palmee is taking effect o. I love me some of ur sisters. I am still alone so don't fear yet.

Let my Girlfriends cheat it's none of my biz anyway. Make I sha no know
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by HardMirror(m): 9:53pm On Feb 08, 2017
lepasharon:
Hmm, you are supposed to fight the cheating partner of urs because they are supposed to know better.

Some silly women attack the mistress when they find out their husband is cheating. When they are supposed to confront their husband for his wandering eyes.

If ur husband didn't have eyes for other women would he and the mistress have slept together even if she initiated it?
The thing is common with married women. They would be giving themselves high blood pressure pursuing their husband mistresses up and down and they can't face their husbands
Re: When Your Partner Cheats, Who Should You Fight With? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Feb 08, 2017
HardMirror:

Exactly.
I have had s*x with many people's Girlfriends and I dare any of them to try fighting me and they would have the law to contend with.

It is just plain stupid
Body count going way up smiley

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