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I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 3:55am On Dec 05, 2009
My girlfriend always tell me to take her out,send recharge card,buy gift for her which i did within one month of our relationship though she looks romantic and caring to me.d question is, i dont know if she loves me.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by tanimz(f): 4:05am On Dec 05, 2009
U get money ohhh cool cool cool cool cool

okay, on a more serious note- one month is not sufficient enough for you to be able to tell if she loves/ doesn't love you.

Try saying no to her when she asks for something and see her reaction/expression/reply. But that would be when you get to know her better.

Good luck!! wink wink wink wink
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by ebinom(f): 6:20am On Dec 05, 2009
she loves your money not you but it can grow as time passes who knows?
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by OAM4J: 7:00am On Dec 05, 2009
She loves you and your money. simple!
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Jadeng: 7:57am On Dec 05, 2009
A friend once said that, Never look for a gf during the EMBER months.
This is simply cus some of them are out just for short term contracts. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Try this; tell her that you're broke and seriously need her to raise you. Her response either in words or actions will reveal what is in her heart.
Remember, '' As a man thinks his heart, so is he'' and ''Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speak''

Just out Curiosity, How did you meet her?


All the Best!
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by IykeD(m): 12:05pm On Dec 05, 2009
Ur Pocket/Wallet/ATM Card/Verve/Visa-Master-Platinum Cards/Bank Accounts are in real trouble dude, and you are here asking us if she loves you or your money.WHat do you think? Answer it yourself
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 05, 2009
Thanks People i will try and decline next time she made a request but even if she dont love me,the girl drives me crazy,i truly love her.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by freecocoa(f): 11:57pm On Dec 05, 2009
its kinda early 4 her 2 start making demands but u said she seems caring & romantic so jst take ur tym 2 knw her & stop giving 1n2 all her demands.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by mamagee3(f): 12:07am On Dec 06, 2009
I think she's interested in your spending for her. tongue
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by yme1(f): 12:12am On Dec 06, 2009
within one month of your dating her she is already asking you for cash
some babes really need to step up on their game tho undecided
anyway it all depends on how you picture the relationship to be
she might have real feelings for you,although it is under probabilty
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by mamagee3(f): 12:13am On Dec 06, 2009
y me:

within one month of your dating her she is already asking you for cash
some babes really need to step up on their game tho undecided
anyway it all depends on how you picture the relationship to be
she might have real feelings for you,although it is under probabilty

grin grin grin
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by eyoniggar(m): 12:23am On Dec 06, 2009
Pple lets not get it twisted, A girl might love someone and be demanding at the same time.

Poster it is left to you to follow the advise of the contributors. most especially what Jadeng has said.

Try n see her reactions, if its negative, bro I will beg you to move forward, attimes what seem to be very sweet to us might be hard to leave, but its for the best so you dnt end up regretting and reside on the loser's side.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by obiksam(m): 3:38pm On Dec 06, 2009
Bros i gave my girl before she ask
but the worst is that she is not romantic
i can't recall the last time she hold my hands or kiss my
lips but i love her die so stop compling if you have gave
her wisely but i advice you to try and keep away from her
for some times and see what happens
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by sexyLeamon(f): 6:42pm On Dec 06, 2009
stop giving her money and spending money on her and see how she reacts.
if she starts to become very upset with you and brings up how you're not buying her this or that, then you'll have your answer.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 7:34pm On Dec 06, 2009
She accepted my proposal earlier,since our relationship,she barely calls, i do all the callings every time.today we went 0ut i realy enjoyed her company,she is realy nice but i do the spending.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by eyoniggar(m): 11:26pm On Dec 06, 2009
Emzybrown:

She accepted my proposal earlier,since our relationship,she barely calls, i do all the callings every time.today we went 0ut i realy enjoyed her company,she is realy nice but i do the spending.

You are still a client in TRANSIT!!
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 11:35pm On Dec 06, 2009
If you've got it, spend it smiley
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by KennyG6(m): 11:39pm On Dec 06, 2009
@poster
she is a gold-digger jare,
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by 190: 12:07am On Dec 07, 2009
OAM4J:

She loves you and your money. simple!

THEY ALL ARE
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 07, 2009
well if you have the money, why not lavish it on her grin
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 12:41pm On Dec 07, 2009
@poster
She doesnt lov you,she loves ur pocket grin
freecocoa:

its kinda early 4 her 2 start making demands but u said she seems caring & romantic so jst take your tym 2 knw her & stop giving 1n2 all her demands.
She is caring and romantic cos the guy is "good boy".Once the guy becosmes stingy,i am sure u will see her real colour.
Jadeng:

A friend once said that, Never look for a gf during the EMBER months.
This is simply cus some of them are out just for short term contracts. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Try this; tell her that you're broke and seriously need her to raise you. Her response either in words or actions will reveal what is in her heart.
Remember, '' As a man thinks his heart, so is he'' and ''Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speak''

Just out Curiosity, How did you meet her?


All the Best!
Good Question.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 8:55pm On Dec 07, 2009
People the unimaginable happened today,i called her and told her am stranded that i needed credit to call for help.she transfered 400 to my phone.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by echobee(f): 8:14am On Dec 08, 2009
hope u been convinced?
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 8:25am On Dec 08, 2009
Emzybrown:

People the unimaginable happened today,i called her and told her am stranded that i needed credit to call for help.she transfered 400 to my phone.
Dont get carried away cos ds is not enuf to convince you of her true love Afterall,u hv done enuf for her so wuld not be that stupid to reject that offer.Carry out more tests.It is game.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Jadeng: 10:56am On Dec 10, 2009
Dear Poster,
I asked a Fundamental question which you did not answer.

HOW DID YOU MEET HER??
Also, what "First Impressions" did you give her?
You have to understand that, some gold diggers are on top of their game. (doe, I have no evidence to call her one).
Have it at the back of your mind that, it might just be Infatuations you are having.
When you are in "Love" dont be in a rush (he who believe's does not make haste) or be too blind to see through the vail.

LOVE TAKES TIME TO BUILD UP!
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 10, 2009
Dating should be a privilege.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Kelvinj(m): 11:06am On Dec 10, 2009
so becos she transfer u #400 crd dat means she love u, haha wake up. Anywayz jst follow u heart who knowz,
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by humblemate(m): 11:13am On Dec 10, 2009
She is enjoying the privilage u gave her, one month is still to judge if she really loves u or u'r money. My advise to u is to reduce on how much u spend on her!
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Nobody: 11:23am On Dec 10, 2009
But you seem to like this girl.if u start conducting too many tests on her like some people are advising you,you wil end up losing her.every girl likes a man who wil buy gifts and spend on her.its paqt of the female nature. But it does not mean you have to force yourself to meet the demands. When you do not have enough cash you explain to her and promise to make it up to her next time in a big way. If she understands you know you are on the safe side and if she does not you know what you are dealing with. When the cash is there spend it at least you are the man.
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by 190: 11:45am On Dec 10, 2009
^^

and whts sexy abt u~ grin grin grin
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by Kelvinj(m): 12:03pm On Dec 10, 2009
@sexybabe
Ur bf don hear am, chei, poor guy
Re: I Dont Know If she Loves Me Or Interested In My Spending For Her by skillero(m): 1:31pm On Dec 10, 2009
HEy sermon don pass address o! She love or she no love? thats the question which one be this many testimony!!!
chei!!!
she no luv you!!!
Simple!!!
Has she ever advised you on not being a spendthrift?
Make sure you f, quickly and vamoose!!!
Be sharp o!

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