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Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 4:04pm On Feb 09, 2017
This story is shared by a friend.

I'm a very strong Christian with more than enough grace to thrash every manifestation of demons in any guise. But now almost everyday, my dead mum appears to me in dreams suffering, telling me to give more alms if I don't want her to suffer in the underworld.

Now what will demons gain in making me to give more to the needy? I have been binding every lying spirits to stop disturbing me in dreams but it seems to be increasing.

Pagans say dead relatives protect their living relatives. We all know that Seun is not mindful of any practice of giving alms to curry favour from the dead and he is successful and well.

Now if the concept is true, that means suffering of dead people who were childless will be great.

I can't afford to see my mother suffer wherever she is, because that's the picture I always see.

What is your take?
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by Nobody: 5:13pm On Feb 09, 2017
Bro, first off, sorry for your loss.

Second, on what criterion do you think your mother is suffering??
Was she a good person while alive? Did she help others?? The sick? Can you assert anywhere that she was the best mom in the world.

If yes, I see no reason why you should have nightmares regarding her "final" destination. If there is a just God, he would judge us based on our actions, not our beliefs.

My advice for you would be to dispel any thoughts you might have of buring furnances or suffering and whatnot and think of the good times you had together.
Think of her laugh, her smile. Think about how she has helped you grow and develop into the man you are today.

There might or might not be a god. I don't know. But if there is and if he is a just one; then your ma's in safe hands.


And if there isn't, well.....


Respect her on earth but know she's gone....permanently.

P.S : Your dreams might simply be your subconscious feeling guility for not taking care of her adequately.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by gabe: 5:32pm On Feb 09, 2017
From what we know from dreams, they are our subconscious playing 'films' because our conscious mental regulations are asleep. That's why we can fly, Bleep that girl we are scared of even saying hello to, or see our dead relatives. They are part of our memories dredged up,unregulated, by our subconscious. It seems u were really close to your mum, and bitterly regret her passing, or ur inability to provide for her when she was alive. The closer someone is or was to us, especially emotionally, the more they feature in our dreams simply because we have more memories of them, real or imagined...
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 5:40pm On Feb 09, 2017
SirWere:
Bro, first off, sorry for your loss.

Second, on what criterion do you think your mother is suffering??
Was she a good person while alive? Did she help others?? The sick? Can you assert anywhere that she was the best mom in the world.

If yes, I see no reason why you should have nightmares regarding her "final" destination. If there is a just God, he would judge us based on our actions, not our beliefs.

My advice for you would be to dispel any thoughts you might have of buring furnances or suffering and whatnot and think of the good times you had together.
Think of her laugh, her smile. Think about how she has helped you grow and develop into the man you are today.

There might or might not be a god. I don't know. But if there is and if he is a just one; then your ma's in safe hands.


And if there isn't, well.....


Respect her on earth but know she's gone....permanently.

P.S : Your dreams might simply be your subconscious feeling guility for not taking care of her adequately.

Hmmm. This is deep. Out of all her children, I'm the only one that loved her the most and I will give reasons. My mom is a very clear example of everything good, but suffered untold pain during her last days at university college hospital, Ibadan.

Mom was a very strong xtian, the deeper life type. She brought us 5 children up without a father -- 3 of have university degrees, 2 that didn't like schooling learnt trades and are doing fine.

When mom was sick, only me stood with her financially and physically till her last day. Her disease was so fatal that I used to cry beside her despite being in that great hospital.

She was so strong a xtian that she refused taking herbal concoctions brought by relatives.

She would meet me in dreams saying the more I give alms the more she enjoys the underworld. I noticed that it is when I don't have more to give that she normally show up in my dreams.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by petra1(m): 5:48pm On Feb 09, 2017
Firstly it's not your mother you're seeing . There's no connection between you too . But obviously it's a demon or a familiar spirit . Most time when someone begins to see dead people is a sign of the presence of the SPIRIT OF DEATH . If nothing is done about it . Such a one may die prematurely .
Solution rebuke the spirit of death to go from you and familiar spirit . Or get an experience minister who is experienced in casting out Devils . Don't take it lightly
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 6:08pm On Feb 09, 2017
petra1:

Firstly it's not your mother you're seeing . There's no connection between you too . But obviously it's a demon or a familiar spirit . Most time when someone begins to see dead people is a sign of the presence of the SPIRIT OF DEATH . If nothing is done about it . Such a one may die prematurely .
Solution rebuke the spirit of death to go from you and familiar spirit . Or get an experience minister who is experienced in casting out Devils . Don't take it lightly



I won't deceive you, spirit or a witch that will dare me is not born, the occultic man that will look at me in the face in not alive anywhere.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 09, 2017
GreenPlumes:

Hmmm. This is deep. Out of all her children, I'm the only one that loved her the most and I will give reasons. My mom is a very clear example of everything good, but suffered untold pain during her last days at university college hospital, Ibadan.

Mom was a very strong xtian, the deeper life type. She brought us 5 children up without a father -- 3 of have university degrees, 2 that didn't like schooling learnt trades and are doing fine.

When mom was sick, only me stood with her financially and physically till her last day. Her disease was so fatal that I used to cry beside her despite being in that great hospital.

She was so strong a xtian that she refused taking herbal concoctions brought by relatives.

She would meet me in dreams saying the more I give alms the more she enjoys the underworld. I noticed that it is when I don't have more to give that she normally show up in my dreams.
This is really powerful. My mother has and is also actively sacrificing for my future so I perfectly understand how you could be feeling now.

But I reiterate, it is probably your sub-conscious and unconscious feeling guility that you've not "done enough". Sometimes in life, we give everything we have and feel it's not enough or all we've got. I suspect that's why the dreams occur when you're cashless : because then, you really don't have anything to dole.

Console yourself OP. Valar Morghulis.
Stop thinking about how cruel death was, think more about how sweet her life was. I wish you well.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by sonofthunder: 10:08pm On Feb 09, 2017
GreenPlumes:



I won't deceive you, spirit or a witch that will dare me is not born, the occultic man that will look at me in the face in not alive anywhere.
and u make the above declaration based on what?
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 12:13pm On Feb 10, 2017
sonofthunder:

and u make the above declaration based on what?

You should find out, if you are a spiritual man. Let me tell u, I was once a satanist. Though I was first a Christian before I embraced satanism. It is there I got some mysteries you won't hear from any pastor. After knowing their weakness, I tried occultism, because my grandparents are occult men. I got their weakness too, and I came back to xtianity.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 12:18pm On Feb 10, 2017
Any demon is free to bring me films, and I dare them to strike, if they born them well.

About 8 years ago, I saw my body lowered into the grave in a dream. I laughed it off, and didn't even pray about it.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by delishpot: 1:21pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:
This story is shared by a friend.

I'm a very strong Christian with more than enough grace to thrash every manifestation of demons in any guise. But now almost everyday, my dead mum appears to me in dreams suffering, telling me to give more alms if I don't want her to suffer in the underworld.

Now what will demons gain in making me to give more to the needy? I have been binding every lying spirits to stop disturbing me in dreams but it seems to be increasing.

Pagans say dead relatives protect their living relatives. Weall know that Seun is not mindful of any practice of giving alms to curry favour from the dead and he is successful and well.

Now if the concept is true, that means suffering of dead people who were childless will be great.

I can't afford to see my mother suffer wherever she is, because that's the picture I always see.

What is your take?

How do you know what seun does or doesn't do outside NL? You carry seun matter take Dey measure your own life. Do you know seun for real? Even seuns right hand may not know what his left hand does, you sidon here Dey compare your self to seun.
As for your mom appearing in your dream, when next she comes, tell her you will give when you have more. Most times, dreams are part of us wanting something. It is your maternal instincts wishing you had more money to help the needy. So subconsciously, your caring spirit(represented by your mom) is wishing to experience the joy it gets from giving. Hence your dream.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by skeendyke: 2:34pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes, my advice is seek help from a true man of God with the gifts of the Holy Spirit in manifestation then the truth about your situation will come to light.

However, I shall add this. The Bible lets us know that it is appointed for a man to die once then he faces judgement (Hebrews 9:27). That spirit you see is not your mother. It is a familiar spirit. The deception there is to make you embrace the lie that the dead can communicate with the living. This is witchcraft.

The Holy Spirit has been given to the believers to teach, guide, and help them. Christ did not say it is the job of dead loved ones. I hope you do read your Bible because if you do you will never be deceived by the enemy.

Do not be deceived because the Devil himself masquerades as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14). Be careful because he is even wiser than Daniel.

Like I said before, seek the help of a true believer in Christ operating in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. I hope this helps.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 2:49pm On Feb 10, 2017
delishpot:


How do you know what seun does or doesn't do outside NL? You carry seun matter take Dey measure your own life. Do you know seun for real? Even seuns right hand may not know what his left hand does, you sidon here Dey compare your self to seun.
As for your mom appearing in your dream, when next she comes, tell her you will give when you have more. Most times, dreams are part of us wanting something. It is your maternal instincts wishing you had more money to help the needy. So subconsciously, your caring spirit(represented by your mom) is wishing to experience the joy it gets from giving. Hence your dream.


You made more sense than anyone that uses scriptures to comment on this thread. I now understand, because there are other things connected to what you just said that I won't delve into.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by delishpot: 3:25pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:



You made more sense than anyone that uses scriptures to comment on this thread. I now understand, because there are other things connected to what you just said that I won't delve into.

You are welcome. Keep faith and please, be wise with giving. Don't give until you go broke. I was once like that. Look, the poor can not help as much as he dreams to when he is poor himself. Be wise and dont forget to invest in yourself as you seek to reach out to those in need. Bill gates would never give until his acct turns red. If he was that kind of giver, he wouldn't be where he is today. Give in relation to your plans. Not saying dont give, give with wisdom.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by sonofthunder: 4:19pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:


You should find out, if you are a spiritual man. Let me tell u, I was once a satanist. Though I was first a Christian before I embraced satanism. It is there I got some mysteries you won't hear from any pastor. After knowing their weakness, I tried occultism, because my grandparents are occult men. I got their weakness too, and I came back to xtianity.
very vague outcry there... what if I'm not a spiritual person?
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 6:48pm On Feb 10, 2017
sonofthunder:

very vague outcry there... what if I'm not a spiritual person?

I use to say this to those who I perceive are spiritual, especially those whose power is outside of Christianity. I have dragged issues with confirmed occultists, and asked them to dare check my standing, and strike. Until someone who boasts of spiritual powers tries that, I won't take them serious. I have heard, seen many strange things, I have been to deadliest domains to learn about the unseen.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 7:14pm On Feb 10, 2017
delishpot:


You are welcome. Keep faith and please, be wise with giving. Don't give until you go broke. I was once like that. Look, the poor can not help as much as he dreams to when he is poor himself. Be wise and dont forget to invest in yourself as you seek to reach out to those in need. Bill gates would never give until his acct turns red. If he was that kind of giver, he wouldn't be where he is today. Give in relation to your plans. Not saying dont give, give with wisdom.

An extended family of mine depended on me for years to the extent that those who have pretend to lack things so that they can get more from me...I'm not married yet, so they see me as someone with not any problem. Truth is if I'm unable to give to family members who are in need, I will rather disappear and reappear when things get better...I can never dream of relying on humans for monetary helps.

When I perceived that all my savings were practically going into charity, I resigned as a branch manager in my work place. There were outcry in my family telling the employer that some evil fiends are behind my resignation. I laughed at their ignorance. The employer said my people prevailed on him to get me back, I told him I will rather starve than go back to him. I had wanted to teach married relatives who were almost 100% reliant on me lessons, but when I saw their pains, I told the employer that I'm ready to resume back at work, and the man said I ridiculed him, so he would also ridicule me, and won't take me back. I was furious.

I disappeared from public glare, and found a new job after two months. During those two months in hiding, I was riding okada to make a living. Clients knew that it's not my type that should be riding okada, but since don't know anything about me, I coped.

After getting a new job, my thought is that I don't care about whoever may need me. I even alienated the gal closest to me. I just want to be alone.

Now family members wanted to attack me spiritually thinking I intentionally withdrew my good deeds. If you are a Yoruba man, one can be attacked after calling your name 3 times in a shrine, if you answer such calls, you will be dead. That day I was in my room and my name was called that way. Normally weak person would only hear such calls at the third round. I heard the 3 calls, and nothing happened in the middle of the night. Not that someone in the sitting room calls me that is in the room.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by LaClicKLaBenDin(m): 7:20pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:



I won't deceive you, spirit or a witch that will dare me is not born, the occultic man that will look at me in the face in not alive anywhere.

You sound like you're a strong believer, yet you sound so ignorant...sorry to put it that way.

We as Christians have the kind of power and control over the forces of darkness, only through the knowledge of the word. Now, if you do have such power to withstand occultic and witchcraft elements, then I honestly think you should know better than opening this thread.

The Bible says it is appointed for man to die once, and after that, judgement.

What you see is a demon!. Your mum is dead and gone! All you see is a demon using the face of your mum to control your life. Now the demon is making you do something that seems good for weird reasons, tomorrow that same demon will ask you to do something terrible and before you know it, you will totally be under the control of such demon, because the more you open your mind to it and do its biddings, the more it takes hold of your heart.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 7:43pm On Feb 10, 2017
LaClicKLaBenDin:


You sound like you're a strong believer, yet you sound so ignorant...sorry to put it that way.

We as Christians have the kind of power and control over the forces of darkness, only through the knowledge of the word. Now, if you do have such power to withstand occultic and witchcraft elements, then I honestly think you should know better than opening this thread.

The Bible says it is appointed for man to die once, and after that, judgement.

What you see is a demon!. Your mum is dead and gone! All you see is a demon using the face of your mum to control your life. Now the demon is making you do something that seems good for weird reasons, tomorrow that same demon will ask you to do something terrible and before you know it, you will totally be under the control of such demon, because the more you open your mind to it and do its biddings, the more it takes hold of your heart.


If that's is the case, that demon is on a long thing.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by petra1(m): 8:28pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:



I won't deceive you, spirit or a witch that will dare me is not born, the occultic man that will look at me in the face in not alive anywhere.

So why ask for counsel if you know what to do
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by Talk2nanro(m): 8:54pm On Feb 10, 2017
delishpot:


How do you know what seun does or doesn't do outside NL? You carry seun matter take Dey measure your own life. Do you know seun for real? Even seuns right hand may not know what his left hand does, you sidon here Dey compare your self to seun.
As for your mom appearing in your dream, when next she comes, tell her you will give when you have more. Most times, dreams are part of us wanting something. It is your maternal instincts wishing you had more money to help the needy. So subconsciously, your caring spirit(represented by your mom) is wishing to experience the joy it gets from giving. Hence your dream.
. You are really blessed with the gift of interpretation of dreams, if you are the one that gave this interpretation.

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Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GreenPlumes(m): 9:09pm On Feb 10, 2017
petra1:


So why ask for counsel if you know what to do


They need to resort to tricks, and I need to seek opinions of others.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by delishpot: 10:03pm On Feb 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:


An extended family of mine depended on me for years to the extent that those who have pretend to lack things so that they can get more from me...I'm not married yet, so they see me as someone with not any problem. Truth is if I'm unable to give to family members who are in need, I will rather disappear and reappear when things get better...I can never dream of relying on humans for monetary helps.

When I perceived that all my savings were practically going into charity, I resigned as a branch manager in my work place. There were outcry in my family telling the employer that some evil fiends are behind my resignation. I laughed at their ignorance. The employer said my people prevailed on him to get me back, I told him I will rather starve than go back to him. I had wanted to teach married relatives who were almost 100% reliant on me lessons, but when I saw their pains, I told the employer that I'm ready to resume back at work, and the man said I ridiculed him, so he would also ridicule me, and won't take me back. I was furious.

I disappeared from public glare, and found a new job after two months. During those two months in hiding, I was riding okada to make a living. Clients knew that it's not my type that should be riding okada, but since don't know anything about me, I coped.

After getting a new job, my thought is that I don't care about whoever may need me. I even alienated the gal closest to me. I just want to be alone.

Now family members wanted to attack me spiritually thinking I intentionally withdrew my good deeds. If you are a Yoruba man, one can be attacked after calling your name 3 times in a shrine, if you answer such calls, you will be dead. That day I was in my room and my name was called that way. Normally weak person would only hear such calls at the third round. I heard the 3 calls, and nothing happened in the middle of the night. Not that someone in the sitting room calls me that is in the room.

Wow! That is deep man. A clean hand is never afraid that it would soil a white cloth. If your hands are truly clean, nothing will happen to you. I have learnt one thing in life. Giving has two parts. Giving from the heart and giving out of pity but not from deep down in the heart. That is to say, giving but not happy about what one looses because he has to give. For years I was doing the other type of giving. I don't know how to say no, how to walk away from leaching friends, how to spend on myself without feeling guilty. Now I have learnt to say I don't have enough to spare when someone who takes advantage of me comes along.
Good thing that you withdrew from them for now. I too withdrew from the world. I loved out of social media forums and did not communicate with anyone. Now I am much better, I have seen how foolish I was for not using opportunities I had to invest in my own growth. I was busy doing for others neglecting my own self. Now, I am equipped to be better.
Stand strong Bro.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by Immorttal: 5:46pm On Feb 11, 2017
GreenPlumes:
This story is shared by a friend.

I'm a very strong Christian with more than enough grace to thrash every manifestation of demons in any guise. But now almost everyday, my dead mum appears to me in dreams suffering, telling me to give more alms if I don't want her to suffer in the underworld.

Now what will demons gain in making me to give more to the needy? I have been binding every lying spirits to stop disturbing me in dreams but it seems to be increasing.

Pagans say dead relatives protect their living relatives. We all know that Seun is not mindful of any practice of giving alms to curry favour from the dead and he is successful and well.

Now if the concept is true, that means suffering of dead people who were childless will be great.

I can't afford to see my mother suffer wherever she is, because that's the picture I always see.

What is your take?
my bro, your subconscious mind is playing some dangerous bets with you and a demon has genourously attached itself to manifest it to you. We create our own problems and good things through our mind, use this advice below from sirwere and you will be fine or better still you can banish it out of your mind entirely and be free.

. My advice for you would be to dispel any thoughts you might have of buring furnances or suffering and whatnot and think of the good times you had together.
Think of her laugh, her smile. Think about how she has helped you grow and develop into the man you are today.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by Immorttal: 5:49pm On Feb 11, 2017
GreenPlumes:


Hmmm. This is deep. Out of all her children, I'm the only one that loved her the most and I will give reasons. My mom is a very clear example of everything good, but suffered untold pain during her last days at university college hospital, Ibadan.

Mom was a very strong xtian, the deeper life type. She brought us 5 children up without a father -- 3 of have university degrees, 2 that didn't like schooling learnt trades and are doing fine.

When mom was sick, only me stood with her financially and physically till her last day. Her disease was so fatal that I used to cry beside her despite being in that great hospital.

She was so strong a xtian that she refused taking herbal concoctions brought by relatives.

She would meet me in dreams saying the more I give alms the more she enjoys the underworld. I noticed that it is when I don't have more to give that she normally show up in my dreams.
Please stop wasting your money.
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by orunto27: 8:06pm On Feb 11, 2017
God loves you. To show that nothing is impossible for God to do, He is doing for you what He didn't do for The Rich man who asked Father Abraham to plead with God to send Angels to the Earth to warn his brethren to live a life of Righteousness. In your case, Jesus is sending your Mum to educate you.
Glory to God!!!
Re: Christianity, My Dead Mum, And Weird Night Dreams by GoodMuyis(m): 3:20pm On Feb 12, 2017
That is not your mom for sure, having read from your comments, your previous engagement with witchcraft, it seems that darkness your left behind time ago is now back, tracking and watching you, waiting for a time to strike.

Just don't give in to it.

If you mom is Strong Christian as you said, she has no dealings with the grave anymore BUT resting in Paradise

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