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| How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 4:56pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Straight to the point Is this attitude sense of entitlement or brute laziness Here are my arguments He eat and leave plates were he eats,the kitchen is just three walk away He comes back from work and will not do any thing else He takes water from the fridge finish drinking and drop it were he sat He can't wash dirty plates, he once told me he rather throw it away n get another one He don't exercise his body (thought he looks good) He talks without life  He can't open Maggi without an hr slidding by... Pls Deat God give me patients cos if you give me strength I myt kill m 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by dingbang(m): 5:00pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
I don't need to shout to the top of my voices cuz I will only be wasting my energy.. Its only when she goes to stay and her husband's house and exhibit such character there... By the time she is being handled properly, she will change for good.. Trust me I detest lazy girls .. Even though I love a girl, if she is lazy I don't mind calling of the rship or marriage 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 5:06pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Ding, as in am feed up bro... Work is like an involuntary action to me, anything other than getting that work done is just a pisser  |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by dingbang(m): 5:08pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo:mehn u just have two options, find a reason to leave home for long or manage d situation.. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 5:11pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
dingbang: Like a very long Tym.....going back to abj ASAP.... Dude is a dick 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by dingbang(m): 5:13pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo:  |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 5:14pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by yomi007k(m): 5:24pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo: Problem solved. Every mallam with him kettle jare. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 5:28pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Worried about him though |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Richy4(m): 5:39pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Maybe in the Kitchen, paste a sticker that says....Clean after yourself please...Stick a notice that reminds everyone to refill their bottle after use...That's how to do it flat mate style when I was in Uni those days...Just give it a go  1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 5:43pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Richy4: Nice tip but...not my house not with your room mate n not for a last child....thanks though |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Richy4(m): 6:36pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo: maybe you can explain in simple term the situation of things so we can comprehend and understand...what has last child got to do with it.....Ok let me ask you <<<Is he the one paying the bills in the house and expects that you do a little bit of the house chores or are you all living with your parents's house? <<<<Are you contributing in anyways towards the up keep of the place like paying bills, rent etc. <<<<<Are you even living with this said elder brother? and do not reply in short hand please...I barely make a sense out of it 6 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 6:45pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
 Richy4: 1yes he pay d bill, I also own a house where I pay bills, I just came on a visit it not our family house 2 yes I contribute my own quota, as I can never be a liability 3yes I came to visit him, so yes a leaving with him Am worried about his attitude even his fiancee he is getting married to did complain to me about it 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Lukmann1: 8:11pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
I don't had any lazy older siblings so this is not for me. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
There is no cure for laziness. it's simply a trait caused by flexible reference levels. you should just keep enduring because your bro is probably going to remain like that till he dies. Alternatively, you can change his personality by exposing him to serious emotional trauma.(in other words, factory reset). however, this is risky because he might just decide to kill himself, Depending on his value system. if you're still up for it, just expose him and his unsavory acts to everyone he's ever loved and admired and let them make fun of him. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by korel9: 8:13pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
I wish my elder brother was still alive, won't have minded him being lazy 29 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
How hectic is his work?When does he come back home? Was he always like this? What have you done to try to change it? |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by GANDALF1(m): 8:14pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Go back to your house and quit your petty talk. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Arewa12: 8:19pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
It depend on the lay down rules of the famly... Buh for me it just understanding... |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by kabawa(m): 8:21pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
What is this one saying mtceeeew Will you go and Wash plate and stop complaining? Children of now a days no wan get respect again ooo Your bros send you message you dey use am open thread lazy pikin 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by bossrillboss: 8:24pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
ignore all attitude joor..concentrate on urself 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by ekems2017(f): 8:25pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Talk to him/her in a polite way. If she doesn't change. Do your own thing. Do the ones you can do and leave the rest. If she leaves her plates where she ate, don't pick them let it be there even if it's for a week. She will know that you are tired of doing it for her. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by luscioustrish(f): 8:27pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Just here to read comments...have got no siblings Pele op  |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Sit him down and talk some sense into his skull. Nonsense. |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Merceline(f): 8:30pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo:lwkmd you are so fed up you came here to vent. take it easy |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by daniska3yaro(m): 8:32pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Hm |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by paulaspearz(f): 8:33pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Do the usual house chores but anything that concerns them leave it alone,when they see you no longer do their stuf they will have no choice but to do it,all u have to is hold your ground and not do their choice, shikena |
| Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by pweetixandy: 8:40pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
hmm |
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