what is d saying of the prophet of allah concerning child born out of wedlock

The child has no sin , as he did not choose his method of comming to the world but Allah chose that method for him. Anyone that condems such child is ignorant of the faith as he has forgotten the sahabas werent muslims initially and some were born out of wedlock as well.

^ The child is not to blame but will suffer utter shame in their life, if the truth's not kept secret. Sad, but true,

Why should the child 'suffer utter shame in their life'? Thousands of people parade the earth today that were born out of wedlock and live normally like any other person. How many people even frown at children out of wedlock nowadays? And what aout couples who have all of their children out of wedlock? Do people see such children as outcasts? Or are there any differences between children born out of wedlock whose parents live together and those whose parents are seperated? No, there's no difference.

Any child born out of wedlock has no blame or sin on him. But his/her responsibilities lies with the mother. Such child bears her name and she has the responsibility of catering for himlher. If the father contributes in such child's upbringing, he's doing so willingly but isn't under any obligation to do so.