~Sauron~:

U should consider yourself lucky she even had the guts to tell it as it is.
Some other women will still be milking you dry while sleeping-with other men.

Let the babe go. . . . . . .Kick her out like POLIO.
Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrm, if you have any iota of self-pride. . .don't collect a dime from her.

Good point.  I was going to add this.

pele!

Do u need a prophet to tell u dt the show is over?She is gone and gone so move on.As for the bill,y should u send the bills,did u not sleep with her?Let her send her own bills too.U spent on her and her family just like that?FATHER CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!.Tell us what hapened behind closed doors and on ur bed.Mr Charity.

u don't need any advice on this issue cos its obviuos wat u shuld do-tell the chic CIAO

lOLxx, I Laugh In Cairo

sorry dude she don enter bigger hun hunnn

You definitely need to get with her and talk about what her problem is. Maybe it's something you can work out or maybe she's just not interested anymore, or she just might be getting bored and you need to do something to get her interested again. The best bet though is to sit her down someplace where there are no interruptions and speak to her truthfully and honestly and she will respond the same way. Do not accuse her of anything, just see what's on her mind.

Mr Poster, U'r one cheap dude, U mean for 4 years d babe asked u 2 calculate all u have spent, It shows u spent a little,  But if this babe is a GLUTTON, immediately she said those words, u would have DIALLED her number, may be when it rings she take those words back. But anyways thank your starts, she is know somebodies WAHALA, BYE BYE TO BAD RUBBISH  Wink


I support this dude o, poster if u can really calculate all u've spent in four years then brov u no they try o, abi na only her bdaes u dy spend give  the babe ni??
Just collect ur money back atleast beta off loosing both ways for u, i dnt fink that can happen to me newaiz, lai lai, wah insolent

Bro the babe is all about the money and not about you. Its always hard when the babe loses interest but no worry .just start chasing girls with all youe energy by the time you ''wipe'' two or more you wont even remember this chic.meanwhile 'wipe' them well O !!!!

After four years ? Are you not tired of the relationship yourself ?

Give her bill, remember to include  all the recharge cards, phone calls, ( mid night calls not included) condoms costs (if you used any), all the outings to Mr Biggs , Chicken republic, killimanjaro and the rest, transportations, clothes, valebtine's day, and all the things you bought for her like, pants, bra, trousers and many more, dont forget any thing, This is your hour of blessing and restoration. Congratulations.

Allow her to go but if she is for you she will come back I fear if not too late for her

Give her the bill since she asked for it, if she pays collect it but if she did not pay, dont bother her. Small time to come you will forget about her. But for now let her be.

see caseo! man go stay dey think this kin tin. if wants to go ahead and give the bill nobody lose

Sincerely, i will tell her to write me a "blank Cheque" to show me how much she really wants me gone,

If u want to maintain ur prestige don't try giving her any bill
Just be speechless, don't even ask her why, speak ye not,
i bet you she will certainly come asking you what has gone wrong.

It works

boy she has found herself a money bag!

come back with diseases or what?

so sex is only one-sided now?

@poster Im sure u really do care abt her so u dont hv to react by collecting dat money she's talkin abt, but Truth is, she's already dumped u for somone else, i mean someone her else with higher dough, see it 4rm this bright side, 2her it had bin all abt the money, so b grateful it actually happened now dat u havnt tied the nups wit her (im sure u were considering that bin itz 4yrs nw), I'm sure dat at a time in her life she wuld look back n regret eva leaving you when she finds out dat u were better off when it comes to love n affection, Trust me dat Guy she's wit already knows dat his money is the reason Y she's wit him ok, n maybe she might even leave him for some1 HIGHER 2, so d guy might not tak her serious as u did, Datz wat they call KARMA!, she doesnt deserve U ook, Atleast there's always a lesson to learn aight, Now i know itz very painful n all, but life isnt fair @ all, Comeoooooooon Naija Guy, there is still dat Lady out there waitin for u ook, Move on!.

sazzy-phy:

immediately she said those words, u would have DIALLED her number, may be when it rings she take those words back.

Does that mean a dirty slap

     

There are two(2) types of people in a romantic relationship:those that have been jilted and those waiting to be jilted.

Let her go. No amount can replace the love you have for her. Don't worry, when recession catch up with her maga, she'll come back begging for your love again.

i would advise you guys to talk and get to the bottom of the matter but if shes still not interested in you just move on
you dont have to go through the indignity of calculating what you have spent at least during the 4years you guys were together it was worth it
so forget about giving her any invoice lol its not worth the stress
for example if youre trying to toast a girl and you buy her gifts and she doesnt gree 4u will u tell her 2return the gifts

bros u know wat? that girl is not
4 u and i think is evil. just let her
go abeg.

HELLO GUY,

"DO YOU REMEBER THIS SONG NEXT THING NA HUMMER"  THAT SHOULD BE YOUR SONG FOR THAT WEEK. LET ME HELP YOU GIVE QUOTATION IN AND INVOICE MANNER.

COST FOR FEED                                                                             N,,,,,,,,,/,,,

LOVE COST                                                                                     N, /,

TIME WASTE                                                                                  N , /,

WEARS                                                                                           N, /,

SCHOOL FEES                                                                                 N, /,

PARENTIAL CARES                                                                           N, /,

SLEEPING FEES                                                                               N, /,

SERVICES CHARGE:                                                                         N, /,

LAWYER FEE:                                                                                   N, /,

VAT                                                                                                  N  -10%

RATE OF EXCHANGE AS AT THAT DAY?  GRAND TOTAL: IN NAIRA:     N185,858.

RATE OF EXCHANGE AS AT THAT DAY?  GRAND TOTAL: IN NAIRA:     $185.85

                                                                                                        N:34,541,709.3

NO CHEQUE PAYMENT
NO BANK TRNSFER
CASH AND CARRY.  ONE MORE THING MY BROTHER INVOLVE A LAWYER IN THIS CASE IF SHE WANT IT THAT WAY, SO AT THE END YOU GO SING NEXT THING NA HUMMER SINCE SHE DONT MEET BUSH PINKIN AS BOY FRIEND OR LOVER.

GOOD LUCK

truevirgo:

There's obviously some big shot involved in her life. He's breaking her off with some serious dough.

Quite agree with this! Then there is that fact that she just wants out and doesn't want to feel like she owes you anything. The good thing there is it means you aint at fault.
Give her one very high amount so that she complains and then you can finally get to the root of the problem. That don't mean you should resolve it o, just know what you didn't give her so that your next gold-digging girlfriend won't go the same way.

Let it go bro, don't try to convince her otherwise, you guys are done!!!!!

@ POSTER,

Anything spent on relationship cannot be refunded by either the man or the woman. Just know that one. All those asking you make the list of expenses on her are saying so for the fun of the situation. I will only advice you to accept and face the reality of being ditched. From the tone of your letter u still do care about here and it is obvious she is in another relationship with a man who holds cool money. My mind tells me it is with one Abuja pt-belly politician who has spoiled her with cool spree of cash. But I have a feeling she will be dumped too in her newfound relationship. Just move on and have fun with other girls!

stop being a sucker for love. believe me when i say she did u a favour. More fishes in the ocean