1. Be secure
The key to accepting your partner’s success is by being secure in what you do. Have faith in your work, your contribution to your work and in your talent. Being secure will require you to accept who you are and what you are. It will mean accepting your capabilities, abilities and being happy with who you are. Not too difficult a feat for a man’s man we think!

2. Be happy for her
Seriously, why wouldn’t you be happy and proud of your partner’s success? In fact you must celebrate her success and appreciate her efforts and hard work. Wouldn’t you expect the same from her?

3. Channel the jealousy
You are going to be jealous of your partner. You need to accept this negative emotion and channel it in the right direction. Face it, communicate this feeling with your partner without diminishing her success and ensure that something good comes out of it.

4. Involve yourself
The chances of a rift are higher if you distance yourself from your partner and don’t participate in her success. Therefore, get involved. Be an active listener and participant in her success, her journey, her work. This will help bring you’ll closer together and strengthen your relationship.

5. Get inspired
You can analyse your partner’s success and learn from it. Get inspired and try and incorporate her success mantras in your daily routine and work regimen. For all you know, success will knock on your door sooner than you imagined.
To be honest, you shouldn’t have to learn to ‘deal’ with your partner’s success. You need get past your ego and embrace her success and celebrate it just like she would yours.


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Acceptance should lead the way. You can't change or deal with something you don't accept.

naijaboiy:
Okay. So what do we do when she tries to laud it over us because she's more successful.

I'm more interested in that part.

If talking to her doesn't help, its safe to walk away, but that should be done in a way that won't stain one's reputation.

Fine advice. lastly be her biggest cheerleader.

Op abeg tell them O, very simple task
Number 2 ::: some guys just can't handle it .

naijaboiy:

Do people easily walk away from marriages?

it is an obvious character easily detected in courtship or dating. A divorced person is better than a walking dead, what's the use of living with someone without peace ?

naijaboiy:
Okay. So what do we do when she tries to laud it over us because she's more successful.

I'm more interested in that part.

You are never more interested in anything that is about you taking correction.

Why would she want to laud her success over you in the first place. Does it not have anything to do with maybe your laziness and insecurity ?

naijaboiy:
What is he saying?

Where is your brain?

naijaboiy:

Lol...nigga swerve!

You should take your own words. Thread isn't for you. Go work on your esteem and then come back for better understanding.

FINALLY, DO NOT SHOW TOO MUCH INTEREST IN HER MONEY OR TRY TO BE IN CONTROL OF HER MONEY.

naijaboiy:

You haven't answered my question miss.

Denial