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Why would you change your religion simply cos of a woman? If she isn't cool with your faith, let her take the exit door. She knew you have always been a muslim but she never had a problem with that till this minute. Bro, don't ever switch your religion cos of a woman.

She should rather switch to yours. Are you the man or she is?







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If none of you is ready to sacrifice religious differences before marriage, how can you cope with it after marriage.

Let you both end this relationship. Religion is an important consideration in marriage else you may hit the rocks.

why cant she convert to islam?
its time we stop thinking our religion is the best
btw, islam is worst religion on earth, follow by the scamming niaja kind of Christianity

lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


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Gerrarrahear mehn. Someone wil jst sit & write some fictional story jst 4 fp. Rubbish

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iPopAlomo:
I'm a Muslim... Le Boo is a Christian...

my grandfather is a Muslim (Alhaji)... his wife (my grandmother is a Christian (Evangelist Holy Flock)... both resting in peace...

my mom's twin is a Christian (mfm)... her husband is a Muslim (Alhaji)...

all married one woman... all stayed loyal... even me sef...

Anyways... point is... she saw you a Muslim... she fell in love with you a Muslim... why bring crazy condition at one minute to marriage... I won't tell you what to do... whatever decision you make... stick with it and don't let anyone sway you...

oh... my Le Boo...

Her father Muslim... her mother Christian (Methodist)...

plenty examples mehn... and all had one wife...

Wow! Splendid




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Thats a bad idea, but its a matter o choice..just saying.

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You both should find a common ground. She should leave Christianity while you also leave Islam so as to make peace reign. Both of you can start worshiping Sango, Ogun, Obatala, Osun, Ayilala or any other gods that suit you both.

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lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow...[s] I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me[/s]... I just need a candid advice."

that's y it's called nairaland and is that not a pic of Jenifer and kamilu compo on ur post. I'll advice to look elsewhere for love since u both r unwilling to change religions u will thx me later

lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

Don't ever ever change your religion for marriage it's a very foolish and shallow thing to do . U should only change when you are absolutely convinced beyond reasonable doubt that a religion is the way.

Don't even consider it at all, why trying to force you into changing to a Christian? Why? It shows how weak you are as a Muslim despite the fact that you have a Muslim background.

Well the truth is that YOU BOTH ARE NOT MEANT FOR EACH OTHER


So someone can not kneel down to wear shoe

Change my dear, you will thank us later

Is he asking for too much? Or u think its a breakup strategy?

To convert from one religion to other because of this condition is not welcome
If you willingly want to convert, that is another thing. But your fiancee want to force you to covert to christian because of marriage is not something.
We have seen husband and wife both practising different religion and they have good family.
Let both of you practice the two religion, u muslim and her christian. But if she decline let her be and find your way. She is not the only responsible one. And you too should know the truth about ur religion if truly u believe is the right way not just bearing muslim name

One, u have to decide for yourself and know what u want. Two, there's nothing u can't do for love if your partner worth it. Three, just have it in mind that is good to have one religion in a loving home and don't criticis on religion. May God help u.

My candid opinion (no bias reasoning).. Is that.. She's telling yhu the truth.. But honestly she's not doing it the right way..

If she's a true Christian.. She should talk to yhu about Jesus.. And make yhu see reasons why giving yhur life to Christ is the best thing that can ever happen to yhu..

After that if yhu refuse.. She should leave yhu and find her man.. Cause obviously you're not the one..
The Bible does not permit a Christian to marry an unbeliever..

(all those pokenosers that would want to mention me.. Should take note)..

This is totally my opinion..

I once experienced something like this....My ex girl wanted me to change from MFM to Jehova witness...A request that I declined and we both separated..The most important thing is you taking decisions that are gonna make you happy..It got nothing to do with compromising...but try to make decisions that are gonna make you happy..

Bros all these ur yarnings no follow .. Follow my advice give the girl belle ASAP asap and stand by her,walahi na kia kia Una go do wedding religion or no religion

How come u both dated to the point of marriage?

Don't be a sissy, never change your religion because of a woman who is not willing to change hers for you. Don't be a sissy moh mehn

I advice u to follow ur instinct or what u believed in or as the spirit leads u. Love conquers all.
Don't change religion cos ur forced to but change religion cos u wants to.

Forget those side talk telling u that u will have problem if ur bring her into ur home.
The power to survive is in hand, u can move moutain if u believe.

Love leads

That's how people complicate life for themselves.
When you asked her out, you both didn't remember your religion?
Mtcheew.
Wetin concern me?
I can't convert for any man under duress, won't try to convert any either. I will find my kind

My brother.... I am a christian.

Note: To me don't ever change blcos of her....
if u change it, note dat she will be controlling u alot...
she will always want u to dance on her tone.....
Marriage is once ooooh...
My brother kindly be a Man and stand on ur ground..
what is love self!!!!!....
Plz don't lose ur respect as a Man.

I'm sure deep down in your heart ♥ you know what you really want.. so just take a stand as no one can take that stand for you.

No you are not a Muslim! A real Muslim understands what is in the Quran, a real Muslim understands that the Quran commands that women follow the religion of their husbands and that men should never marry a woman not willing to convert. This issue is simple, it's about your relationship with Allah! Is your relationship a strong one or is it something easily tossed away by the affection of a woman? Final piece of advice, any woman that would DEMAND you change something as vital as your faith is never worth the stress, there are other ways to convince you to change without giving an ULTIMATUM.....Think about it, today it is religion, tomorrow it is your friends or family

You would be deceiving yourself if its because of a woman...or affluence or fear you accept any religion. Your soul is more important to God than any other thing

ernesty20:
Change to christian because christianity is the only way you can make heaven when you are dead.

Change before it is too late. Dnt say i didnt warn you

Changing to christianity is immaterial because you are looking at christianity as religion: which it is not. It will make him twice the son of hell. But accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as his Lord and savior (being born-again) is what will guarantee him eternal life. It is not everybody that goes to church is a CHristian. That is why you hear of pastor stealing church funds, committing adultery, etc.

Who is a Christian and what is Christianity? Christianity is one's personal relationship with GOD through Jesus Christ and His finished works on the cross of calvary which is sealed with the Holy Spirit.

Nne5:
Why forcing you?
I'm a Christian but that is plain wrong.
What happened to freedom of religion?
You don't force someone to convert to your religion.
That's stupid.


I can't believe some people above me support the lady.
See if she really loves you religion will not stand in the way.#Fact.
Just let her go abeg!
Converting to another religion is something. Now converting because you were FORCED to is something else.Let her go.Your true wife will come.

Exactly! My wife is a Muslim,i will never force her to practice my religion because she won't value it. My prayer is that one day she will be saved.

There is no compulsion in religion, if you are not going to convert please stay out of the relationship because of your unborn children. It will pain you most when you see them practicing another faith as they grow up.

As a Muslim, I won't advice you to change your religion because of Marriage because marriage itself is half of your deen, and you can always get many Muslim sisters that suit your taste for marriage. Please seek knowledge about your faith.