am at a cross road. i initially dated this chik like 2 years ago and we broke up. then i did not have a good job so i was always on the broke side and i ran to her once for cash and wen i came the 2nd time she fled. we didnt see until a mth ago, cos i really liked the chik we started dating again by then i had secured a bigger job. a week ago, she called me that she was pregnant and she knows aint the one cos i have always been protecting myself. i told her to call the guy and tell him abt but he bluntly refused it. she called me days later that she has removed it. ever since she has been begging, sending txt messages for a 2nd chance. am just confused now. dont knw what to do.

please some shld just help me out

Help u do what naw?

just need an advise on what to do

It seems he asking whether to give her a third chance.

to me, give her a chance, this last one wasn her fault

If i were you it will end once n for all.

Who needs help?

henryhemon:

If i were you it will end once n for all.

Yes let her go. cos she mint not be able to give birth since she had gone for abortion. omo fine new and beta one jare

Marry her

it doesn't what thinking. Get buz into something meaningful or just marry her.

Help her, remember u ran to her for money many times b4? Now she needs ur help don't let her down.

She deserves the second chance.

justwise:

Help her, remember u ran to her for money many times b4? Now she needs your help don't let her down.

She deserves the second chance.

I know she deserves a 2nd chance but am just thinking. u knw the funniest thing, she suddenly became nice and wants to give me this and this and this.

mr_seun:

I know she deserves a 2nd chance but am just thinking. u knw the funniest thing, she suddenly became nice and wants to give me this and this and this.

I see where u are coming from, it does happen sometimes, maybe u should over look her acting and be there for her.

Women can be funny atimes. wen they need something from u, they can be extremely nice. am just still thinking

She killed somebody and you are talking rubbish here. Someone that could kill her own child will poison you if you are not careful . . . . . Women get mind ooooooooooooooooooooooooo . she removed it . , . like you are talking to an object. . . so irritating. @ POSTER do you want to associate yourself with a murderer? This demonic act is becoming a norm in our society . . . .

abeg accept her atleast 4 d help she render 2 u, 4get abt d past nd b focus

yeswecan:

She killed somebody and you are talking rubbish here. Someone that could kill her own child will poison you if you are not careful . . . . . Women get mind ooooooooooooooooooooooooo . she removed it . , . like you are talking to an object. . . so irritating. @ POSTER do you want to associate yourself with a murderer? This demonic act is becoming a norm in our society . . . .

Let him go. she bi na im go still use in leg come next time for advice se she don Bleep up again. Infact, why should guy jump into a hole just to satisfy a love. me while their is assurance that she can abort your child even without telling you,if you are wise enough run out of her, but if you want her love go and see wath you looking for,

yeswecan:

She killed somebody and you are talking rubbish here. Someone that could kill her own child will poison you if you are not careful . . . . . Women get mind ooooooooooooooooooooooooo . she removed it . ,  . like you are talking to an object. . . so irritating. @ POSTER do you want to associate yourself with a murderer?  This demonic act is becoming a norm in our society . . . .

who she murder? Well let me tell u that the baby never existed, & u dont kill wat never existed so look 4 some other name 2 call wat she did

If i was in your shoes i wouldnt date her again. To commit abortion is a sin against me, my GOD and my future.

She should find another man.

Kelvinj:

who she murder? Well let me tell u that the baby never existed, & u dont kill wat never existed so look 4 some other name 2 call wat she did

What are you saying? this is finest form of delusion . . . life Begins at conception my dear , . what did she abort? if its not a child tell me what she aborted AND am not talking about religion but common sense. Abortion is the most brutal form of murder because you don't give the baby any chance to negotiate. The killer takes the life of a defenceless person . . . her own blood . its akin to killing your one year old child with a knife. . Nonsense

am getting emotional here

let her azz go she left you high and dry when you needed help now she needs another meal ticket. imagine what will happen if God forbid you loose this big job you have she will probably run back to the other guy again. Also, dont allow her to make it seem like she aborted the pregnancy for the sake of you and she was cheating on her man with you or vice versa too complicated