I LIVED WITH MY UNCLE FOR A MONTH OR MORE BUT HER WIFE MADE MY STAY VERY PAINFUL.
CAN YOU IMAGINE THAT SHE DOES NOT OFFER ME NOTHING TO EAT OR ASK HOW I AM FARING.
AFTER A STRESSFUL DAY, I COME BACK AND THERE IS NOTHING TO EAT AND SOMETIMES TO DRINK (water).
HER CHILDREN EATS IN THE HOUSE BUT THEY DON'T KEEP FOR ME, I HAVE LEARNED TO EAT OUTSIDE, EVEN THOUGH I DID NOT BUDGET FOR THAT, I GUESS I JUST HAD TO DEAL WITH IT.

THIS STRUGGLE GOTS TO END

PLEASE IF HAVE HAD ANY EXPERIENCE LIKE THAT PLEASE say it here.

i hear am that time

Sorry ooo  . Well, when my parents passed-away yrs ago, my siblings and I had to live with relatives. I moved-in with my aunt who treated me like crap. My advice is, focus on your objectives and goals. All the hardships we go through in life build us so we can get where we need to be. If things were always easy my friend, we wouldn't know the true meaning of happiness. So, I will say, for now do what you have to do. I don't know what your future plans are but keep your eye on the price, determination will take you places, this will pass.

And remember this--- hard times don't last only strong people do.

@ playahP

i never had an experience like that, but i wish you all the best. keep your head up and dont let the negatives in life discourage you. merry christmas.

@ ugo1on1

very strong words there, and very true. thank you and merry christmas.

Some women are just so distasteful.

A lot of them plenty in Naija. . . . Thatz why I cant do no polygamy marriage

Ugo1on1:

And remember this hard times don't last only strong people do.

U're right.

Be strong and pay less attention and
you'll watch your aunt die out of guilty conscience.

Dont hate her, dont worry about, let all these be what will move you to be a better person, and you will one day remember all that and laff.

I have been thru such.

Hang in there

no condition is permanent my dear. have you try bringing up the issue to your uncle, at least letting him be aware of the situation of things in his house?

i ask because i have known many instances where such things happen and the man isnt aware of it. they usually "believe" things are ok because they are usually not at home morning until night and their wives behaves or make them believe things are definitely fine. and when the person leaves and maybe informs them of their horrible stay, they become furious because they werent aware of such happenings.

you just have  to realize and accept that some women have their hearts at their back instead of their front. so if you have enough money continue managing, am sure your stay there is only for awhile. be strong for yourself.

however, i do suggest bringing up the issue to your uncle, if you havent done so yet. even if he doesnt/didnt do anything about it, at least you know that he knows what is happening, so that whatever happens next, he wouldnt claim he didnt know. am sure your uncle in the true depths of his heart wouldnt want his family member to starve to death or be maltreated under his nose.

take heart dear, sometimes such is life

The woman is not wicked? What is the poster doing there? Does his uncle give his wife extra cash for the extra mouth?

otokx:

The woman is not wicked? What is the poster doing there? Does his uncle give his wife extra cash for the extra mouth?

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They quite comfortable and money aint really an issue to them ,
my aunt is naturally greedy, GOD KNOWS I AM NOT LIEING, she would prefer storing food in the fride till it gets bad.
I don't hate her, naaaah, i actually feel pity for her