Hello fellow n'landers, sorry to bother y'all with ma epistle but am really confused here and I need help on wah to do.... It all started 3 yrs ago when we started dating and in these period of time I never knew she had me in mind. My first offence was for advising her against receiving gift from a married man she once had an affair with (2014). She kept it in mind, I even told her that waheva it was she wanted I would get it for her. My second offence was because I had to follow a female friend to tender some project work to our boss, knowing fully well that if she was alone in his office, things might get rough. I called bae to inform her that I would be a bit late due to the situation. I expected her to understand only for me to get home and she said we needed to talk and I should choose between Her or my co-worker. I was shocked as I didn't expect it from her I told her she had a purpose in my life and I wanted us to build together towards the future and as for my co-worker, she was only there to help me get the job and also assist me in d field. I never knew she kept me in my for not choosing her. Fast forward to my birthday, bae called me as early as 12:01 and wished me a happy birthday and said she wanted us to brk-up, I felt like I was shot on the leg. All my attempts to ask why, she kept saying I did nufin. This is someone whom I permitted to go visit her ex, all because she said he was bothering her with calls. Only for her to go there and start making love.(She told me few days after her visit that she needed to confess something to me cus she couldn't hide it anymore) I told her it was ok and she's human, no one is above mistakes. Only for her to call me insecure, inmatured and all sorts. I went to her home to beg again and ask wah I did wrong,only for her to tell me I had just 30mins to say wah I wanted to say, I wanted to beg, only for her to call her so-called church member and she said "guess wah ? LAST YEAR is HERE, I will tell u all abt it later" I was now referred to as "LAST YEAR" I thanked her, hugged her and this time around she pushed me down the stairs, thereby I hit ma head against the wall and she bursted into tears and asked me to leave, she said I always came bk when she's trying to forget abt me. I promised her I won't call or text her, as it will be easy she forgot abt me. She said she doesn't know y she's doing this but her mind tells her she would regret it and she's willing to take d risk. I left her house. Now ever since january after this incident took place, I have a particular dream abt her, in this dream... I became a greater person and hardly stayed in the country, so on this faithful day I returned bk to 9ja cus my bestie said bae invited him for a wedding, tinkin that she has finally decided to settle with this so-called church member she always told me she had and will neva av anything to do with, lo and behold I got to d venue to see the guy marrying a more prettier lady and after exchanging pleasantries with my friends, I noticed a lady trying to hide from me, only for my friend to call her to say hi to me, when she turned it was bae.. She was looking pregnant and unkept. I was shocked, all I did was wave at her. This dream has been constant. Pls wah does it mean and how can I stop it...


Am sorry for any grammatical error or poor mechanism. I am just nervous. I don't want anything bad to befall her.

U have just been relieved of a spiritual yoke... Pray more, and keep dreaming big fella.

Op, you dearly love this bae but love is reciprocal

keep praying

Lastpharoah33:
U have just been relieved of a spiritual yoke... Pray more, and keep dreaming big fella.

Thanks a lot, I have prayed. I even spoke to her bestie telling her I had forgiven her and my destiny has also done same. But with this dreams keep coming I feel she's heading for distruction.

God first.



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obiorathesubtle:
Lol.. For a human, you do a really mean footmat impression..


Good for you.. Keep it up.

The kind of dream where your Bitçhy ex is getting what she deserves is a good dream.. Don't try to stop it. Enjoy it. .

To some extent, she was nice. She assisted me back then in school. When my parents couldn't afford it, she was there. Even tho' she broke me this way, it doesn't mean I should just fold my hands and do nothing.

Fame333:
Op, you dearly love this bae but love is reciprocal

I can't deny that I still do, even after she brought tears to my mother's eyes. As my mum saw her as a partner and gave her all the trust and love, but @ d end my mum broke down sick after telling her she wants nothing to do with us. Maybe cus we are not rich tho'

gidzbobby

It might be your subconsciousness, but all the same.. It means she will regret what she did and you will be sitting at a higher table... Just go on with busines

Essentials1:
gidzbobby

It might be your subconsciousness, but all the same.. It means she will regret what she did and you will be sitting at a higher table... Just go on with busines

Thank you sir, I really wish it was my subconsciousness but now its not even abt me. Even my mum dreams about her and when she talked abt it, she said "She came back begging but she(my mum) turned deaf ears.

gidzbobby:


Thank you sir, I really wish it was my subconsciousness but now its not even abt me. Even my mum dreams about her and when she talked abt it, she said "She came back begging but she(my mum) turned deaf ears.

Interesting.. Just keep going with life... Move on.. Stop thinking about her.. Something big will happen

Essentials1:


Interesting.. Just keep going with life... Move on.. Stop thinking about her.. Something big will happen

Thank you so much sir. God bless u

gidzbobby:


Thank you so much sir. God bless u

When the blessing comes I will share it with you.. I promise

Bros ur dream is what U are actually thinking might happen to the lady, the best was to stop the dream is gett over ur ex and get a pretty more adorable woman into ur life,learn to do what makes U so happy like watching movie or football,just be pre-occupied and in no time U ll get over her. Just work on ur mind

profhezekiah:
Bros ur dream is what U are actually thinking might happen to the lady, the best was to stop the dream is gett over ur ex and get a pretty more adorable woman into ur life,learn to do what makes U so happy like watching movie or football,just be pre-occupied and in no time U ll get over her. Just work on ur mind

The truth is I don't think about her, even the nature of my job doesn't give me room to rest not to talk of thinking about her. Its just something that happens every night, that's why am still awake till now. I even met my pastor for us to pray against it. All he said was there's more to it and she's not saying. I agreed with him cause one of the other dreams I had, a man told me she belonged to him and I was lucky I backed out. She also once told me then that her father is a fetish person. Now do we say her father is responsible for her aving a spirit husband or wah ?

If there's anyone who has the gift of interpretation of dreams and probably tell me wah to do as we are no longer in talking terms. I don't want to tell her to pray for herself or warn her to becareful and she will tink I am saying this cus she broke up with me. Please help n'landers.

gidzbobby:


The truth is I don't think about her, even the nature of my job doesn't give me room to rest not to talk of thinking about her. Its just something that happens every night, that's why am still awake till now. I even met my pastor for us to pray against it. All he said was there's more to it and she's not saying. I agreed with him cause one of the other dreams I had, a man told me she belonged to him and I was lucky I backed out. She also once told me then that her father is a fetish person. Now do we say her father is responsible for her aving a spirit husband or wah ?

Bro there is a popular saying that ur mess is ur message, our story is a little similar although I was the 1 that ends the relationship, I normally dream of her coming back but after I got over her and I started dating some1 else ,dat was the end of her. So just work on ur mind

Let her carry her cross,you've done the best you can

gidzbobby:


To some extent, she was nice. She assisted me back then in school. When my parents couldn't afford it, she was there. Even tho' she broke me this way, it doesn't mean I should just fold my hands and do nothing.

Hmm I see

gidzbobby:


Thanks a lot, I have prayed. I even spoke to her bestie telling her I had forgiven her and my destiny has also done same. But with this dreams keep coming I feel she's heading for distruction.

Bro...u need to completely move on. It will neva work.

Even if she is heading anywhere, forget abt her.

Reason u dream abt her is cos u still think abt her.

In dt dream, u will soon get some good news but u need to be careful not to let someone else spoil it for u.

Your first mistake was dating this kinda woman with zero morals and zero loyalty. I fear as you continue to relate with her, that dream of yours may never come to be.

I don't knw wat 2 say but I will still need 2 say sometins......u see as far as I knw,love is a 2 mutual feelings not 2 b one sided!!nowadays its seems we young of nowadays don't knw wat love is,we just venture into it and Dats Wie d problem lies.....
love??do u knw wat love is??love is something u must not feel alone,it needs 2 b reciprocated....Buh come 2 tink of it,y is it dat u guys don't date d girl dat is willing 2 do anything 4 u and same goes 2 we females....
pls b4 u make a move 2 woo a girl,make sure u intrigue some feelings in her b4 asking her out....u knw some girls cannot differentiate btw love nd friendship??y can't u wait till u sure d girl also has a feelings 4 u b4 making moves?
do u knw dat y u ar busy tinking of her,she may b wit anoda man making jest of u??u need 2 understand a lady heart b4 u can conclude if its love or normal likeness...
although its always difficult 4 men 2 4get we ladies just like dat but KNOW dat it will only take some days 4 her 2 totally 4get u,do u?hmmmm love can b cruel at times and be sweet at oda tym....
my advice is.......continue praying cos u Hav a destiny 2 fulfilled, 4get abt her 4 now,build dat big empire u dreamt of!!!
abt d dream,y can't u let d future unfold itself?pls my dear continue 2 dream.big and let's see wat happened later....
do u knw wen u make it,women will b flocking around u and u won't Hav d strength of chasing woman up and down......so save strength now 4 d future by being focused...
and lastly.......women ar distractions although its nt our fault but d truth is WE AR CREATED 2 B......A WORD IS ENOUGH......

The consistency of the said dream shows there is something wrong. All you can do to help is to Pray for her when you've got the chance.

Please dont try to contact her, Let her learn the hard way. You were a good man to her, dont let her manipulate you to getting back with her.

my broda, i feel ur pain...i no how hard it is for you to move on but trust me u will get there...the dream is telling u that she is just a distraction to ur life and u have to do everything u can to forget her and focus on ur goal..dont just depend on ur dream by sitting there and waiting for it to come without putting effort...also, stop visiting different pastors because of interpretation of this dream because u will only get confuse everyday of your life...

when we love someone so dear and passionately, we always think that our destiny is tie to that person but fail to realise that our destiny is tied to ourselves. we dreamt of making it big with the one we love and we feel so happy...when someone did us wrong, we dont always get bother because we thought we have the one "our love" who will always put smile on our face even when the world is against us.the word love and even relationship is just a distraction from keeping us from attaining our goals in life...when we finally miss this love "broke up", we thought we have lost everything in life..we thought our dreams of attaining success is over..we thought we cant go any further and most especially we thought he/she (especially she) may be successful than us...

all these are our mindset of love because we truly feel something deep and great for the one we love..it is time we stop dreaming and expect the worst in any relationship we find ourselves..it is time we tell ourselves the truth that we can do without the one we love..it is time we tell ourselves that we can always walk away "move on" and never look back even when she thinks we cant walk away no matter how she breaks our heart..it is time we tell ourselves that the word love is just a four letter words and that there are other things that are more important than love.we fail to love ourselves before loving others..

we need to no where we going to before getting a wife....

the sad thing in life is being too emotional for the one u love because it will always occupy ur mind with that same person and u will always think u cant go any further without that person..sometime it is better to be alone...

one thing we need to no is that before she came into our life, we already have a nice family..what makes us think that her love is far better than our family? the answer is lust..so love urselve first and ur family before loving others....our family we always stay by us wen we had nothing but the one we love we always think otherwise..

op just cheer up and move on...its just a matter of time..everything will be fine just like the weather...i no its hard to forget but u just have to let go..most girls will regret their action later in future and it will be too late for them to pick up the broken glasses..most girls think they are doing the right things but they dont no that destruction await them later

i dnt like to talk 2 much. just know that dream keeps remindin u to get her off ur mind and shes never the right one 4u.... let her live her life n face the consequence of her decision.