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Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 9:18am On Apr 09, 2017 |
So I turned 28 this week and I am thankfuk for all the years God has given me on this earth. I had plans that involved me getting married by the end of the year I turned 28 . I didn't plan this goal very well... I didn't know with whom but I wanted to be married . So here I am ... Unmarried ... And life is a going on ( I have not died ) but society looks at me so expectantly ... Inviting me to their church ... Asking me if there is someone What if there's no one Should life stop?... I was speaking with an older friend of my who is 38 who remained single for 9 years before he best friend of many years popped the question... Point is she learned to live a content life knowing that she may not be blessed with marriage. She has her MBA, successful, beautiful and she had to wait a whole 9 years ( lwad ) My point is shoulnt we find piece in knowing that God may not have plans of marriage for us. So I have made a vow to put it out of my mind 2 Likes |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Tallesty1(m): 9:24am On Apr 09, 2017 |
And you had to create a thread for it? Why is our validation so important to you? 1 Like |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 9:37am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Marriage is overrated abd not for everybody. I still haven't seen a reason to WHY I should get married 3 Likes |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 9:46am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Tallesty1: It's a discussion... No one forced you to participate 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 09, 2017 |
lovelygurl: But don't you want a family? Build a legacy ... Pass on your genes... Companionship... |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 09, 2017 |
It's alrighty, maybe in another life
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Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 9:58am On Apr 09, 2017 |
lovelygurl:Iffa slapu eh? U want NL guys to become bobrisky abi? Change dat ur mind sharp sharp 1 Like |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 9:59am On Apr 09, 2017 |
ZarZar:Not u again?!? |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by FTBOY: 9:59am On Apr 09, 2017 |
at 28, it's getting too late for you. i mean, you're passing your prime. that's what happens when you keep turning down marriage requests; and seeing all men as the same...as a result of heartbreaks. but you can still be a single parent if you want kids...or spend the rest of useful life in night clubs. marriage is not meant for all, after all. 3 Likes |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:00am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Pinkpetals:Don't mind her jare!!!! Na fronting BTW.....OP ur own man will locate u IJN!!!!! |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:01am On Apr 09, 2017 |
FTBOY: What makes you think I even go to night clubs So you can't think of anything more productive that I could have been focused on? My mother was not a single parent why should I be... 2 Likes |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:01am On Apr 09, 2017 |
FTBOY:FTBOY? Future tense boy right? Coz I can't see how u knew all these about d OP unless r a prophet? Like Suleiman*rolling eyes* |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by CoolFreeday(m): 10:01am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Our parents, The society and our culture put unnecessary pressure on people because of marriage. The pressure to me is not necessary. Life shouldn't be all about marriage, those that are married today are mostly managing their homes but not enjoying it, husbands and wives sleep outside with their lovers and yet young once are being pressurise to venture into it. Making up your mind to live your life without worrying yourself over it will be a wonderful decision, if it will happen, it will definitely happen so why all the trouble, after all, you're just 28, you're too young for all the marriage pressure thing. Happy weekend. 2 Likes |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 09, 2017 |
luminouz: I guess... It's tricky |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 09, 2017 |
luminouz: Lol, wanna save me from spinsterhood? Help me, mr!
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Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 09, 2017 |
CoolFreeday: You are so right... I don't even think I'm ready |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by dacblogger: 10:05am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Dnt mind them dear,your husband will come...just be patient |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Lilymax(f): 10:05am On Apr 09, 2017 |
I feel the same way sometimes. Especially when I see marriages that end in pain, conflict and abuse after a few years. I wonder why some people bother with love, if it'll never last for them. |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:06am On Apr 09, 2017 |
ZarZar:Lmao!!!!! Since u asked nicely!!! *Here come ur knight in shining armour*
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Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:08am On Apr 09, 2017 |
ZarZar: LMAO you shoulda let me call snowie. He seems eager to help in that dept. |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:08am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Pinkpetals:If it is ur passion it will come to pass.......check my siggy!!! |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:09am On Apr 09, 2017 |
dacblogger: I like your optimism. But have you noticed the increasing rate of f*uck boys... There is a declining rate of serious guy... Everything must be quick and easy |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:10am On Apr 09, 2017 |
luminouz: What is a siggy |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:10am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Pinkpetals:Signature..... On profile |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:11am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Lilymax: I know what you mean ... That's why I don't believe in rushing just for the sake of being married... That's when u suffer |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:11am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Pinkpetals:N who made em fvckboiz if not d fvckgehs around who want everything fast n easy.... |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:13am On Apr 09, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:See me see aproko.....she didn't ask u nigga!!! She asked me!!!! |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:13am On Apr 09, 2017 |
luminouz: But not every girl wants fast and easy... It's just so common these days ... I can't settle for this |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:13am On Apr 09, 2017 |
Pinkpetals:Ur one of d few sensible ones then |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:15am On Apr 09, 2017 |
luminouz:Yeah The post wasnt addressing you either. So you're excused from my mentions thank you |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by luminouz(m): 10:16am On Apr 09, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Thank you too!!!!! |
Re: Random Thought: What If We Arent All Meant To Marry? by Nobody: 10:17am On Apr 09, 2017 |
luminouz: I learned a new phrase the other day-Any man na man |
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