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How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
I grew in a polygamist family and my wife is aware. I am tired of straffing the same lady everyday and need a new perspective. I have been nuturing a gal since in University and she will soon round up. I luv my wife and my kid so much and would want to hurt her. Pls I do I inform my wife that I want to begin the rites to marry a second wife without her getting angry. Pls polygamist should advice me and critics should pls avoid me. Thanks. Sgt Ponzi Hater. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
First move out of the house Then inform her from afar... over the phone 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
So it's because of debauchery you want to marry another one, not because of your wife's childlessness or your impotence. You will catch a deadlier herpes. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Marcus2(m): 8:27pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
this is wickedness. |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Antina(f): 8:27pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Some men and selfishness are 5&6. Mura si! 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by olasaad(f): 8:34pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
you should focus on your life first how you will increase your present conditions and that of your immediate family too. Marriage finance is quite different from university spending. Be patient Oko Iyawo 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by jmichlins(m): 8:35pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Antina:what has what he intend to do have in common with selfishness. He said he needs a new wife which is a normal thing here if not for western influence and religion. Personally I don't subscribe to polygamy because one woman is enough trouble already not forgetting the burden of children upbringing but I won't say he's selfish. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Delphi(m): 8:36pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
If I may guess well, you are a sergeant in the Nigerian Army/Police. Postulating further, you are in the rank&file cadre not officers' cadre! Even if you are none of these, you are not far from that level. Again, from your write-up, because you are from a polygamous family, you must go polygamous irrespective of the prevailing situations and circumstances around you. This is so disappointing! Mr sgt, your interest is just to get another wife (wives) to satisfy your orgies without contemplating whether you can adequately cater for them and the children that will follow - giving them the best education and training. Actually, considering the economic situation of the country now, I doubt if this can be possible. Did it not occur to you that the large (polygamous) family you came from deprived you and your siblings of certain standard of living - training/exposure/wherewithal? Why do you want to delve into such again and thus recycle poverty/low-life in your generation. You supposed to have been wiser by now. You have to discipline your self and sacrifice certain privileges/pleasures as to ensure a better future for your (unborn) children and generation. Truly, that's the way a wise and determined father goes. Changing sex partners is just vanity, an ephemeral ecstasy with subsequent self-reproach. Good luck! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Don't you think your wife needs another perspective too? I bet she's tired of straffing the same short beans over and over again. Or do you think she's a robot? 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by delishpot: 8:51pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
And your wife is not tired and enduring your old jolojolo? Should she also go look for someone new to service her while you are attending to your new woman bedroom wise? What will you do if your first wife wants sex while it is the turn of your new one? Besides, howlong before you get bored of the new va.gina Bros, even tho polygamy is allowed, it is clearly a selfish thing Put yourself in your wifes shoes na Your wife is just 28 years old and you are complaining of being tired of her va.gina 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by olutoscene(m): 8:51pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
instead of you to focus on your life and Marraige, you're busy chasing about Ponzi! Face your life! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by nmreports: 9:03pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Amusing |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
No one has asked me how to do this without offending my wife. Just scolding me 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by poshestmina(f): 9:14pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Muchechecheche ...he's man enough to want a 2nd wife ,let him face her na ,why inform her 4rm afar? |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY: I tot so. But I want my old wife to be part of d wedding so that there's no jealousy between both wife's. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
sgtponzihater:You need to go find your kinsmen because your dad didn't use any Internet advice during his time. Don't disturb people here. Marry 3 more. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by ritababe(f): 9:47pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
and when the new one tire you, you will still go and look for a third one.
SMH. |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 9:49pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
sgtponzihater:You are a very brave man my friend. You want to risk a total meltdown at your wedding eh |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by kindim(m): 9:51pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
SmartBug:nice one |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 9:52pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
ritababe: I was never tired of my first wife. Just need another fresh blood. But I luv my first wife so much. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Kobicove(m): 10:24pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
How old is your current wife? Did you too discuss the possibility of you having a second wife when you were courting? |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Anthony0094(m): 11:10pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
sgtponzihater:Your first wife go be like TFY |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 11:12pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Kobicove: About 28yrs. Didn't discuss with her but she is aware my grandparents and parents were polygamous |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
sgtponzihater:Go with bulletproof vest |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Kobicove(m): 11:21pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
sgtponzihater: Just 28 and you want to replace her already? I think it's rather too early |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Antina(f): 11:26pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
jmichlins: "I am tired of straffing the same lady everyday and need a new perspective". ...reason i said he is selfish. He is not getting a second wife cos she has bad attitudes. I repeat, some men and selfishness is 5 & 6. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by HARDDON: 11:30pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Antina: Dont ur religion support it? He can marry as much as he does ish wish. Ur husby wud do same too.......it flows in za bloodzzz |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by Antina(f): 11:38pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
HARDDON: Yes! My religion support it with do's and don't. But his own reason(s) for marrying a second wife is purely selfishness. |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by HARDDON: 11:40pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Antina: Selfishness is always d reason deary. Foget d sugar coat of any other reason. Very tender Fresh bloodz is d logo 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by fuckboys: 11:44pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Antina:i don't understand you , you're a Muslim and I'm sure your father married more than one wife. What's the biggie here now, so your father too was selfish shey? |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by mizzytan(m): 11:50pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
You're saying "how can I tell my wife I need more problem". Your home will be filled with hate,jealousy etc |
Re: How Can I Inform My Wife That I Need Another Wife by HARDDON: 11:54pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Op, whatever you decide to do is your ish. But might i techically throw a few ponder points? 1. Do you know that 2 is a company , 3 is a crowd? 2. Do u know that your life cant ever be same again if u marry a secnd? The bond btw u n ur 1st wud literally be shattered to accommodate another 3. Do you know that this fresh wine that is shacking u, wud soon turn stale n u wud naturally go in search of another fresh one soon? This is like a program loop..once deployed, it neva ends. 4. Do u know that if any of them is troublesome, your life span wud be cut short drastically? 5. R u financially viable to give the best to ur kids or u just wano bring them on here to suffer like almajiri's. A d1ck that is matured enuf to fvck more varieties, must be ready enuf to weep more wetness 6. Do u know that even if first wify agrees, she might become depressed , withdraw? Hate u? If you can ansa all these Qs without breaking a pulse, then i can assure you, u already know what to tell ha 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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