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Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by dailyfamilyng: 10:34am On Apr 12, 2017
MAN SET TO DIVORCE IS WIFE BECAUSE SHE LIED SHE WAS A VIRGIN BEFORE THEIR WEDDING

– Austin Eromosele
A Man plans to divorce his wife after just six months of marriage because she lied to him that she was a virgin when they were dating.
A 36 year old man, named Jerry is at a point of divorcing his wife because she lied to him during courtship that she was a virgin. This has generated a whole lot of controversy in the social media.
Jerry is sad today because his wife lied to him about her being a virgin, and he said in his letter that he wouldn’t have mind but for the fact that his wife manipulated her into marriage using virginity tactics.
Below is the letter he wrote to pulse recently.

“Dear Pulse,
My name is Jerry, a 36-year-old man living and working in Lagos. I got married six months ago but right now, I’m full of regret and I want to end it all.
The reason for my disillusionment stems from the fact that my wife, Martha, lied to me that she was a virgin when we met and refused to allow us to have sex till we got married.
But after we got married, I found out that she was not even close to being a virgin but very experienced in the sex game who had had many sexual partners in the past.
I met Martha when she started worshiping in our church where I was the head usher. Our church doctrine is such that you had to inform the pastor if you were interested in a woman and such relationships must always lead to marriage or it would not be approved.
When Martha came to join the church, her zeal was so great as she joined almost all the departments and was always a reference point.
One thing that stood her out was her carriage and charisma and many of us guys were scared of getting close to her but I summoned the courage and made my intentions known to her.
I also informed the pastor that I wanted to marry her and thus began our courtship. In the course of our courtship, Martha told me she was a virgin and wanted to remain so until her wedding night.
I was pleasantly surprised that a mature, beautiful and brilliant lady like that would remain a virgin despite the temptation out there and that made me even love her the more and hasten our marriage plans.
We got married after five months of courtship but I was shocked on our first night when I discovered that my wife was not what she claimed she was. Not that I would have minded but that lie alone has really put me off her and I don’t think I can ever trust her again.
She has confessed that she only lied to me because she thought I only wanted to use and dump her like other men in the past but how can I live with a woman who manipulated me into marrying her?


http://www.dailyfamily.ng/man-set-divorce-wife-lied-virgin-wedding/
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by slimmdree(m): 10:38am On Apr 12, 2017
Reason why it must be done before marriage......

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Davash222(m): 10:39am On Apr 12, 2017
dailyfamilyng:
MAN SET TO DIVORCE IS WIFE BECAUSE SHE LIED SHE WAS A VIRGIN BEFORE THEIR WEDDING
The reason for my disillusionment stems from the fact that my wife, Martha, lied to me that she was a virgin when we met and refused to allow us to have sex till we got married.
Oga jerry, you believed Martha You thought she's virgin mary.
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by newyorks(m): 10:40am On Apr 12, 2017
who virgin epp?
guess u have a money tree where u can easily embrace and pluck another money on marriage rites.
bros just debit it one place and move on with her until u caught her cheating, perhaps u've been enjoying her for the said six months.
#TEAMSEXB4MARRIAGE#

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by modelsms(m): 10:43am On Apr 12, 2017
slimmdree:
Reason why it must be done before marriage......
Waiting for them to come and stone you.

Check signature pls
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Erngie(f): 10:44am On Apr 12, 2017
That woman is full of deceit. I'm sure he rushed the marriage process because he heard virgin. maybe if he had waited a little longer he would have found out the truth. When it comes to marriage don't rush it, take your time and involve God 100%

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 12, 2017
wetin go happen now!!

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Epositive(m): 10:46am On Apr 12, 2017
anotherydz:
wetin go happen now!!
you still dey ask ni? undecided

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by slimmdree(m): 10:48am On Apr 12, 2017
keep waiting my brother
modelsms:

Waiting for them to come and stone you.

Check signature pls
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Epositive(m): 10:49am On Apr 12, 2017
slimmdree:
Reason why it must be done before marriage......

maybe not smiley, reason why you have no cause to lie about your virginity status grin

Lie wrecks relationships , drowns marriages smiley

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by oloriooko(m): 10:52am On Apr 12, 2017
Why is this virgin thing pinned on women alone, what about the guys?
The woman is being victimized for no just cause.
Did the guy reveal his virginity to her before marriage?

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by ifex370(m): 10:53am On Apr 12, 2017
newyorks:
who virgin epp?
guess u have a money tree where u can easily embrace and pluck another money on marriage rites.
bros just debit it one place and move on with her until u caught her cheating, perhaps u've been enjoying her for the said six months.
#TEAMSEXB4MARRIAGE#



Bros.. May God add more sense on top the one wey de already..


But sex before marriage isn't good tho

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by blackylola(m): 10:54am On Apr 12, 2017
Manage her like that even our president Buhari lied to us. Happy married life bro

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by sisisioge: 10:55am On Apr 12, 2017
Whew! Oga Jerry is not joking o. I have been in court before and witnessed a man petitioned the court for divorce based on the premises of the virgin lie. It was comic while he described the whole thing but he was actually a pained man.


All cards on the table folks...all cards on the table folks.

Biko Oga Jerry take am easy. Try to court her again to see if you could jive. No vex o.
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by newyorks(m): 11:00am On Apr 12, 2017
ifex370:




Bros.. May God add more sense on top the one wey de already..


But sex before marriage isn't good tho
u too dude.most people hides their siege under the unbrella of no sex b4 marriage.

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Xcelinteriors(f): 11:13am On Apr 12, 2017
Divorce her. Why not tell the man the plain truth and if he leave another man that will accept you will come. Divorce the idiot jare, let her go and start from square one
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by xband: 11:23am On Apr 12, 2017
You mean you've been enjoying her for the past 6month, and all of a sudden, you wanna divorce her because she lied about her virginity. Man, you most be high on expired drugs.

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by ifex370(m): 11:23am On Apr 12, 2017
newyorks:
u too dude.most people hides their siege under the unbrella of no sex b4 marriage.


So the man married her cos one of his goals in life was to screw a live virgin and not cos he loves her..


What a psycho sad
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by NwannekaUloma(f): 11:29am On Apr 12, 2017
The problem is not that she isn't a virgin

But for the fact she lied she was a virgin

Why and why would u lied abt ur virginity to a man who is in a serious relationship and ready to settle down with you..

That's not fair angry angry

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by newyorks(m): 1:47pm On Apr 12, 2017
ifex370:



So the man married her cos one of his goals in life was to screw a live virgin and not cos he loves her..


What a psycho sad
na who go ask?
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by jashar(f): 2:59pm On Apr 12, 2017
I'm a big advocate of NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE, but then I see no need to lie about being a virgin.

If you're not a virgin, why the lie? You don't owe any man the explanation for your actions. Just sort yourself out with God and sin no more.

I think what's paining him is the fact that she lied; not that she's not a virgin.

Ermm.... but why after 6 months sef?
undecided
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 12, 2017
serves him right!
virgin hunter angry
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Chubhie: 11:03pm On Apr 12, 2017
Look to the bright side BroStar.The SisStar you got married to in your very own words is- "matured,brilliant and beautiful"

Would've acknowledged you as a principled brostar if you had "raised alarm" the very first night the deceit was uncovered.
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Chubhie: 11:16pm On Apr 12, 2017
jashar:


If you're not a virgin, why the lie?

Only the accused sistar can effectively answer such question. We might need an appreciation of how biology and society pushed some matured brilliant and beautify lady to broker a lifelong deal on false premise to better understand her condition.
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by jmoore(m): 12:36am On Apr 13, 2017
If I ordered for a tear rubber and a tokunbo was delivered to me, is that not fraud?

If na me, I will divorce her the next day.
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by SolexxBarry(m): 8:00am On Apr 13, 2017
This is a big blow to the marriage,a relationship that is built on lies and deciet cannot stand the test of time.
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Nobody: 10:33am On Apr 13, 2017
jashar:
I'm a big advocate of NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE, but then I see no need to lie about being a virgin.

If you're not a virgin, why the lie? You don't owe any man the explanation for your actions. Just sort yourself out with God and sin no more.

I think what's paining him is the fact that she lied; not that she's not a virgin.

Ermm.... but why after 6 months sef?
undecided



Errr you yourself, you are not a virgin oh. Senior Advocate of Nigeria tongue
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by jashar(f): 11:24am On Apr 13, 2017
cruchenuti:


Errr you yourself, you are not a virgin oh. Senior Advocate of Nigeria tongue

undecided because i was your last hook up shey?

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

Iranu.... trash for LAWMA

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Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Rukkydelta(f): 5:53pm On Apr 13, 2017
Funny dude
You got what you deserved after sampling lot of ladies you want fresh brand new girl.
If you aren't a virgin yourself why don't you forgive her and work on your marriage unless it's cos of the virginity you got married to her in the first place
virgins deserve virgins and not fuckboys and runs girls
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by fuckboys: 6:08pm On Apr 13, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Funny dude
You got what you deserved after sampling lot of ladies you want fresh brand new girl.
If you aren't a virgin yourself why don't you forgive her and work on your marriage unless it's cos of the virginity you got married to her in the first place
virgins deserve virgins and not fuckboys and runs girls
so what she did is now right and justifiable?
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by Rukkydelta(f): 6:13pm On Apr 13, 2017
fuckboys:
so what she did is now right and justifiable?
I'm not saying she's right but the man isn't a saint either
All I am saying is that they trash out the issue and continue with their marriage in peace
Divorce isn't always the option. What's the assurance the next Lady he will get married to will be better than her
Sorry dear didn't intend to mention you
Re: Man Set To Divorce Is Wife Because She Lied She Was Virgin Before Their Wedding by fuckboys: 6:41pm On Apr 13, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I'm not saying she's right but the man isn't a saint either
All I am saying is that they trash out the issue and continue with their marriage in peace
Divorce isn't always the option. What's the assurance the next Lady he will get married to will be better than her
Sorry dear didn't intend to mention you
so the marriage should be based on lies and deceit?
Imagine after getting married and your husband tells you he's HIV positive, are you gonna continue with the marriage cos your next husband might be worse?

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