There is a story of a woman who has been married for five years now and they are still expectating to have children. They have done all the medical test and there is nothing wrong with her and the husband.  But age is not on their side.

And few months back, she decided to further her education abraod in other to aviod humilation from in-laws and people around and it was with the support the her husband and opportuniy to travel abroad.  She has gained admission, entery clearance and she is expected to travel any time from now.  The problem now is that the family(in-laws) are asking the woman to choose between her marriage and her career.

First off why is she going abroad to study? is her husband based abroad? or is she leaving her man behind to further her education? what is wrong with furthering her education in nigeria? what has studying abroad got to do with her inlaws humiliating her? how long does she thing she's going to run away for?

choicehome:

The problem now is that the family(in-laws) are asking the woman to choose between her marriage and her career.

Then tell her to do just that. It's either she wants to remain married or not, finito!

i mean. if they have been trying to have kids and its not happening she might as well use her time wisely. i mean afterall GOds time is the best. and these days visa is hard toget. soo if she got something to go abroad to read they should see is it as an opportunity rather than something negative.

Answer me truthfully.

If she doesn't bring forth a child will her Naija man stay with her or will he plant his seed around until one takes then cast her aside?

Maybe he will stay true to her for a while but in the end he will want a child and he will move on.

She is best to use her time now to make sure she can support herself when she is alone again.

Also many men from other countries are not like Naija men and wont throw away love because of no child.

It is always blamed on the woman if a child doesn't come. I say go and take this opportunity and if the man can further himself as well all good.

You Go Girl

Maybe her priorities are spot on. Look after her future.

Her inlaws ke? Do they get a vote on the matter?

choicehome:

There is a story of a woman who has been married for five years now and they are still expectating to have children. They have done all the medical test and there is nothing wrong with her and the husband.  But age is not on their side.

And few months back, she decided to further her education abraod in other to aviod humilation from in-laws and people around and it was with the support the her husband and opportuniy to travel abroad.  She has gained admission, entery clearance and she is expected to travel any time from now.  The problem now is that the family(in-laws) are asking the woman to choose between her marriage and her career.

Open and close case.The woman is clearly and without doubt leaving the man and marriage.