99 percent of us women are not qualified to make an unhealthy man healthy. We don’t have the expertise, we don’t have the ability, and we don’t have the capacity. Unfortunately, we women have a deep sited belief that if a man really loves and cares about us, he will change and that our love has this magical ability to rehabilitate him.

Many women are attracted to unhealthy men. They have this bad boy attracted which is a perception of strength. We can mistake meanness or cruelty as strength and that’s just a misconception. Many women with low self -worth are attracted to and stay with unhealthy men. The woman will engage with him as if that is what she deserves. 
An unhealthy man will not challenge your ability to receive. It will fit right in with how little you think you ought to get. But if you want to be in a relationship where you are very needed and where you want to give and give and give even if it isn’t valued, you will be comfortable being in a relationship with an unhealthy man.
A healthy man on the under hand will challenge your ability to receive because of his generosity.  You will be challenged to keep expanding your ability to receive and be a more gracious receiver
Characteristics of Unhealthy Men:
1) He won’t care what you need. He doesn’t care whether you are warm, cold, fed, sleepy, sick or tired. He won’t pay any attention to what you need. He won’t look for what you need. He won’t care about what you need. He may even invalidate them

A healthy man on the other hand responds to what you need. He wants to provide for you what you need.

2) An unhealthy man will attack you when you are happy, he will criticize you when you are happy, he will try to squash your happiness. An unhealthy man wants to be the sole source of your happiness. He will try to control the amount of time you spend on things that make you happy. He will try to eliminate them from your life. He doesn’t just want to be the center of your life but the whole of your life and will eliminate your other sources of happiness. 

A healthy man wants you to be happy. A healthy man is uplifted by your happiness. He is better off by you being happy.  A healthy man supports you in doing the things that make you happy. He wants you to have people in your life that make you happy. He wants you to have passions in your life that make you happy; he wants you to engage in activities that make you happy
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