Busta:

Hint to the guy that'll marry

U better be fully loaded

Busta:

Hint to the guy that'll marry

U better be fully loaded

LMAO

@Topic, who no like good thing? But seriously not all women go for rich guys but he has to be able to take care of himself and provide even if just a lil for his lady.

HH:

@white`Nkem
call it cash benefit investment if it sounds better,

sistawoman:

Why do you guys think that we simply want what is in your wallet? Money is not on the top of the list for most girls. If a girl works and makes her own money they why not should the guy also work and make his own money.

I don't want a man that i have to support, if i can't claim you on my taxes then i will not be supporting you. I have three children that i raise on my own and don't need another grown ass man to support.

I can't stand this idea that men think we want a rich guy. Not all women are golddiggers, we just want a brotha that can hold his own, one that can be leaned on and lean on us. If we are not evenly yoked then there is a problem and resentment can easily start creep in.

Every other thread i have read this am is about brotha supporting women. That is not the main factor in determining a mate. Stop looking at chickenheads and look for a quality woman that has her own.

Why is it that the chickenheads always wind up with the good men?

I look very good

and it takes money to maintain my beauty!

buzyDiva:

Spot on . . .Very well said!!

then again . . i keep saying this. . "ME, I am very allergic to poverty" I look very good and it takes money to maintain my beauty.!!!!!

~Xerxes~:

Boyfriends are investment to women because of various ways men have been scammed to believe women should be treated like princesses.
Scams like if a man is a gentleman, he'll pay for me.

Acting as a woman's version of a "gentleman" is an excellent example of how men are brainwashed by women to fulfill their self-serving interests.

Mothers train their sons to buy into this scam at an early age, teaching them to treat women like goddesses and to pay for female company without question.
No man should allow himself to become a doormat for female whims, and no man should have to pay for a woman earning as much as he is.

buzyDiva:

Xerxes . . I will divorce u o?
u sound stingy

leeroywill:

In short,i hate Nigerian girls!!!

P.S. You cannot divorce me.

buzyDiva:


@ Xerxes,

u'll be very surprised.

Come and ask my boyfriend . . he will tell u
am not saying that men should foot the whole bill and all that and blah blah blah
but alot of u guys need to take note behind your heads that "not all girls are after u for money" . . some of u sef don't have kobo.

amber_ella:

@xerxes

There is no equality. Yes, us women earn paychecks just like you men. But then we have to come home and do a second full-time job - taking care of husbands and children.

Equality? What a joke.

I conclude that dating is an investment for the MEN and us women are getting screwed.

~Xerxes~:

That is not the point!!!

The point is women cook up loads of excuses like men earn more than the women for the same job, it costs more to be a woman, if u don't pay for me u are cheap, it's just nice and expected and whoever asks for the date should pay.

Sure it's nice -- I'd like someone to give me door-to-door chauffeur service, bring me presents, and pay for my dinner and entertainment, all for the possibility of sex, but with no obligation whatsoever. Let's be honest; if MEN did this, we'd be in jail for fraud.

amber_ella:

@xerxes

There is no equality.  Yes, us women earn paychecks just like you men.  But then we have to come home and do a second full-time job - taking care of husbands and children.

Equality?  What a joke.

I conclude that dating is an investment for the MEN and us women are getting screwed.

eldee:

I thought you lot were all about financial independence?

amber_ella:

Ha, it's funny you should mention it because I work on pay equity and the gender wage gap for the government.

But anyway, I'm not saying that equality shouldn't exist.  I'm saying that it doesn't exist in most homes.
Until you men are doing laundry and dishes and changing diapers just as much as your wives, you have no right to whine and complain when you pay for our dates!

eldee:

Never even thought of that part of it before
Seriously, I won't mind that kind of enjoyment.
You even forgot the unexpected presents, think of the presents you'll get just because the weather was good

amber_ella:

@xerxes

I don't think you understood my point.

I'm not interested in discussing the gender wage gap.

What I said is that equality does not exist as long as men expect their wives to feed them.