I am in love with a girl that my family don't like a bit, my family have used all the weapon in their arsenal to stop us from seeing. though it worked, but my heart is still joined with hers, when ever i pretend that all is well with my feeling, and want to have a new date, i alway find myself going to square zero. i am finding it difficult to date another girl, i have decided to start seeing her secretly without their knowledge. what do you think?

what are your family members concern what do they see or not see that makes them think she is not right for you.

By the way how old are you? and why do you still need your family approval before you date a girl?

i am the only male, and i am 29

well what about my other questions

you are too old to still need approval from your familia to date a girl short of her being a know hooker or someone who has a really bad reputation in your community, i reconsider being with her. Even if she is a known hooker, only you know what you see in her and that should be enough so go date just dont knock her up

i live in a family house, when ever she comes to the house anything she does is an offense in the site. i can't pretend all is well any more

its better you leave her ,she got bad reputation in your neighborhood,she may be bad