Am always rest assured that this site will proffer an answer to my question. As an introvert I used to love this girl during my undergraduate years then when we we were together I was in level two while she was in level one. We dated for a year. It would have been longer but I was fooled into believing we both were not meant for each other. So she cut ties with me. Ever since then I find it hard to love or even develop any feelings for any lady. Which is why i am asking this my co-nairalanders what do I need to do to start living a normal life again and stopped being emotionally attached to this girl.