Victor and Juliet have been in a romantic relationship for two years. Unknown to Victor, his beloved Juliet is a  call girl.
Although doctors have confirmed that Juliet is two months pregnant for him, the shock and betrayal of his discovery that the woman he has planned to spend the rest of his life with is a love-peddler made him become evasive.
He bolted and disappeared into thin air, afraid of what his family may say when they finally find out that the woman  he loves isn’t the decent girl he made them believe.

As he sits in the darkness of the dingy hotel room he has rented, he ponders over his relationship with Juliet-how could he have been blinded with love that he refused to listen to the repeated warnings from Charles, his best friend, that his girlfriend bore resemblance to a love-peddler he once shared a night of passion with while serving in Zamfara State.
How could he face his friends, colleagues and family members he had told of his wedding plans?  To worsen his dilemma, he is still in love with Juliet.

Should he go ahead, marry Juliet and live with the stigma or should he remain in hiding and forsake Juliet and the unborn baby?
What will you do if you were in his shoes? And if you are a member of his family, will you encourage him to marry the girl knowing she is a love-peddler?

Marry her of course— Victor Osuagwu, Actor

Whether she’s a call girl or love-peddler right now doesn’t count anymore. There are other things that should be given great attention now. And the first one is that he’s in love with the lady in question. Secondly, this same lady is pregnant for him which means she’s fruitful enough to bear children.

The third one is that this woman is equally willing to begin a new life, if not she won’t tell him about the pregnancy. So, there’s no big deal. I want him to come out from his hiding place and boldly take his beloved to the altar.
Right now, the woman we’re talking about needs plenty of attention so that she can feel loved, which will also help to rehabilitate her.

As for the stigma, that one will only last for a short while and people will forget all about it as long as she’s really willing to come out of  her old life.

Even the heavens will rejoice with the young man for restoring one soul. Most people who turn a new leaf  like this woman we’re talking about are more determined to make a difference than those who call themselves saints. I can assure you that the possibility that she’ll go back to her old life is very thin. My advice for this young man whether as a friend or brother is that he should be bold enough to take this woman as his wife if he’s really in love with her.


She can always have a new life — Rose Okafor, Model

The fact that she’s a call girl today doesn’t mean she can never be a better human being tomorrow if she’s given the opportunity. It will be amazing to know what value she could add to humanity if she’s given a new orientation in life. If my brother is in love with a call girl and is willing to marry her, then I’ll not stop him from marrying her because it’s his life, happiness and future.
Whether my parents, me or any other person is happy about it or not, is not important here. What matters most is that he’s happy. So he should come out from his hiding and go ahead to marry his beloved.


Certify her medically okay and marry her — Scott Robert, Actor

I’ll not hesitate to marry her, especially if I’m still in love with her and can’t get her off my head.
I want you to understand that not many women enjoy going into prostitution. Most of them are in it because of one need or another. Yes, many people may say that they should have found something else to do but they may have tried other things which failed.
I want to advise this man we’re talking about to go ahead and marry his beloved, despite the fact that she’s a call girl because if I were in his shoes, I’ll do same.

I’ll take her to the hospital for medical check ups and marry her. Don’t you think that the reason she’s keeping the pregnancy is because she loves me as well? Again, if she wasn’t determined to leave the streets, she’ll not be thinking of having a baby.

Marry her, simple— Ngozi Philips, Student

One thing people fail to realise is that many love-peddlers are willing to have a new life, only if they have the opportunity. Let me ask you one question, how many women with good jobs can go into prostitution? Do you think it’s easy to do prostitution? Call girls are women with big hearts and not too many people can do it.If he’s my brother, I won’t stop him from marrying this lady, simple.


It may be difficult for me — Guy P, Musician

Men! This one tough …o! If the girl still dey love-peddler, how I wan believe say na me give am the belle? But on a more serious note, it will be difficult for me to marry a call girl for so many reasons, one of them being that most call girls find it difficult to leave the business because they consider it lucrative. She could have found something else to do. Why did she have to choose trading her body for money?

On the contrary, if she has resigned this profession, only for me to discover she was in it, but she’s ready to spend the rest of her life with me, then I’ll marry her if I love her. Because every one of us has a past.

H'mmmmm!!!!!!!!!!! what do you think?


By Bridget Amaraegbu
Vanguard Newspaper of 22.01.2010

Too voluminous for me to read up. Not that I am lazy but I have exams. Besides, I wount marry at all, much less a call girl. However, Imaobong sosono eti eti.

i wont even if UCLA hospital certify her HIV free~

Even if she can bear 10 kids at a time, i wont marry her coz if i forgive her i won't 4get it and it'll make me sad at dat time. So i won't marry a call-girl for any reason.

the fact that she lied for so long about who she truly is would be too much to bare and i would have to break up with this person that i dont really know.
HONESTY is very important in my world and since she wasnt then i dont think i could ever forgive her.

also, if she WAS an ashawo in the past then it would have been a different story as i could never blame her for something that happened in her past but the fact that she is still working the trade would be a definite NO NO for me.

I would forgive anyone that is willing to change their ways - in the future, if I feel she's the one. But at that point in time, after discovering it - NO.

I don't mind marry a call girl if she is going to be a good wife for me

some men can go ahead and marry her
but for me the light is off instantly

@poster,

, and who told u that (un)called girls are better wifey?

What a thread ,Just too long. I wouldnt marry an ex call girl for anything. "innocent me"

THIS IS VERY FUNNY. BEFORE REPLYING TO THIS POST I KNEW THAT 99.9% OF WOMEN WOULD WANT THE GUY TO MARRY HER WHILE THE SAME PERCENTAGE OF GUYS WILL REFUSE.

THIS IS MY PIECE.

WAS SHE STILL PRACTICING BY THE TIME HE FOUND OUT? IF YES THEN HE SHOULD NOT MARRY HER BUT MUST BEAR SOME RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE CHILD ONCE HE ASCERTAINS IT IS HIS.

IF SHE HAD STOPPED BY THE TIME SHE STARTED DATING HIM AND IF SHE TRULY LOVES HIM THEN HE SHOULD GO AHEAD AND MARRY HER BUT BE PREPARED FOR THE STIGMA, TALK AND ALL THE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT WILL FOLLOW.

sure i would marry her if we love each other

Come to think of it guys in here.what is the difference between our so-called girlfriends and these call girls,probably because the call gurls stay on the road or hotels while your gurlfrnd is likely to have another guys alongside you.anyways,i wont marry an ashewo gurl for any reason because she sold out her dignity.

This thing about beign a scarlett woman or a gigolo is an addiction. Guys make una ever try dis mistake. Anything wey snake born dey always long like snake. Once an ashewo, always an ashewo forever. Na who don take palm oil cook for dog make im shit white? All the same, na black e go be.

my opinion:

overgo all the guessing games of

whether she's changed or not?
whether she's still practising or not?
whether she's been with a gazillion men?
whether she's got other kids you don't know about?
whether she's aborted before and how many times,
whether she's gonna cheat on you in the future if you get her mad. duh??
whether she can be trusted with your next door neighbor?
whether she's gonna bring shame to your name?

Imagine these questions running through your mind for a lifetime. Go for peace of mind instead. You may forgive her and marry her but at the back of your mind you may never trust her or value her(This is the problem with a lot of marriages)

Solution: Get a confirmed decent and God-fearing girl (Yes, they are everywhere)

A lot of ladies on this forum will say, forget about it and just go ahead because people change.
Sorry to burst your bubble but thats not the case. So many women think that they can live a wayward life in their youth and still find a willing husband at the end of the day. You should see them filling the front rows of the church praying and fasting for a good man when all the bad guys that used and dumped them will not even have anything to do with them.
Now they finally retire from a wayward life by resting it all on a good but naive man who doesnt know that his wife has been passed around all the corners of Lagos and beyond. Why should the good man settle for the bad guys leftovers?

Go for a lady you can trust whose past wont give you hypertension anytime shes away from you. Be warned.

PurestBoy:

@poster,

, and who told u that (un)called girls are better wifey?

@Rooneyboy

the question is not abt if an (un)called girl will make a better wife? its very simple, will you marry a called girl for any reason? Just like asking UBA or First Bank if they can hire a 419'er or an ex con-man.

that luv will die instantly. call girl? mba. i willl forgive her for not telling me her past, but i'll not marry her cos the stigma still lingers on, don't know abt u, bt it's hard, ashawo
bt the pregnancy? wot will make the guy in question do it before marraige self, it's his cross he shd bare it

Everyone is saying "No" cos you know she is a call girl. what if you do not know? Do you know what your women do when you are not there? She might just have a reason. I wont judge with her just yet. There are other women who are not call girls that live worse lives than call girls.

as for me, is NO, cos i dont wanna go down there. though i wont reject d unborn baby

hnmmmm,

didn't worth, she sud have come out plain be the pregnancy issue, she sud not use that as a way to tie him down.

take care of your child if you cant go down with her, but no difference with her and a girl that has gone for twenty man before marriage,

if she becomes a madame maybe because iwill have unlimited girl supply lol joking

if i love her, i will

call girl. love-peddler whatever. IT IS A NO!

The past won't go away, after she has been with so many men? WTF

LOL at some of the responses especially even if UCLA certifies her negative

Only one question for the poster.
how did u find out she is a call girl? The fact that a girl had a fling one lonely night with a stranger, or the fact that a girl collected payment (maybe to solve a pressing need) to sleep with a stranger  does not make her a call girl. Your freind spent a nite with her in zamfara where she was probably doing her youth service and was either broke or lonely.


Now to answer the question.
yes I would marry her. provided I have known her for at least six mnths. and provided i am very sure she has been pure all that while and the child is most likely mine.

Nope.

[b]To start with, we have all sinned and fall short of God's glory!.  Besides, all sins are equal and bears equal punishment - he who has never sinned, let them cast the first stone, period!

Be you a prostitute o o , murder o o , an arm robber o o, a 419 o o, a rapist o o, a liar o o , a false witness o o, dis-respecting your parents o o or whatever, once you break the TEN COMMANDMENT you are a sinner so don't judge others! Whatever led her into that kind of lifestyle we might not know but it must have a lot to do with necessity and poverty! We all have to survive somehow!

So, go ahead and marry your women, irrespective of what anyone think or says - It's your life so, do what you please with it! You see, that's why, Oyibo people seem to have much easier life than we do.  We live our lives worrying about what others might think of us but, I say who cares if you drop dead here, no one!  And there you are worrying about what people might say, their gossips and sniggering about you and your Mrs please, don't worry about these people! Bear this in mind, good or bad people will talk about you.  It's human nature!

Therefore go live your happy life, sooner or latter when things gets better, the same people will come creeping and a-se leaking their way to you, seeking favours. 

As for your family, stand your ground and tell them eye ball to eye ball, that you are in-love with this woman, she is your choice and your choice only. If they love you and want your happiness, they must love your dog too else, they should forget about you, simple!  Obviously, your family would prefer to keep you than lose you.

This is why Oyibo life is quite different from ours.  When they are in-love with someone (sinner or righteous?) just forget it! And for our people, they would usually say na juju i tek holam!
This is usually because, we lack understanding of the needs of our family members and the simple things that makes one happy.  After all, what do we strive in life for? At the end of the day, is it not to be loved and be happy? To be respected, to be listened to, to feel that we are the centre of our partners life. What else could we possibly want in a relationship? That's what we mean when speak about love!  To that I say, if you are in-love buddy, go for it!
 
Based on their experiences, I think prostitutes are conversant in their interactions with men and seem to understand them more therefore, would make good wives than most of us as they'd seen it all.  And to crown this, your woman, has also shown her fertility - she is capable of bearing you, children which is what marriage is mainly all about and I believe, most Nigerian girls can't even swear by that nowadays.  Most have damaged their wombs through frequent abortions and men who unfortunately married them, end up worrying why their young wives are unable to conceive. So boy, take your lot and run!!!!  

Go ahead, marry the woman you're in-love with and look after your young family.

Good luck![/b]

Do you mean an ex-call girl or an active one

Whilst I would have a problem with the deciet, if I had known from the get go that she was a call girl, with the emphasis on 'WAS' I would have no problem with marrying her afterall she is still human and na condition dey mek crayfish back bend.

To
Theblessed
A very insightful answer as always, more grease to ya elbow my dear. . . .

I believe Victor have slept with alot of call-girls too, in fact, sleeping around is a very practiced hobby over here, and call-girls are gettin numerous day after day,

anyway, he made her pregnant, no matter how he feels, he should think about the soul he is to bring to life.
Good Luck