i just lost my mum to death,i can't even xplain how i feel,its like my whole world has come to an abrupt end,she was my everything,always there for me,i find it difficult to sleep again,i don't know what to do,pls my fellow nairalanders how do i scale through this? cos this is the worst thing to ever happen to me,i still find it difficult to believe,i was told to write a tribute to her today while at it my tears damaged the writing pad and then it dawned on me that i won't see her again,i'll give anything to have her back,can someone please tell me what to do.

sorry , take heart
she has gone to be with the Lord (i hope); in the end thats the only thing that really matters
take heart dear cocoa

i know exactly what you are going through and only time will heal the pain that you are feeling right now.

i hope that you are around family members so that you can help each other get through this difficult moment together.

let your mum know all the things that you forgot to tell her while she was here through prayers.
she is there with you, you just cant feel her there.

cherish the family/people that are still here with you and dont forget to let them know everyday how much you care/love them as we never know when our time is up.

freecocoa:

i just lost my mum to death,i can't even xplain how i feel,its like my whole world has come to an abrupt end,she was my everything,always there for me,i find it difficult to sleep again,i don't know what to do,pls my fellow nairalanders how do i scale through this? cos this is the worst thing to ever happen to me,i still find it difficult to believe,i was told to write a tribute to her today while at it my tears damaged the writing pad and then it dawned on me that i won't see her again,i'll give anything to have her back,can someone please tell me what to do.

the truth is such pain will only take time and God's mercies to heal, i will just say take ur heart felt pain to God daily and let him heal u. sorry to hear about ur lost.

awwwwwwwwwwwww take heart,

just try as much as possible to make her proud while looking down at you by being who she'd loved you to be

Free,

I am so sorry. It is never easy to loose one's parent. At this difficult time, I will pray that God will pull you close and help you bear your loss. As time passes, the pain will get easier to deal with.

awwww .am soooo sad right now for you. take heart and be strong.it gets better as time goes on even though it's going to be very hard nothing will ever replace your loss and nothing we say will make everything alright. just let God be your guide in such a hard time.i lost a little brother also and know how it feels, you're in my prayers

My condolence to u. Lost my pops man recently too & know wat d feeling is like. Keep reassuring urself dat she has left d troubles of dis world and is in a better place now. If u have got younger ones, rememba they wuld be looking up to u in this trying time and try to be an encouragemnt to them. Wit time, u'ld get over it. Be strong.

My condolences to you.

May her soul rest in peace and May God grant you the strenght to bear the loss.

call this #--it would make you a lot better

080-i am so sorry,190 extends his sympathy to you~marry me and i'll make u better

be sure to have enough credit on your cell phone

Take heart dear, i know d loss might seem insurmountable right now ('ve been there too) but not to worry "time heals" however u do need sum1 to talk to/ a shoulder to lean on - talk to your friend dont bottle tins up.

God will see you through.

My dear, May God be with you and your family in this deep moment of grief

@freecocoa

Sister take heart, u have to be strong for her.

unban190:

call this #--it would make you a lot better

080-i am so sorry,190 extends his sympathy to you~marry me and i'll make u better

be sure to have enough credit on your cell phone

dude! ! ! are u out of ur ignorant mind? what part of she is hurting and this is not a time for jokes dont u understand?

its a pity that this has to come now that u needed her most, i really understand how u feel at the moment. Be assured that God knows why it should come at this period, prayers is what u owe her now.Accept my deepest heart felt condolence my dear sweet friend. i will give u a call later when am a bit free. take good care of yourself, Ch,

080-i am so sorry,190 extends his sympathy to you~marry me and i'll make u better

is there a particular reason why you think she'd be joking about her mum dying?

My condolences to u n ur family. May God give u the strength to bear ur loss.

Please rememba there are those around who still love u n who u still love. Take comfort that the love u n she shared can still be shared around as her legacy.

tpia.:

is there a particular reason why you think she'd be joking about her mum dying?

the thing tire me.

Sorry bout dat. I've lost my mom too. Mothers are like no other.
Let me tell u d truth. Time never erases the pain. U just have to accept it.
For me, its a cross i have to carry.

Do Not Be Ignorant,Sister;She isn't dead:Rather,She Sleepth . . . . . .All her labors and struggles have ended,and now she is resting.YOU WILL SEE HER AGAIN. It is well with you.You have to be strong,for you are yet to reach your destination.It's not the End Of You;Rather,it is the Beginning Of Your Rising.

@Poster, I am very sorry for your loss.

this thread made me cry, there is nothing like a mother oh I feel your pain God will help you through it all, its death no one can escape it

Sweet mother. . . .I no go forget you, for this suffer wey you suffer for me. . . .

Sorry about the great loss. Time is surely a healer. Make sure you are around friends and family at the moment. . . .who can walk you through these moments of sadness.

Make your mum proud, as you are proud of her at the moment. May God enlarge your heart to accept this great loss and be greater than your mum. Take heart my dear.

omo~ make una shut una diffy moufs up~

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Sweet mother. . . .I no go forget you, for this suffer wey you suffer for me. . . .

Sorry about the great loss. Time is surely a healer. Make sure you are around friends and family at the moment. . . .who can walk you through these moments of sadness.

Make your mum proud, as you are proud of her at the moment. May God enlarge your heart to accept this great loss and be greater than your mum. Take heart my dear.

Wish I could give you a hug and make you smile

@All tanx for ur encouragement,am rily grateful.God bless u all.

Wow, girl. . . .that's so sad.

Take it easy and give it time, you'll be just fine. Feel free to cry and let out all your emotions, don't hold anything in.

May her soul rest in perfect peace.

Very sorry oh, may her soul rest in peace.

Everybody say Amen to dat.