We started the relatioship on the 12th of august,2012.was in my final year then(my first ever girlfriend).

Things didnt went right because she cheat alot.I forgive and forget every of her sinful act due to the love i have for her.

I could recall i came back home from service with my last 2month allowee(the last we are been paid by the fed govt),meaning i try to please her with my last kobo.

In the process of her decietful act,she was impregnated by another guy. That leads to the end of the relationship.

So painful but life goes on..
I started as a pry sch teacher,try to gather something(thanks to God am now my boss with varieties of business). Not a millionaire but am comfortable and also have people who depend on me for a living(employee) .meaning i can afford to get married.

Ever since our departue,i have been busy trying to turn #1 to #100(busy hustling) to the extent i dont have passion to love. Even if i try to love,a slight mistake from her pissed me and will stop picking or return her calls

I have female friends who think we are dating but i know inside me i dont love them.

My mum was in my place on thursday only for her to ask of my girlfriend on her way going..i was left speechless(though try to change topic).

My fellow nairalander,i observe i enjoy this single life coz am more focus..... but...
*am i in my right sense?
*Should i continue like this hoping i will still meet someone i will love?


Pls ignore my error

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Go and marry oo...

I'll congratulate you if being single may have strengthened your focus...

Sadly, still, you're feeding your mind on hurt. You're punishing every other girl for the mistake of your ex-girlfriend. Find another chick and begin that love and romance journey with her again. Forget what Nairaland boys say, women are not all the same.

But even if they are, don't take life too seriously you're not getting out of it alive.

You are perfectly on the right track!

Op Stick to the advice iamadonis2 gave u.

iamadonis2:
I'll congratulate you if being single may have strengthened your focus...

Sadly, still, you're feeding your mind on hurt. You're punishing every other girl for the mistake of your ex-girlfriend. Find another chick and begin that love and romance journey with her again. Forget what Nairaland boys say, women are not all the same.

But even if they are, don't take life too seriously you're not getting out of it alive.

cant really say am purnishing other girls for her sinful act,bt the love dont just come,

to be candid,i dont see it as something serious.....
I thought i was waiting for that lady am gonna love.... Nt until my mum talked abt it

I sat and think,its going to 5yrs now.
My bro,am confused

lytech1:

cant really say am purnishing other girls for her sinful act,bt the love dont just come,

to be candid,i dont see it as something serious.....
I thought i was waiting for that lady am gonna love.... Nt until my mum talked abt it

I sat and think,its going to 5yrs now.
My bro,am confused

Bro, often times love is "induced". It won't always be love at first sight. And compatibility can be consciously "learned". You'll always get what you want your mind to get.

Bros enjoy your life, whenever u feel you love someone, then go for her but please make sure you don't use money to lure her