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6 Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner by polimaf(m): 1:43pm On Jun 27, 2017
https://www.opaquelife.com/6-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-partner/
6 Things A Lady Shouldn’t Say To Her Partner:

1.Your Ex is a bitch – Your boyfriend’s ex is probably a poor excuse for ranting out your anger. It will only create uneasiness for the both of you. He will probably say you don’t trust him or that you are insecure. As obvious as it is that she sucks, it would be a mistake to reveal how you feel about her to your boyfriend. Guys don’t like hearing they are failures so telling him he dated a failure is a huge mistake. Any negative comment about a man’s ex, however should be avoided.

2.My closest girlfriends are really hot – why on earth would someone say that? See eh, all men are perverts. Do you then have to remind them how cute this girl is, thereby arising his pervert nature. Once you mention to your man that you think one of your closest girlfriend’s is especially good-looking or that you suspect she’d be great in bed, you open the floodgates of his imagination.

3.I don’t like this part of my body – There is always this particular part of our body we want to cut out. We feel we should have been better off without. Don’t make your man know about this. Carry yourself with uttermost dignity and pride. Don’t ever say to him you hate the way your leg is, that Tesy’s leg is straight. Because when you say so, you draw your boyfriend’s attention to your physical flaws, and you poison yourself with toxic thought. Make fun of yourself all you want, how short you are or how fat you are but don’t proclaim that you “hate” anything about the way you look.

4.When will you ever put a ring on this finger? – There is nothing more heart breaking to a guy than this question. Unless the guy doesn’t want to end up with you. All men have ego and for sure the man who loves you will want to end up with you, but when you throw that question at him, you leave him worried and feeling like a failure.

5.I have bad several abortions – Who ask you? Definitely you guys must have talked about this in your early stage of relationship so why keep mentioning it? The guy might seem to be quiet about it but its sinking into his bones and he will let loose in any slightest arguments.

6.My Ex does it better – So why didn’t you stay with him? There is nothing belittling to a guy than been told another man does it better. Saying that can even make him not to want to satisfy you again since you will still prefer the other guy. It will only create an atmosphere of awkwardness and will make your boyfriend think he isn’t giving it to you like he should. Don’t make him feel there is a sex record from the past that he has to break.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner by HARDDON: 2:03pm On Jun 27, 2017
Was actually nodding along until i came number 5!

Op, may u not meet n marry a womb so distroyed because of abortions wheda 1ce or multiple times n her keeping it a secret from u!

If you know the trauma such is causing in families, u wudnt spew that thrash
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner by HARDDON: 2:03pm On Jun 27, 2017
Was actually nodding along until i came number 5!

Op, may u not meet n marry a womb so distroyed because of abortions wheda 1ce or multiple times n her keeping it a secret from u!

If you know the trauma such is causing in families, u wudnt spew that thrash

Everything is not all about blogging
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner by polimaf(m): 2:07pm On Jun 27, 2017
You are right... but read the line sire: Definitely you guys must have talked about this in your early stage of relationship so why keep mentioning it? What the article said is repetition as if its an achievement... Its one thing that must be discussed before marriage..
HARDDON:
Was actually nodding along until i came number 5!

Op, may u not meet n marry a womb so distroyed because of abortions wheda 1ce or multiple times n her keeping it a secret from u!

If you know the trauma such is causing in families, u wudnt spew that thrash

Everything is not all about blogging
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner by HARDDON: 2:26pm On Jun 27, 2017
polimaf:
You are right... but read the line sire: Definitely you guys must have talked about this in your early stage of relationship so why keep mentioning it? What the article said is repetition as if its an achievement... Its one thing that must be discussed before marriage..

Ladies lie. Most especially in such terrian.

A wise man wudnt even bother himself with such a question. He wud find out ..... go figure
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner by polimaf(m): 2:30pm On Jun 27, 2017
True that.... They tend to wanna cover that.. Its difficult to actually see a man that will love a lady who have had abortions before, so that sometimes affects their decision to say the truth.. \Above all, i will still prefer to hear the truth
HARDDON:


Ladies lie. Most especially in such terrian.

A wise man wudnt even bother himself with such a question. He wud find out ..... go figure

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