DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT AGE 22 TO 28 YEARS

Stop making mistakes. Marry now with the little you have, Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. At my age I don't have kids yet and it's my greatest regret. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You might still not succeed at your target years, so start your life early and with consistency you will grow.

When I was 22 years, I was thinking about making billions before I marry. Many years later Billions didn't come and No kids, No wife. I had an opportunity to marry the love of my life when I was 23 years in my Graduation year in school but all I was thinking was "What am I going to feed her with?"
Right now she's married to another guy, she has given birth to two kids and all grown. The guy that married her was still schooling by then but they worked on their success together.
I failed, so please If you can feed yourself 3 or 4 times a day, it means you can feed your wife and you have to believe it, Marry early and don't wait. Don't make our mistakes because I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me but they're happy in their marriage.

Trust me, it isn't about money, though it counts but rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom. You can be poor and comfortable. With a well planned life you can be happy.
What was my problem? Build mansion, buy Rolls Royce, marry a Better elegant wife? I still don't have those things I dreamed of and of course the years I wasted, I can never have them back and I mean never.
I can't be 60 years old and my kids will still be in their 20's. What am I supposed to be? Their grandfather or father?

Please young men, take my advice seriously. Let the little you have speak for you. Settle down early because God can change your life in a blink. With a good wife by your side
you will succeed.

No matter how hard life is, no matter the situation, no matter what the devil or demons will do, start your life early and stay blessed.

OP i understand your point...i also want to marry early before 26 yrs if possible.
So that by the time i hit 40...my first child will be 14/15 and at 50 years...i already have 2 or more graduates even tho i've not grown old.
At 60 i'll retire and rest to enjoy the fruit of my labour while my children are fully trained.
Nobody wants to be 60 years and still have secondary school children to train....it will weigh you down coupled with the fact that you are getting old.

But on the other hand...marriage is not a priority....Africans should remove the mentality of 'Marriage is Compulsory'.....so many pple have been affected by this norm...some pple do fast fast and end up with the wrong partner.
Parents find wife/husband for their children and the children end up unhappy.....pple have been pressurized into making the wrong decision because of marriage.
Marriage should be a choice not a priority.

SaviTar:
OP i understand your point...i also want to marry early before 26 yrs if possible.
So that by the time i hit 40...my first child will be 14/15 and at 50 years...i already have 2 or more graduates even tho i've not grown old.
At 60 i'll retire and rest to enjoy the fruit of my labour while my children are fully trained.
Nobody wants to be 60 years and still have secondary school children to train....it will weigh you down coupled with the fact that you are getting old.

But on the other hand...marriage is not a priority....Africans should remove the mentality of 'Marriage is Compulsory'.....so many pple have been affected by this norm...some pple do fast fast and end up with the wrong partner.
Parents find wife/husband for their children and the children end up unhappy.....pple have been pressurized into making the wrong decision because of marriage.
Marriage should be a choice not a priority.

yes I understand you all right but we are still Africans and Nigeria precisely.. so Broda the earlier the better

Op you just posted thrash.

You've still not made billions on your own and you think you would have with 3 or more extra mouth to feed ?

Are you okay like this ?

I'll keep saying it, with each child you have, the chances of you making it reduces.

OP you need to get a life and get busy with your miserable life.

I'm very certain you are a frustrated female in her late 30s still looking for a husband. And you want to use this your useless opportunity to school our young men and future leaders into carrying so much responsibility at a very young age.

Nigerians! MARRIAGE IS NOT COMPULSORY

Live your life to the fullest and do what pleases you, never marry out of pressure or frustration.

Again, having kids is not an investment. Y'all need to be educated. Serving this useless country in a poorly funded scheme called NYSC doesn't mean you are educated.

Never bring a Child to this world, if you can't give the poor child the very best.

Who marriage epp?

Op you are the second person posting the same story