Hello house , good morning to you all

Please i need only married people to reply this post

My question is that ,,is it ok for husband to check his wife's phone behind her back and also is it good for wife's to check thier husband's phone behind him

Pls no insult just the truth

i just want to know if its ok or not and with reasons

Thanks

Issue has been beaten, flogged, trashed and whipped in the past. The general consensus is : It is not good. Geskia!

I'm not married o...should I collect my answer back ?

Lol thanks sisioge

Why are u not comfortable with it as a married woman or man?
Marriage is not a contract, its based on love and honesty. I am married to a beautiful lady. If I am out and I forget my phone in the house, I am not scared and she is not either. He is ur husband/wife, ur best friend and partner, respect him/her, stop the ego and calm down to him/her.
What are u hiding on your phone if u love ur partner? Love is never enough in marriages this days. Secret everywhere,betrayal everywhere, no love

My own answer is a woman shd check her hubby phone in his presence but a man can check his wife's phone behind my back.

What's d essence of checking behind his/her back when you won't be able to control ur jealousy. Men plan well before using evidence without giving her any sense of notice, women would still make it obvious they know something about you behind ur back even if its not what they think so its not worth it.

See no evil hear no evil. Don't go looking for what u can't handle. Both person's should respect each other's privacy except you have an understanding to be very open and truthful with each other to the extent of sharing private information i.e phone.

Jimbiz:
Why are u not comfortable with it as a married woman or man?
Marriage is not a contract, its based on love and honesty. I am married to a beautiful lady. If I am out and I forget my phone in the house, I am not scared and she is not either. He is ur husband/wife, ur best friend and partner, respect him/her, stop the ego and calm down to him/her.
What are u hiding on your phone if u love ur partner? Love is never enough in marriages this days. Secret everywhere,betrayal everywhere, no love

Thanks so much for this honest input.

Iwakuwa ni irikuri {finding what's not lost is seeing what's lost} for lack of better translation.

@topic,the Motive is the concern, just checking to see what's on your partners phone out of Boredom or to see which pictures you don't have to transfer etc is fine. But when you check with aim of finding evidence of cheating etc is wrong. You 'll eventually find one-day and hate that you found out.

Best advice, don't be with who you don't trust and if you trust each other, then my earlier statement still holds.

And in this days of secret apps, what are you looking for, there are apps that hide individual contents on your phone.

Mbok, do I even have time to check? If she checks, Good for her, nothing to hide.