Good evening Nairalanders. My girlfriend of few months is showing traces of trying to get back her ex. I met her when she had a clash with her ex and we started dating since then. I have always noticed that she still loves her ex but since the breakup just occurred and our relationship is still young, I was hoping that she will get over it. Our relationship is moving at a fast pace, we both know our parents but I have a challenge with the issue of her Ex.
What really pissed me off lately is that I just woke up to see my fiance using her ex as her DP on Social media and using smileys indicating love under the disguise that it is the guy's birthday . I challenged her and told her to remove it but she objected and left the DP. She apologized about using the DP which I doubt she meant but failed to change the DP.
If you were in my shoes what will you have done, please I need good advice.

Forget about her and move on with ur life.

1. Your so-called girlfriend has no respect for you/your feelings. If she did, she won't have used her exes pic as dp no matter the reason behind her actions.

2. Obviously, she used you to get over the guy but she's still much in love with him, and in situations like this...once that guy shows her signs of seriousness, that's if he would. You'll be dumped by her.

If I were you, I can't take it so I would end it and ask her to go back to her ex.

yu ar on a wrong track tin. peddle her and kick hert joor.

My advice? N u better take it or I will curse u for wasting my MB
DUMP her sorry ASS!!!!!
Let go now so u can have some dignity!!!!!

Ordinary clash with her boyfriend, you came and claimed her and you are forming superman over her.

Is it irreconcilable clash? you could have given a chance for the wound to possibly heal.

I beg, park very well, you are being used to while away time

You messed up bro by going after her immediately she clashed with her ex.. Dont go after a girl that just came out of a relationship. She is obviously using u as a consolation price while her ex is the real trophy. Be smart be brave and leave her, she aint gonna be into, i am a living witness. She still have big feelings for her ex.....

Ogbeni if you never bleep that girl, try and do so before taking their advise to dump her. I'm being honest with you, don't quit her without doing the aforementioned or you'll live to regret it.

funkyibodude:
You messed up bro by going after her immediately she clashed with her ex.. Dont go after a girl that just came out of a relationship. She is obviously using u as a consolation price while her ex is the real trophy. Be smart be brave and leave her, she aint gonna be into, i am a living witness. She still have big feelings for her ex.....

I wasn't aware, just a victim of circumstance

You're just a rebound boyfriend.
She didn't really love you, she only used you to get over her ex.

break up with her, become her EX...then she'll be addicted to you too .

Benita27:
1. Your so-called girlfriend has no respect for you/your feelings. If she did, she won't have used her exes pic as dp no matter the reason behind her actions.

2. Obviously, she used you to get over the guy but she's still much in love with him, and in situations like this...once that guy shows her signs of seriousness, that's if he would. You'll be dumped by her.

If I were you, I can't take it so I would end it and ask her to go back to her ex.

now u have advice, no p

Follow this method

I did it and it worked for me


since u know she's addicted to her ex

Increase ur fûcking rate to 14times a week, by that u gat to enjoy the whole thing before it shifts it back to DT nigga

I did mine 16times a week


now she has returned to her ex

and I don't feel pained

Limibanti:

I wasn't aware, just a victim of circumstance

just find yourself a decent girl that u are sure she aint in a relationship or just outta one, whr does her ex stay?..

Limibanti:
Good evening Nairalanders. My girlfriend of few months is showing traces of trying to get back her ex. I met her when she had a clash with her ex and we started dating since then. I have always noticed that she still loves her ex but since the breakup just occurred and our relationship is still young, I was hoping that she will get over it. Our relationship is moving at a fast pace, we both know our parents but I have a challenge with the issue of her Ex.
What really pissed me off lately is that I just woke up to see my fiance using her ex as her DP on Social media and using smileys indicating love under the disguise that it is the guy's birthday . I challenged her and told her to remove it but she objected and left the DP. She apologized about using the DP which I doubt she meant but failed to change the DP.
If you were in my shoes what will you have done, please I need good advice.

For her to put up the guy on her dp and blatantly refuse to change it when you asked, bro dump her, she's not ready to be with you.

There should be absolutely no contact between them in my opinion, especially if they were really close and all lovey dovey.

You were just a rebound.

Maybe you can give her some space and see if she'll come to her senses, if not, let her be.

Sadly, you're just the rebound guy.

Have fun while it lasts, but I'll advice you not to go ahead with the relationship. The ex will always hold a sword over your head.

Limibanti:
Good evening Nairalanders. My girlfriend of few months is showing traces of trying to get back her ex. I met her when she had a clash with her ex and we started dating since then. I have always noticed that she still loves her ex but since the breakup just occurred and our relationship is still young, I was hoping that she will get over it. Our relationship is moving at a fast pace, we both know our parents but I have a challenge with the issue of her Ex.
What really pissed me off lately is that I just woke up to see my fiance using her ex as her DP on Social media and using smileys indicating love under the disguise that it is the guy's birthday . I challenged her and told her to remove it but she objected and left the DP. She apologized about using the DP which I doubt she meant but failed to change the DP.
If you were in my shoes what will you have done, please I need good advice.

How did you deal with this ? Infact I'm having similar problem.

KingAzubuike:

How did you deal with this ? Infact I'm having similar problem.

Similar problem how U just met someone like a couple of months ago and ur both engaged to be married or he is still holding on to his ex? If the latter is the problem just let him go because he's still undecided and not ready to look further.. How can u be with someone who's always looking back and expect to move forward

Use ur head

[quote author=Limibanti post=57964553]Good evening Nairalanders. My girlfriend of few months is showing traces of trying to get back her ex. I met her when she had a clash with her ex and we started dating since then. I have always noticed that she still loves her ex but since the breakup just occurred and our relationship is still young, I was hoping that she will get over it. Our relationship is moving at a fast pace, we both know our parents but I have a challenge with the issue of her Ex.
What really pissed me off lately is that I just woke up to see my fiance using her ex as her DP on Social media and using smileys indicating love under the disguise that it is the guy's birthday . I challenged her and told her to remove it but she objected and left the DP. She apologized about using the DP which I doubt she meant but failed to change the DP.
If you were in my shoes what will you have done, please I need good advice.

dkidd:

Similar problem how U just met someone like a couple of months ago and ur both engaged to be married or he is still holding on to his ex? If the latter is the problem just let him go because he's still undecided and not ready to look further.. How can u be with someone who's always looking back and expect to move forward

Use ur head

I be nìgga modafuka. ... I get this useless girl that can't get over her ex. I've tried all I can but it's jut too difficult for her.

KingAzubuike:

I be nìgga modafuka. ... I get this useless girl that can't get over her ex. I've tried all I can but it's jut too difficult for her.

Its either u leave her or die trying... ur choice nigga!

KingAzubuike:

I be nìgga modafuka. ... I get this useless girl that can't get over her ex. I've tried all I can but it's jut too difficult for her.

This what you will do bro, unknown to her start dating another babe thereby making her your side chic and make sure you fvck the living day out of her as if you are banging an olosho, increase the frequency and treat her with disdain and I don't care attitude. This is the result if you really know how to bang well she won't go she will be confused on what to do, and if this happens try and increase her committment to the rls by taking money from her by so doing she will be getting deeply committed unknown to her that she is now a side chic ( still continue the rampant banging),when you sense she is really committed DUMP her and I tell u she will beg u to take her back even as a side chic .

But note: while doing this keep your emotions in check, don't fall in love, automatically see her as an olosho.

Do this and you will thank me later lol

Abeg change that "f" to m jare u dey confuse person

He's a close nephew. He jst met a lady & they are doing goog but she still got shared feelings for my nephew & her ex.

Jst based on d fact that her ex didn't ve her time cox of work but he now comes begging seriously.

Wat can my nephew do?