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As a man, you need to act as a man,and I'd be listing out things men do that can mess up their marriage

1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.

We can't dispute the fact that this happens alot and as a man,I really don't know why we do this,but its a big threat to our marriage though.

2. Not balancing the likes of your wife and yours.

A marriage that's even 10years would crash for this if a man wants his will to top the list every time, well your wife is human,give her the chance to make a decision with what she likes too,and support what she likes,nobody will die if you two are team workers like that.

3.Shouting on your woman.

This is one hell of a big deal,its wring to shout on anyone even a 2y/o, its so wring and scary,because we are humans and we get scared when voices are raised on us,and when we are scared,we'd avoid the person one way or the other or just watch it beside the person and for someone that's married! That's just not too bad.

4.Correcting her in front of the children


5 Not having her time every time.

It's really good to make out time for your marriage and just chill out with the love of your life,the age of the marriage doesn't matter, she's your wife, not your sister,because your sister would understand you and probably not bother because she has other engagements with her friends,but your wife should be queen like that.

oga if u don't have money, ur marriage is alrdy a mess jare..... all dis wan na story

OK.

Op. Yhu must be high on animal dung.

1. Putting your wife in a jealous position.
Shouldn't this simply read:"wives, stop being INSECURE!"

3.Shouting on your woman.
Shouting is sometimes the necessary process to make a stubborn partner understand that you mean BUSINESS. For example: you wife want to put tribal marks on your kids face, so you 1st explain why this is a bad idea and how you are totally against such stuff. Next time she raise the subject, you AGAIN try to reason with her that this won't EVER happen, so to let it go.by the 10th times, you have no option but to show this woman that you mean biz (since she hasn't got a clue yet), so you shout:" biatch, I told you already, NO TRIBAL MARKS, and if you EVER raise the issue again, you best look for a new home and place to stay!"
Thus, You will never hear about tribal mark discussion again

4.Correcting her in front of the children
If wifey says something wrong in front of the kids then she should be corrected RIGJT THERE, so the kids don't ever think that what she did/does is RIGHT, and later do the same nonsense!

5. Not having her time every time
ARRANT NONSENSE, that doesn't even need a reply!!!

op are you okay or just plain stupid

What is up with this guy? The thread you are countering reeled out 15 points.... yours which is a counter thread only have five...


Maybe you should take your time to do a better research... who knows? you may come up with 25....

Where are the points?

na xo

The summary is Men love your wives and wives respect your husband and be submissive.

I agtee

Walahi...

The only thing that can really mess up your marriage and make it not last is not having a side-chick.

My wise grandfather told me that wives are like Rolls-Royce while side-chick are like Camry...

You don't overuse the Rolls Royce, you only use it when you have to use it so it does not spoil unlike the Camry which is your all-weather car.

You can't smack your wife's ass during sex, talk dirty to her or give her anal but you can readily do that and more with your side-chick and not be scared of being considered a pervert.

Honestly a healthy man's libido can not be handled by only one woman unless she wants to die before the man.
Variety is also the spice of life.
Man is not a monogamous animal and the preek is the only snake that can not live in one hole all it's life.

So if you want your marriage to last long, start looking outside now.

did he bribe the mods 4 free front page?

Well, you can also get your wife a VOGUE sunshade..

Check my signature..

Story story

is that all?

if i observe those 5 my marriage will last?

i swear the OPs destiny is in copy and paste

NL never fails to surprise me by creating counter threads

A man doing all these doesn't matter, if the woman is thoughtless, bad, evil, or unforgiving, she'll still do what will make the man use bottle and break her head (That was a joke)


Point is, both parties should fight earnestly for their marriage.

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some are right while some are op, you can't have a woman time every time ,some women are what economics call insatiable, even though you mad for them, if I lie make I naked baf, I rest my case make it not cause trouble

You think you know what women want? Mtseeeuw

Not having her time everytimw... Okay oo.

Op, nice points but below are some crucial ones;

6. Not Being A True Leader.

What exactly does this mean? A husband must know where the family ought to be heading per time, money is not an issue here. Women cheat on their hubbies coz he ain't got no spine of a leader. He has no principles So they all build on rubbles. The wife automatically takes after him, so will his kids.

7. Being lazy and lack of creativity

By design, women love to boast in their men. They love to show off what their husband bought for them. When a man is lazy and won't go to work, he's altering the master plan. It's not bad for a woman to help out financially. A lazy man's wife will always cheat on home except she has self-control and is patient.


8. Not Covering Their Tracks Effectively£

Evans wife said she didn't know her hubby was into kidnapping. If that is true, it means Evans is a smart one. Bad smart asss. Man will be dating a small girl as old as his 2nd daughter and be seen in a nearby bar with that hore. Or he trying to date his daughter's friends. So embarrassing! Don't wash your dirty linen, Sir. That endorses the act to your family.

9. Exposing Your Kids To Your Sexual Relationship With Your Wife.

Yes, this happens. They all live in one-room apartment. At night parents began to do the do. My guy can't sleep at night. He goes to school wondering. Then he started hitting out on girls at such an early age just to have a taste of what keeps him awake all night.
This can ruin a whole family; the kids and even the parents at the long run.

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Op spell "wrong"

To all "I don't give a fvck" soldiers do not give a fvck ,I repeat do not give a fvck ..it is an order *over

Just handover your cheque book to her and she won't care about all this points enumerated above.

You can shout at her when you come home with a ticket to Disneyland Paris and your marriage will still remain intact.

That's it? Just like that